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  • DrTim 2008/04/23 20:42:04
    no
    DrTim
    +13
    When my son was very small,he got into somthing.
    I told him not to do it,and he did it again.
    I got up, he saw me comming, and took off down the hall,further irritating me!
    I chased him into his room, grabbed his arm, and "Wack"right on the diaper!
    Well,it turned out his "Diaper" was FULL!
    I splattered baby poop all over him,me,the wall,the,carpet,ect!
    This gave me pause,and I looked up and said "OK God, I got your point"!!
    I have never smacked another child since!!

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  • Iamfree 2012/06/18 23:02:44
    yes
    Iamfree
    Yes, but only for very serious infractions and not hard enough to cause harm. The idea is to get his/her attention so that he/she will know you're serious. My husband only had to spank our daughter three times. It hurt his heart to do it, and he let her know that. She never did those things again. The mere threat that daddy would spank her if necessary was all she needed to know.
  • Jdogg 2012/06/18 19:58:18
    yes
    Jdogg
    Only if it's really needed, I found taking away things that meant a lot to them especially electronics, seemed to have a stronger effect.
  • Anca 2012/06/18 19:46:03
    yes
    Anca
    worked for me...
  • elijahin24 2012/06/18 19:07:36
    no
    elijahin24
    +1
    But I do believe in discipline. I think striking a child is counterproductive. It teaches them that hitting is a solution to behavior of which they disapprove. I prefer discipline which is directly related to the offense which provoked it.
  • KrSpo 2012/06/18 15:59:59
    yes
    KrSpo
    yes, but only in extreme circumstances.
  • ray 2012/06/18 15:27:23
    yes
    ray
    +1
    Many years ago , when the first of the self centered and entitlement generations were being bred . The never spank children movement was creating the spoiled adults of today. Erma Brombeck ran this column :

    Belt the Brat out of love
    By Erma Brombeck

    In response to a column “ Never Strike your child in Anger “ Tom Brynes of Lake Bluff, Ill offers this Tongue-in-cheek as to when so you strike them. He is the father of 12 children and fourteen granchildren

    Never strike your child in anger ,
    Never strike them with Irate,
    Save it for some happy moment,
    When both are feeling great,

    Save it for some pleasant bedtime,
    And as you tuck him in his crib ,
    Clench your fist and let him have it,
    Or Better yet, choke him with his bib,

    Or wait until a Sunday morning,
    Try to catch him at his prayers,
    And as he whispers, “Dwod Bwess Dada “,
    Kick him neatly down the stairs ,

    Or How about a Happy Birhday ? ,
    When friends and laughter fill the house,
    Then bash him with a cake you lettered,
    “Greeting to a little louse “

    Or how about a family outing ? ,
    A Sunday morning at the Zoo ? ,
    and when it's time to feed the lions,
    Supplement with you-know-who ,

    Or take him with you on an airplane,
    The family plans t...















    Many years ago , when the first of the self centered and entitlement generations were being bred . The never spank children movement was creating the spoiled adults of today. Erma Brombeck ran this column :

    Belt the Brat out of love
    By Erma Brombeck

    In response to a column “ Never Strike your child in Anger “ Tom Brynes of Lake Bluff, Ill offers this Tongue-in-cheek as to when so you strike them. He is the father of 12 children and fourteen granchildren

    Never strike your child in anger ,
    Never strike them with Irate,
    Save it for some happy moment,
    When both are feeling great,

    Save it for some pleasant bedtime,
    And as you tuck him in his crib ,
    Clench your fist and let him have it,
    Or Better yet, choke him with his bib,

    Or wait until a Sunday morning,
    Try to catch him at his prayers,
    And as he whispers, “Dwod Bwess Dada “,
    Kick him neatly down the stairs ,

    Or How about a Happy Birhday ? ,
    When friends and laughter fill the house,
    Then bash him with a cake you lettered,
    “Greeting to a little louse “

    Or how about a family outing ? ,
    A Sunday morning at the Zoo ? ,
    and when it's time to feed the lions,
    Supplement with you-know-who ,

    Or take him with you on an airplane,
    The family plans the cheapest way
    And when it reaches cruising level
    Tell him “ Go outside and play “

    Although he breaks a Wedgewood platter,
    Spills your bourbon on the floor ,
    Never strike your child in anger,
    It isn't popular anymore,

    I makes you child feel insecure,
    when parents strike or even shove,
    But, you can do him in completely,
    As long as it is done with love.

