Do You Believe the Saying 'Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater'?

The Big Question 2012/11/15 21:56:43
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  • hippie.chic (>‿◠)✌ 2012/11/15 23:39:29
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    I believe people make mistakes. However, in the case of a cheater, if you do it, you better be ready for the consequences of it. And if the person you cheat on, forgives you, you best stay true, because chances are you will NOT get a second chance.

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  • skorpios 2013/06/28 00:05:16
    Seems to be that way most of the time! :(
  • Trini 2012/11/21 07:50:17
    Only if you're caught.
  • mizzSHADYgirl 2012/11/16 22:32:23
    Most of the time yes, but there are some exceptions to the rule. I wouldn't forgive easily if i got cheated on.
  • MsDianna 2012/11/16 21:22:50
    have to go on living and not do it again. we've all made mistakes
  • A. J. Kenner 2012/11/16 21:17:52
    A. J. Kenner
    Those who do it again and again and don't get caught, get drunk on the idea that they ill NEVER be caught, but everybody....EVERYBODY....makes that ONE critical mistake, that ends it all.
  • Liset 2012/11/16 19:19:12
    No, definitely not. I don't like cheating because you will get HIV and you can definitely be sorry for an affair.
  • ¤Creepy Lumberjack¤ >-QC-< 2012/11/16 18:56:04
  • Jesse ¤Creepy... 2013/01/04 18:44:36
    So true, I suppose I am getting payback! When I was younger I was the back door man for several married woman that needed a little extra. Now I'm the married guy with the wife that has a back door man. When I was the B.D.M. I new that I stood a chance of getting my ass kicked if the husband came home early, so now I feel that when I catch this dude and cripple him, I will not be in the wrong!
  • ✞Knight of Honor 2012/11/16 16:20:27
    ✞Knight of Honor
    If your partner cheats on you, you need to drop them in a heartbeat.

    As for dating someone who has cheated on others depends on the context. While some people make reforms, most people will continue to be disloyal.
  • brooking heart 2012/11/16 15:12:42
    brooking heart
    always and always
  • Swartzy 2012/11/16 13:20:26
    'JakeIsHere' couldn't have said it better.
  • Butch 2012/11/16 09:58:24
  • ♰SɕαɾƖεt♰ 2012/11/16 08:59:55
    people change
  • Milady 2012/11/16 08:53:15
    I have trust issues. If someone cheated on me, I'd never be able to trust them again, so they wouldn't be given another chance to repeat their performance.
  • JakeisHere 2012/11/16 08:23:23 (edited)
    If I murdered someone I would always be a murderer, if I won a Super Bowl, I would always be a Super Bowl Champion, why the double-standard with Cheaters? You might not cheat on every partner, but once you have done it once you're a cheater in my mind.
  • marika 2012/11/16 08:04:36
    no it canhappen to you ,,falling for a ''taken'' person
    but i would go for the known cheaters ,, once is ''specialy for you''
    more is go see a gynoologist
  • KoAm 2012/11/16 05:33:48
    It depends on the person; it also depends on age and other factors.

    Someone who cheats on their boyfriend/girlfriend when they're 18 or 19 may very well not fall under the "always a cheater" rule when they're 35 or 40.

    An uncle of mine had an affair once many years ago. (I was a little kid at the time and didn't hear about it until years later.) He and my aunt (his wife) reconciled and he never cheated again.
  • Stardust 2012/11/16 05:28:33
  • Eddie 2012/11/16 05:28:14
    No. A person can change their behavior. Now 2 or 3 times a cheater, then yeah that person probably isn't very committed to changing.
  • Red Branch 2012/11/16 05:23:52
    Red Branch
    Odds favor it, but it is not a given.
  • Jaiheena Star 2012/11/16 05:16:55
  • Papillon 2012/11/16 05:00:59
  • Al B Thayer 2012/11/16 04:23:56
    Al B Thayer
    Oh he'll yes.
  • Carol lian 2012/11/16 04:18:30
    Carol lian
    it's their lifestyles and habit. It's hard to changes even when they get married.. I hit on that
  • addie 2012/11/16 03:50:39
    People can change, but it is pretty rare, especially with liars and cheaters.
  • Papillon addie 2012/11/16 05:03:17
  • addie Papillon 2012/11/16 13:25:12
    And they cannot change that they cheated. I'm with you.
  • Papillon addie 2012/11/16 16:27:21
  • Christopher Kirchen 2012/11/16 03:46:38
    Christopher Kirchen
    People can sometimes mature.
  • Papillon Christo... 2012/11/16 05:05:42
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    Jerry (Iron Priest)☮ R ☮ P ☮ 201
    Because I've proven it to be false. Have those who answered yes proven their point? No, they haven't. No wins.
  • Papillon Jerry (... 2012/11/16 05:06:46
  • Jerry (... Papillon 2012/11/16 06:22:48 (edited)
    Jerry (Iron Priest)☮ R ☮ P ☮ 201
    I cheated many years ago on a previous lover, just once when she was showing little interest.
  • addie Jerry (... 2012/11/16 13:27:18
    Sounds like you are blaming your then lover. If you do not take responsibility how can you change? You can't.
  • Jerry (... addie 2012/11/16 14:45:27
    Jerry (Iron Priest)☮ R ☮ P ☮ 201
    Um, I did. She wasn't putting out and seemed like she was losing interest. I had needs. Of course it was my own fault but she shares the blame.
  • juicebox07 Jerry (... 2012/11/16 22:39:49
    Are you seriously putting blame on the person you cheated on? You sound like a manipulator. A person never deserves being cheated on. If you are unhappy in a relationship and your needs aren't being met, you LEAVE, not cheat. Simple as that. Take responsibility for your actions instead of putting blame on someone else.
  • Jerry (... juicebox07 2012/11/16 23:27:34
    Jerry (Iron Priest)☮ R ☮ P ☮ 201
    Look you jackasses. It was 30 freakin years ago. You people are nuts.
  • addie Jerry (... 2012/11/17 02:41:22
    I was making a simple point, you are being very defensive.
  • Jerry (... addie 2012/11/17 04:00:44
    Jerry (Iron Priest)☮ R ☮ P ☮ 201
    It's very upsetting to be accused of being some kind of scum. I was practically a kid; I learned and became a good and loving man.
  • addie Jerry (... 2012/11/17 05:31:58
    Fair enough. I was not accusing you of being, "scum," really. And I believe you are different now, I was only saying you did not take responsibility in the way you describe the situation. You mean you used bad judgement because you were young, but you grew up?
    That much anyone can relate too, I hope. B)

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