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Do you choose your sexual orientation or are you born with it?

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  • ghostrider 2011/08/10 03:25:11
    You are born with your sexual orienation
    ghostrider
    +9
    For those who vote "choose" ... just at what stage in one's life does one decide to make that "choice"?

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  • Dax 2011/10/21 16:06:31
    You are born with your sexual orienation
    Dax
    Born with it. You don't get a choice. Who would choose to be part of a minority who gets bullied to death, experience lesser rights, and are discriminated against? ask yourself this next time you aren't sure.
  • James 2011/08/22 01:37:27
    You are born with your sexual orienation
    James
    or so I have been told
  • asdfghjkl 2011/08/18 10:03:26
    You are born with your sexual orienation
    asdfghjkl
    When you just decide to be Gay, or watev because you want to be different that is when you have no life. :s
  • Elz 2011/08/16 22:10:40
    You are born with your sexual orienation
    Elz
    oh no i got it wrong. yeah i think u most likely choose it.
  • dark red 2011/08/16 18:48:24
    You choose your sexual orienation
    dark red
    i was born a girl. i am a butch lesbian.
  • Eddie 2011/08/16 17:24:30
    You are born with your sexual orienation
    Eddie
    So much is made of this question on both sides of the aisle. I believe it is a biological issue rather than a choice issue. I mean you don't choose to be black, white or asian. So what makes people think you choose to be gay. The characteristics of which often become obvious in early childhood. Are we to think that a child of 10 to 12 years of age has chosen to be gay?
  • disclaimer 2011/08/14 21:53:55
    You are born with your sexual orienation
    disclaimer
    +1
    There are people who may experiment, but in the end, you can't really choose. My dad's coworker knew he was gay for years, and tried to cover it up by marrying and having four children. How do we think this ended?
  • bettyboop 2011/08/13 09:53:59
    You are born with your sexual orienation
    bettyboop
    Nobody told me any different..I was born me, a girl....I did not choose this, this is what I got from the good Lord. told born girl choose lord girls
  • joe ramirez 2011/08/13 01:07:38
    You are born with your sexual orienation
    joe ramirez
    The creator who made us created us for a specific purpose. Male and female so we can procreate the way he designed us.
  • Chancy99: Plague Rat 2011/08/12 15:32:14
    You are born with your sexual orienation
    Chancy99: Plague Rat
    +1
    You're Born With It, No matter if its gay, straight, Bisexual, pansexual, asexual, whatever. I think We all just come aware of What our orientation is as we get older. I think the only real choice about our sexuality is to be open about who we are, or lie about it.
  • Anariashki 2011/08/12 08:45:03
    You are born with your sexual orienation
    Anariashki
    +1
    If I could pick being normal in this regard, do you think I wouldn't? There are so much better ways to assert uniqueness that I can't believe anyone thinks people pick sexuality to do it.
  • classicdisney1 2011/08/12 07:21:14
    You choose your sexual orienation
    classicdisney1
    +1
    I believe that you choose it, because when you are born, you're not really aware of the world or its people yet.
  • skittlesgirl 2011/08/12 03:53:00
    You are born with your sexual orienation
    skittlesgirl
    +1
    The ones that choose are just going through a phase.
  • LOCO HOT COCO 2011/08/11 23:56:35
    You are born with your sexual orienation
    LOCO HOT COCO
    +2
    you are attracted to who you are attracted to over time it might change but you dont chose
  • Pops 2011/08/11 21:56:55
    Undecided
    Pops
    +1
    I haven't researched this recently. But I have a dim memory of someone possibly a teacher telling me the sexual orientation was determined after birth.
  • sweetgreatmom 2011/08/11 21:13:32
    Undecided
    sweetgreatmom
    +1
    I am straight, I can't speak for anyone else. I don't want to assume anything.
  • rog 2011/08/11 21:10:06
    You are born with your sexual orienation
    rog
    +2
    I believe you are born with your sexual orientation. There are those that choose, but I think it's more of an attempt to try and fit in somewhere than anything. If you're truly gay, my belief is that you're born that way. Be proud of yourself, regardless of your sexual orientation, and don't let the yaps get ya down.
  • William Day 2011/08/11 19:48:34
    Undecided
    William Day
    +2
    I think it is a combination of BOTH genes and the life experiences. Not that they choose, but not that all of them are born with it either.
