No. I don't think I even believe in sexuality. I don't like everything being labelled, because that way straight is the default and the norm and going against it is "bad". Besides, love is love. I don't think love is defined by gender and I think anybody, given the right circumstances, could fall in love with someone of the same/opposite sex.
But, I am in the majority. I can marry who I love. I can walk in public holding his hand. I can adopt a child with him, should I choose. I can go to church without the fear of being stared at or kicked out. I can join scouting. I can make decisions for my partner and our children. I can get social security benefits should he die, and inherit our home. I can do so many things, so many of us take for granted, that gay people cannot.
I'm not sure what warranted that reply of yours. I answered a question, saying that I don't feel the need to explain my sexuality to others. I have no idea what your reply meant.
I've been single for about 9 or 10 years( somewhere in there), and haven't had a boyfriend since my ex. People who know me closely know how I am, so they don't ask anymore.
Sometimes people need it explained to them.
I don't know why...