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  • Memnon 2012/07/20 11:18:12
    Sometimes
    Memnon
    +2
    Not overly. I know too many people who's own egos stifle objective judgement! ego
  • George ... Memnon 2012/07/20 14:24:51
    George Zook
    +1
    That's a tough personal nut to crack ... thank god I believe that it is progress not perfection
  • DANNY59 2012/07/20 11:16:58
    Yes
    DANNY59
    +2
    I've never had someone dislike me, and I would like to keep it that way. I Love ALL people, so what they think about me is important.
  • hasher 2012/07/20 11:04:38
    No
    hasher
    +2
    no im,very comfortable in my own skin. and i think im a likeable person and the ones who dont like me arent worth being my friend anyway.because they dont really know me.
  • william raggett 2012/07/20 10:23:11
    Yes
    william raggett
    +2
    I care what others think but it doesn't change me nor am I phoney to get people to like me. People that I have met that say they don'y care are usually AH and very rude people that most don't care to be around
  • Revkae 2012/07/20 09:55:20
    Yes
    Revkae
    +2
    Any person who wants to be vital to those they love, and those whose opinion matters to them does care to a degree, how they are thought of by others. What matters to me is, do my friends feel safe with me? do they know that their thoughts and feelings are very important and that I would hold them as safely as they do for me. Those who have a disability,as I do, already fear whether people will look at me as someone who is less than another. We have to work that out on our own. There was one time when , for the first time after being run over by a hit and run driver,I realized that I was different now. I was in Tower Records, and there was a very nice looking man on the opposite side of the isle from me. He was checking me out as much as I was checking him out. He looked into my eyes, and he blushed. That made me blush. Little by little we were reaching the end of the isle.He looked at my face, then his eyes moved to my hair, and then he looked down and saw my cane, and his face went blank. He suddenly looked uncomfortable and as if he couldn't leave the store fast enough. So, Yes, it does matter what others think of me. Now I am a stronger person and know that we all have our vulnerabilities, and we must treat others with respect.
  • Marianne 2012/07/20 09:46:22
    Sometimes
    Marianne
    +3
    Most of us care or must care, for professional, social or private reasons.
    On the other hand, we must not bother too much about what other people think of us, as long as we are sincere, loyal, honest and openminded.
  • rand 2012/07/20 08:52:35
    No
    rand
    +2
    I've introspected far too often and too deeply to think that someone else has a better understanding of me than I do. People's opinions of me reflect who they are much more than they do who I really am.
  • Rebellion 2012/07/20 08:47:47
    No
    Rebellion
    +2
    Why to care ? I know who I am, my flaws, and I'm perfect.
  • JoLost 2012/07/20 07:23:59
    Sometimes
    JoLost
    +3
    peers whom I hold a high esteem towards and my "friends with benefits" opinions of me is important and mean a great deal. But just the average "bump" on the social highways opinion of me has zero effect and means absolutely nothing to me.
  • TheCouchF*cker 2012/07/20 07:18:38
    Sometimes
    TheCouchF*cker
    +3
    Depends on who it is.
  • USAF Vet 2012/07/20 07:11:06 (edited)
    No
    USAF Vet
    +1
    When you finally reach my age, you'll understand that NO ONE out there gives a crap about you, save two exceptions; your spouse and perhaps some (not all) of your immediate family members. Thus, I rightfully don't give a rats a$$ what anyone thinks about me.
  • hasher USAF Vet 2012/07/20 11:06:29
    hasher
    +1
    dittos on that!!! me too!! you must be over 50
  • Chanel 2012/07/20 07:10:33
    Yes
    Chanel
    +2
    Maybe too much...
  • Angel* 2012/07/20 07:04:48
    Sometimes
    Angel*
    +2
    I was an abused child that destroyed and killed that child I was, so I tried to please
    everyone around me. Now that I try to live my own truth, I lost many people I loved
    but today I try to be nice to everyone but if they don't like me, how I live or any part of
    My life, they can kiss my Puerto Rican A.s on there way out the door of my life.
  • Jrogers 2012/07/20 06:56:58
    Sometimes
    Jrogers
    +2
    I do not want the employees to think I am a witch so I am very careful about what I say and how I say it - so sometimes yes
  • Dzeeng 2012/07/20 06:49:39
    No
    Dzeeng
    +1
    You"ll never please everyone
  • Marcie Darkheart 2012/07/20 06:47:03
    No
    Marcie Darkheart
    +2
    Why the hell should I? People like to knock other people down because they have a really bad life. If they're really caring about what I'm wearing or doing or some shyt, that means they're trying to distract themselves.