  • CassieRosaVioletta 2011/08/11 19:15:50
    Undecided
    CassieRosaVioletta
    +1
    I don't believe that our character/orientation is laid out for us at birth...that would mean that we have no free will over who we are. I think that the things happen to us throughout our life shape our orientation, conciously or unconciously.
  • ValorNET 2011/08/11 17:22:35
    Undecided
    ValorNET
    +1
    Oh, I'm very decided. It's BOTH. Circumstances varry, but BOTH are plausable.
  • Kat 2011/08/11 16:51:13
    Undecided
    Kat
    +1
    I think MOST are born with it.
  • Mandy 2011/08/11 13:03:44
    You are born with your sexual orienation
    Mandy
    +1
    At least I was. No way could I be gay.
  • nicoleosaurus 2011/08/11 12:06:14
    Undecided
    nicoleosaurus
    +1
    I thought it was...like...your upbringing.
    Like, if you had a difficult childhood or are around homosexuals then you have a higher chance of being homosexual. That sorta thing.
    But that might not be true.
  • wcpjams 2011/08/11 10:35:56
    Undecided
    wcpjams
    +1
    I really don't have an answer for that. I'm just glad I was born Heterosexual.
  • GayButNowFree 2011/08/11 10:20:47
    You are born with your sexual orienation
    GayButNowFree
    +1
    Actually I chose mine at birth. I forgot I had chosen it, though, until I was a bit older.
  • Taylor 2011/08/11 03:24:28
    You are born with your sexual orienation
    Taylor
    +1
    98% of the time... but as ith anything else in life there are exceptions
  • Josef 2011/08/11 03:13:24
    You are born with your sexual orienation
    Josef
    +1
    Of course you are born with it, but some guys need long time to realize what's their orientation. In some societies it is very difficult to be bi or gay, so they live a lie. But this is not really a choice.
  • GoDucks5 Josef 2011/08/11 04:19:09
    GoDucks5
    +2
    In some countries you can be killed for being gay.
  • Josef GoDucks5 2011/08/11 10:52:26
    Josef
    +1
    I'm afraid, that's true.
  • Lerro DeHazel 2011/08/11 02:57:13
    You choose your sexual orienation
    Lerro DeHazel
    +1
    You can also choose to NOT be so "orientated" on just about everything that moves in this world and stuff that remains still . . . Like, who cares if you have to be orientated in something? . . . I know what let's do . . . Let's spend about a 3 or 4 hundred billion dollars on being orientated in stuff . .. . Why not? If you don't want to contribute to the Orientated Factor by Midnight April 15th, then you are a Bigot and Orientated Phobic . . .
  • TommyC 2011/08/11 01:45:52
    You are born with your sexual orienation
    TommyC
    +1
    everyone was either born gay or born straight
  • Taylor TommyC 2011/08/11 03:25:17
    Taylor
    +1
    or somewhere in between
  • TommyC Taylor 2011/08/13 01:26:55
    TommyC
    yes that 2 lol
  • The Impossible Girl ✿ 2011/08/11 01:41:30
    Undecided
    The Impossible Girl ✿
    +3
    I was certain that you were born with it but now I'm starting to think that your mind is already set that way but you don't realize it till later.
  • Jack's Pearl 2011/08/11 01:35:42
    You are born with your sexual orienation
    Jack's Pearl
    +1
    I didn't pick being heterosexual anymore then someone is homosexual.
  • King of the woodland realm 2011/08/11 00:44:59
    You are born with your sexual orienation
    King of the woodland realm
    +1
    yea right
  • RobertRowe 2011/08/10 23:43:46
    Undecided
    RobertRowe
    +2
    with guys i say DEFINITELY BORN with it. women i see both born and choice. i know a handfull of ladies who i went to school with me who dated big time A$$HOLES and are now lesbos.
  • Cunning... RobertRowe 2011/08/11 01:52:53
    Cunningmungus
    +1
    It does seem like some of them get that luxury to choose.
  • ted 2011/08/10 22:46:35
    Undecided
    ted
    +4
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  • Lerro D... ted 2011/08/11 03:00:00
    Lerro DeHazel
    +1
    Who is that first one? . . .
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