Do you dislike it when people talk about their sex life in public?

by XENON23 Posted 2011/02/28 09:41:01

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	Yes	208 votes	59%
	No	74 votes	21%
	Undecided	71 votes	20%

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2013/01/11 12:38:51

Yes

It's wrong! It's disrespectful to the partner. Notonly that, but I'm embarrassed when people openly sharethese things. There's nothing wrong with sex--as long as the details are kept between the people who have it. When people start talking like that, I usually let them know I'm uncomfortable with it.

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Eric 2012/10/07 19:27:10

Yes

Especially the people measure there coolness by how many times they get laid.

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Charmaine 2012/07/19 21:51:34

Yes

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It is something intimate and private!!!

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Ajia 2012/07/19 21:21:57

Yes

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Yes, like idgaf and I'm sure neither does anybody else

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RobHom 2012/07/18 23:27:30

Yes

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low class and asinine......

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Texas Gal 2012/07/18 23:19:40

Yes

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What intimate matters occur between people should be between those people -- and I don't want to hear about it.

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TerryAgee 2012/07/18 17:23:30

Undecided

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LOL I like to hear gossip just as much as the next person.

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Lizzeh 2012/07/18 12:26:41

Yes

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That is one thing I cannot stand. In sophomore and junior year of high school I had these friends that were.. I'm not gonna lie, they were whores. All of them. And we sat at a table FULL of stoners. And they were also whores. They would actually discuss at the freakin' lunch table how they would mess around with each other. I got so sick of it I just moved tables. I'd rather sit by myself than be around that. But eventually a friend of mine also moved with me.

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Carson 2012/07/18 07:21:38

No

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It doesnt bother me and gives me something to listen to.

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Nimitz 2012/07/18 05:17:13

No

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Not if they're bragging, and not if they're bragging about me. :-D

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Sammy 2012/07/18 03:51:54

Yes

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Its gross

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Red_Horse 2012/07/18 03:50:13 (edited)
XRenX 2012/07/18 03:45:02

Yes

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When I was in the sixth grade, someone else in my grade told me about what his girl wanted him to do to her. O_o ..........T_T

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Raphy 2012/07/18 03:42:45

Yes

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Do that in privacy of your on home

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Andy 2012/07/18 03:41:22

Yes

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It is as though they are trying to draw attention to themselves... as though they are the only ones having sex!!

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cherryphi 2012/07/17 21:41:23 (edited)

Yes

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Talking about sex in general is cool. Being unwittingly made part of other people's foreplay is not.

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bonnyboy 2012/02/01 15:03:05

Undecided

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For me the braggers are always overweight women. What's up with that? I guess they feel insecure and are talking (lying?) to overcompensate for their short comings. I feel sorry for their husbands. My husband wouldn't want me talking about our personal sex life to anyone. Our relationship is serious. We're not in highschool.

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cherryphi to bonnyboy 2012/07/18 02:11:16

Yup, I've noticed this, too. I'm not so sure if they are lying though. It is said that people who feel less attractive try to compensate by being good in bed. It's a great adaption strategy. But what happens is they then use socially and sexually predatory behavior to get back at women they perceive as more attractive/advantaged. (Perceive being the operative word). First, two wrongs don't make a right. And second, no one should have to affirm another in their worth at the expense of their own.

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SouthernB 2011/04/05 04:23:25

Yes

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I pretty much do. Girls don't really do it in front of guys, and when guys do it in front of guys, it's better than a 50-50 chance that they are lying to some degree. So it's not worth listening to. Personally, I think that it's disrespectful to my wife to talk about our sex life to others.

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Jack 2011/03/21 06:28:50

No

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What they do is their own private affair but sometimes things they tell us can make us improve our physical and emotional relationship with our partner.

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cherryphi to Jack 2012/07/17 21:46:30

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Hmm..Jack...I've heard this argument before. And from a purely empirical standpoint, you are right.The problem I have is that most people who are dying to tell me about their sex lives do so not to benefit me but to gratify themselves. I become part of their foreplay. Maybe you enjoy being put into this role, but I don't. And no unsolicited advice however glorious can make up for being forced to something you haven't consented to.

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Jack to cherryphi 2012/07/18 01:35:27

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Hi, Cherryphi, if I don't consent to hearing more than I need to know, I'll politely cut off the topic or change the conversation. I not into listening to people bragging about their prowess in bed and the conquering that they had done. It just show the low respect they have for women. I think you are a women and if people tells you about their sex lives just to gratify themselves and use you for foreplay, you should too cut them off. They are in a way having mental sex with you as you would not be having physical sex with them.

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cherryphi to Jack 2012/07/18 02:00:33

And women and men do this equally, in my experience. the days of men owning the locker room mentality are gone.

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memebev1 2011/03/13 17:28:39

Yes

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Makes you wonder if they even have one..

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BlondieBrownEyes 2011/03/13 14:33:08 (edited)
Laja to Blondie... 2011/03/19 00:27:31

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Hey, I resemble that remark.

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Blondie... to Laja 2011/03/19 00:29:09 (edited)
Laja to Blondie... 2011/03/19 00:34:42

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Well at least I don't kiss and tell.

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Blondie... to Laja 2011/03/19 02:52:22
Laja to Blondie... 2011/03/19 02:56:21

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I'm too much of a gentleman for that. Or too scared I'll get caught. I'm not sure which, lol.

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Blondie... to Laja 2011/03/19 02:57:15
Laja to Blondie... 2011/03/19 03:09:00

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That would be me, Let me know when you want to go.

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Blondie... to Laja 2011/03/19 15:20:39
bl4Ck niGhTm4Re 2011/03/10 03:36:06

Yes

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it's nasty and none cares

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Blondie... to bl4Ck n... 2011/03/13 14:33:24
Annie~Pro American~Pro Israel 2011/03/09 09:11:46

Yes

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Yes, I hate it. I don't wanta know about anyone else's sex life. The less I know, the better.

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shobizniz 2011/03/05 18:32:42

Yes

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I am a male, and of course if it was a nice looking female telling me about it, then I would probably listen. But really dont care to hear of it from another male. I would be wondering who he was trying to convince, His self or me !

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Blondie... to shobizniz 2011/03/13 14:33:40
Mawiie 2011/03/04 19:53:38

Undecided

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I don't care except if there is too much details.

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tikiteek 2011/03/04 19:34:36

No

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It makes me think their sex life ain't all that, if they have to constanly talk about it.

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