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Do You Ever Feel Like You Were Born The Wrong Gender?

Sinister Ken Doll™ 2012/07/10 18:35:42
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Like, if you're a girl, do you ever feel that maybe you should have been born a guy?
Or if you're a guy, do you ever feel that you should have been a girl?
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  • Rave 2012/07/11 17:16:53
    I Don't Know
    Rave
    +7
    When I was a kid, hell, I really wanted to be a guy. I didn't like any girls in my class or get along with them, I thought all 'girly things' were boring. I played football and video games with the guys, got in trouble a lot etc.

    When I turned 12 I also noticed I was attracted to girls, and strangely, that's the point when I really realized that I liked being a girl. I suppose because I began to idolize other girls more too and didn't think girls were so boring after all.

    But now that I'm an adult, I'm fine with my body, and know that the fact that I don't have the mentality of a "typical female" doesn't have anything to do with the body I have and it doesn't bother me. I honestly think my brain has always been a bit gender-neutral.

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  • Emo Rocker 2013/04/04 07:53:55
    Hellz Yeah!
    Emo Rocker
    Yes, I have and I've studied it, I believe one, we are born into sin, and because of this people are born with hair-lips, missing limbs, etc... Two: our society has a very narrow vision of what is a man and what is a woman and the box, especially for men is getting smaller and smaller. I can tell you if I was not a Christian this is something I would never been able to handle, but by the grace of God go I. Now I can embrace the fact that I am male, and I do have some feminine characteristics about me, but I'm straight and I God is with me. I would say pray, let the Lord guide you.
  • addie 2013/04/04 04:08:25
    Hellz No!
    addie
    +1
    No, but it must be a horrible to live with that feeling.
  • Kiki,Pixie,Worm 2013/04/04 01:30:48
    Hellz No!
    Kiki,Pixie,Worm
    +1
    I like being a girl...Sure it comes with some difficulties, but it's not anything I can't handle. It isn't like it is easy to be a guy anyways...
  • Rowena Ravenclaw 2013/04/04 01:08:43 (edited)
    Hellz Yeah!
    Rowena Ravenclaw
    +2
    All the time. :s I am transgendered so it makes since.
  • questionsparks 2013/04/04 00:58:11
    I Don't Know
    questionsparks
    +1
    I tried to cut off my genitals when I was younger, one time I tried pouring gasoline on them with the intention of lighting them on fire. Gasoline is painful enough on it's own though...

    These days I kind of don't want to deal with the whole transition. I don't really care but if I had the choice to magically become the opposite sex without going through transition and to pass as a the opposite sex, actually have periods and be able to become pregnant... I'd take that option.

    But that's not how it works so I'm okay with settling for being in this body, but I have a lot of respect for transpeople who make that transition. And I'm typically happy for them when they're pleased with the results.
  • Keith questio... 2013/04/04 13:22:08
    Keith
    You need professional help.
  • questio... Keith 2013/04/04 17:18:38
    questionsparks
    Just telling my story. You need, "It's none of your damn business what I do to my body" help.
  • american patriot 2013/04/04 00:28:44
    Hellz No!
    american patriot
    +1
    No. I've always just felt like a female. Never thought I should be anything other than a female. I enjoy being a female.
  • Pinky 2013/04/04 00:17:10
    I Don't Know
    Pinky
    +1
    I do like to crossdress once in a while.
  • Catch224u 2013/04/04 00:09:31
    Hellz No!
    Catch224u
    +1
    WHAT, according to this poll, there are more people that are insecure with their sexuality than not. What is this a meeting place for transsexual freaks?
  • Jack's Pearl 2013/04/04 00:04:47
    Hellz No!
    Jack's Pearl
    +1
    Nope. But I know people who have and I feel for them.
  • XxBriannaVonVanityxX 2013/03/29 20:38:01
    I Don't Know
    XxBriannaVonVanityxX
    +1
    Sometimes. Some days I feel like I should've been a boy but some days I don't. .-.
  • Ennata ~WildChild~ 2013/03/28 04:02:57
    Hellz Yeah!
    Ennata ~WildChild~
    +1
    I should've been born male.
  • JebusBiscuit 2013/03/27 08:15:39 (edited)
    Hellz Yeah!
    JebusBiscuit
    +1
    Definitely should have been born a woman. and not cuz i wanna have boobs like most guys would think. my body just feels so foreign to me. its kinda like...well.... i have no idea what to compare it to other than what it feels like....i'm considering suicide but i would probably chicken out... so life will just go on sucking for me but such is life, right?