  • 7 minutes ago... 2012/07/20 06:43:02
    Sometimes
    7 minutes ago...
    +3
    Eh...not really, this is me: lazy, fun, boring, hungry, fat on the inside, im Asian so im a little short down there, im outgoing (sometimes), aggressive when pushed, nice, awesome, and epic.
  • Katt 2012/07/20 06:41:39 (edited)
    No
    Katt
    +2
    Only my family, friends and God's opinion. Growing up when people were always talking about me when I did absolutely nothing to them I learned not to care. It only makes you stronger.
  • ruisoares65 2012/07/20 06:39:32
  • Nimitz 2012/07/20 06:39:05
    Sometimes
    Nimitz
    +2
    Caring about what others think of you works on a sliding scale. The older you get (especially past high school), the less it matters.

    Ultimately, only three opinions really matter. Those of your God, your significant other(s) and your boss.
  • BubbaGrrl 2012/07/20 06:39:02
    Yes
    BubbaGrrl
    +2
    God DAMN IT!!!!!!!1 I meant NO!!! WAY!!!! I don't give a Sh!T what people think of me....They usally just call me ugly or fat....or something along them lines.... LOL So it don't bother me, I am ME!!! If ya don't like PISS OFF :D hahaha LOL
  • Revkae BubbaGrrl 2012/07/20 10:11:31
    Revkae
    +2
    Namaste, BubbaGrrl
  • Yes
    Jersey Roze ♥Jwon's Cyar'ika ♥
    +1
    Especially if they are wrong. The thing I hate most is being misunderstood...
  • GoDucks5 Jersey ... 2012/07/20 06:45:10
    GoDucks5
    +1
    I hate that too, the thing I hate most when someone judges when they don't even know me. A lot of people do that on here though. I just tell them that they haven't met me so please don't judge me. It's pretty annoying. There are some trolls on Sodahead though but it's nothing compared to Youtube but a lot of more people use Youtube. It's like every video have 12 year olds arguing on it though. I hope they are 12, I hope these idiots aren't adult because they should be a lot more mature. It's sad how immature some people are though.
  • hasher GoDucks5 2012/07/20 11:10:08
    hasher
    +1
    i like you just fine you seem like a nice kid. you remind me of one of my sons. ask too many questions sometimes but other than that youre ok,.be comfortable in your own skin and dont worry about what others think of you the only person you need to please right noware your parents and God. everyone else doesnt matter.
  • GoDucks5 hasher 2012/07/21 03:49:07
    GoDucks5
    Thank you.
  • Revkae GoDucks5 2012/07/21 01:13:31 (edited)
    Revkae
    +1
    I understand what you are talking about in regards to people hating on you here, but thankfully it's only one person that consistently sends me hate mail. I just blocked her/him ( can't tell by their systems name). Now I have control over how much hate comes to me. ( I LOVE THE BLOCK FUNCTION).
  • GoDucks5 Revkae 2012/07/21 03:49:25
    GoDucks5
    I never block anyone even if I don't like them and they are rude to me.
  • Gio 2012/07/20 06:32:59
    None of the above
    Gio
    +2
    I used to, and it ruined me, but now I could care less what people think. I'm me and that's about as unique as it's gonna get!
  • James 2012/07/20 06:32:10
    No
    James
    +3
    Life's too short. Be the best you can be with other people, and then move on. You'll never please everyone.
  • YourGurll<3 2012/07/20 06:32:06
    No
    YourGurll<3
    +2
    I know they're just jealous.
  • Willski 2012/07/20 06:31:39
    No
    Willski
    +2
    Nope. No reason to, their thoughts.
  • User Deactivated 2012/07/20 06:31:24
    Sometimes
    User Deactivated
    +2
    I care more about how they treat me than what they think of me, but depending on the person, yeah I care sometimes. More often than not, I couldn't care less though.
  • Dagon 2012/07/20 06:31:13
  • C4TSMILEY 2012/07/20 06:30:47
  • TheTruth1313 2012/07/20 06:30:46
  • artistheweapon 2012/07/20 06:30:39
  • ~Bubbles!~ 2012/07/20 06:30:14
    No
    ~Bubbles!~
    +1
    NEVER HAHa i dont give a f***

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