    (me=14 yrs old, if that changes your opinion on my comment)

    Also i haven't told anyone
  • Siniste... JebusBi... 2013/03/27 19:27:37
    Sinister Ken Doll™
    Age doesn't make a difference in your feelings. If this is who you are, then it's who you are. Killing yourself definitely won't make anything better and things can get better. There are communities and sports group for other people like you, and I'm sure that someday you can find some help or solace. Good luck <3
  • Goducks5 2013/03/10 09:21:31
    Hellz No!
    Goducks5
    +1
    I don't feel like I was born as the wrong gender but I wouldn't mind experiencing being a girl. I would have boobs also.
  • skunkfart 2013/03/10 01:17:27
    Hellz No!
    skunkfart
    +1
    I like me how I am. I be thuggin
  • jflip 2013/03/10 00:29:04
    Hellz No!
    jflip
    +1
    If I was a girl I would have killed myself.
  • jojac 2012/09/03 04:04:01
    Hellz No!
    jojac
    +1
    I praise God that I am male. But if I was female I would praise God for that too,
    because He is all wise and all knowing and He doesn't make any mistakes.
  • CatyaSho 2012/09/01 17:43:53
    Hellz No!
    CatyaSho
    +1
    I've always been attracted to women but that was never a reason for me to question whether or not I am in fact female.
    I want to be a girl and luckly I was born one. To my mum's distress I must say since she doesn't like that I most likely won't have any natural children.
  • Magical Mushroom 2012/09/01 16:49:15
    Hellz No!
    Magical Mushroom
    +1
    Being a girl is the most awesome thing.
    seduce
  • Kelly~BigBang~Daniel~♥ K-POP 2012/09/01 13:23:25
    Hellz Yeah!
    Kelly~BigBang~Daniel~♥ K-POP
    +1
    Sometimes I think I would have been better off if i was born a boy, im already told that im like a boy alot.
  • Danni 2012/08/31 12:00:32
    Hellz Yeah!
    Danni
    +3
    I'am Male,since i was young i always feel that i have wrong body and i always wish to be female.It really hurts me a lot cause i'am coming from conservative relagion family.
  • mandyinabox 2012/08/14 08:10:49
    I Don't Know
    mandyinabox
    +3
    I've strugged with gender often, i sometimes wonder if i'd have liked childhood better as a girl & less likely to have been Aspy/introverted so much...i like to imagine myself as female, but not like super-femme & into Barbie dolls & such, more of a tomboy...that's why i'm female on here & other places, it feels closer to my gender (as opposed to having a major gender dysphoria, more like the softer appearance and freedom to do 'girly' things is nice)
  • ben 2012/07/21 14:39:38
    Hellz No!
    ben
    +1
    born a male..love being a male..that's it in a nutshell. lol
  • Red 2012/07/15 04:01:26
  • ben Red 2012/07/21 14:43:17
    ben
    +1
    you're fine...key word "taught"..people can teach you anything...unfortunately once it starts to grow...a lot of times it's hard to uproot it. but it can be done...the better you is in there..let her out! lol
  • Red ben 2012/07/23 22:20:57
  • YourCompanionCube 2012/07/13 03:41:12
    I Don't Know
    YourCompanionCube
    +2
    Sometimes. I don't think I was born in the wrong gender often, but sometimes I feel like I want to be...
  • Nimitz 2012/07/12 20:40:37
    Hellz Yeah!
    Nimitz
    +2
    Forget gender! I feel like I was born on the wrong friggin' planet!
  • ben Nimitz 2012/07/21 14:44:48
    ben
    +2
    leave Mars out of this! lol
  • RachelA7X 2012/07/12 20:02:43
    Hellz Yeah!
    RachelA7X
    +2
    All the time
  • La 2012/07/12 04:32:38
    Hellz No!
    La
    +3
    Nah, I know I am supposed to be a girl :) Being a girl is awesome.
  • I Don't Know
    Pixie·ŸŸMzAwesome♠ƤĦĂĔŢ♠
    +4
    I do though wish I could change my gender at wish.
  • ben Pixie·Ÿ... 2012/07/21 14:47:05
    ben
    +1
    i think we want to do this..when there's an advantage being the other gender...now if that were possible...life wouldtake on a whole new meaning :-))
  • mandyin... Pixie·Ÿ... 2012/08/14 08:15:29
    mandyinabox
    +3
    I wish i could too! man, that'd be so cool if like we could all try that, or if the world suddenly all reversed gender for like a week... like daayyyyuuuuummmmmm!! O_O
  • Link Pixie·Ÿ... 2012/09/01 11:22:24 (edited)
    Link
    +1
    I hear ya there... that has always been a fantasy of mine... to be able to change gnder at will and decide what I want to look like each time...
  • Rave 2012/07/11 17:16:53
    I Don't Know
    Rave
    +7
    When I was a kid, hell, I really wanted to be a guy. I didn't like any girls in my class or get along with them, I thought all 'girly things' were boring. I played football and video games with the guys, got in trouble a lot etc.

    When I turned 12 I also noticed I was attracted to girls, and strangely, that's the point when I really realized that I liked being a girl. I suppose because I began to idolize other girls more too and didn't think girls were so boring after all.

    But now that I'm an adult, I'm fine with my body, and know that the fact that I don't have the mentality of a "typical female" doesn't have anything to do with the body I have and it doesn't bother me. I honestly think my brain has always been a bit gender-neutral.
  • Bibliop... Rave 2012/09/02 01:42:28
    Bibliophilic
    +1
    Maybe it's time to trash the concept that there's a mentality of the typical female in the first place. :)
  • Erica⚓ 2012/07/11 15:22:41
    Hellz Yeah!
    Erica⚓
    +2
    I like being a girl and all, but I just feel like things would be a lot easier if I were a guy.

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