    http://news.google.com/newspa...
    She was a great wit , any who are unfamiliar would do well to look her writings up .
    She also is quoted as saying " A child needs your love the most when you least feel like giving it"
    (more)
  • gracious43 ray 2012/06/18 15:47:50
    gracious43
    +1
    My mama used to read Erma outloud during dinner time, with tears of laughter running down her cheeks.
  • ray gracious43 2012/06/18 16:44:10
    ray
    +2
    I hope this brought you happy memories to mind.
  • gracious43 ray 2012/06/18 17:20:31
    gracious43
    +1
    Yes it does!
  • Dawn 2012/06/18 15:25:08
    None of the above
    Dawn
    +1
    Sometimes you might need to grab your kid or give them a smack but a ritualistic beating is wrong. After you get your kid's attention and tell them to stop what they're doing anything more is just cruel and will make them resent you; and rightfully so. Beating your child isn't discipline it's retribution to make YOU feel better not to teach a lesson, sounds sadistic to me.
  • Katfish 2012/06/18 14:08:13
    yes
    Katfish
    Other disciplinary actions are much more time consuming.
  • SilveryRow 2012/06/18 13:37:32
    no
    SilveryRow
    +2
    Beating a child is punishment, not discipline. I wouldn't want to meet parents who like to rule by fear.
  • Kashee SilveryRow 2012/06/18 14:36:51
    Kashee
    +1
    I lived with it as a child and it kept me living in fear. I chose a different way for my child.
  • wysiwis 2012/06/18 11:25:32
    yes
    wysiwis
    +2
    In certain situations, but as a rule I don't spank.
  • Mark 2012/06/18 08:31:47
    no
    Mark
    +3
    Never had to, never wanted to, never needed to. If you hit children, it is a sign that discipline has collapsed.
  • Sister ... Mark 2012/06/18 13:39:29
    Sister Jean
    agree
  • Kashee Mark 2012/06/18 14:34:35
    Kashee
    absolutely true
  • Wolfman 2012/06/18 07:58:01
    no
    Wolfman
    +2
    I never found it necessary. I could discipline with words.
  • Kashee Wolfman 2012/06/18 14:34:09
    Kashee
    +1
    exactly, it just takes creative thinking
  • Wolfman Kashee 2012/06/18 15:22:15
    Wolfman
    +1
    My father beat me every chance he got.

    A stern voice can work wonders. I always got good results.
  • jaydenvdv 2012/06/18 05:48:16
    yes
    jaydenvdv
    +4
    If my child needs it heck yes. I will spank.
  • darwolf 2012/06/18 04:17:11
    yes
    darwolf
  • Andy 2012/06/18 03:47:49
    yes
    Andy
    +4
    Spare the rod, Spoil the child. Don't beat a child, but there needs to be discipline, and spanking works in certain situations.
  • ready46xwu 2012/06/18 02:23:04
    yes
    ready46xwu
    +3
    I see many people who won't, and have
    "total brats" to deal with!
    My sister's kids are 'out of control', and no one
    is allowed to say anything~
    the last time the were here, the lil brats started
    hitting my lil dog, and messing w/my stereo~
    I 'scolded them', and she & hubby got pi$$ed, I told them to
    all leave, and that's, why no one ever comes to their house or invites them around!
  • Ms. Texas ready46xwu 2012/06/18 16:12:33
    Ms. Texas
    Parents do their children no favors by letting them be brats. I would go so far as to say NOT spanking is a form of abuse. Why would you want your kids to be disliked by everyone because you refuse to discipline them? Now that is mean.
  • Kashee 2012/06/17 23:40:20
    no
    Kashee
    +1
    Spanking doesn't work and it damages a child's self esteem. All you are teaching is that you can't think of a better way to get what you want from another person and it's ok to bully.
  • Chanch Kashee 2012/06/18 11:03:21
    Chanch
    +4
    Total BS !
  • firelooker 2012/06/17 23:35:12
    yes
    firelooker
    +2
    Spare the rod spoil the child. both my boys got their butt spnked when they got out of line and they turned out fine. panking yes, beating no I put up w/ tt when I was a kid.
  • The polite zombie 2012/06/17 22:52:15
    no
    The polite zombie
    +3
    Nope. I prefer more creative punishments.
  • JohnnyRudick 2012/06/17 20:51:17 (edited)
    yes
    JohnnyRudick
    +3
    Yes and no actually.

    Most children I know and knew who got "spanked" did not deserved to be hit at all.

    Most of the time it is uncalled for in the least.

    Most times the parents are "mad" at the kid for some indiscretion that could be handled by scolding or/and suspending some freedom or something.



    The only time a child should be spanked is when the child is "in your face" refusing to do as told or refusing to acknowledge you as parent.

    Not because he/ she tracked mud across the floor. you have them clean it up to the best of his/her ability. if not able ( too young) you clean it up holding the child's hand to show how it is done at the same time you clean.
    Same thing with spilled milk at the table.
    The response is to have them clean it up. Not wop them.

    Too many kids have been hit by mad parents. If you are "mad" at your kid, go for a walk.
    Pray for guidance, then after you have cooled off think it over again, what was done and what should be done about it if anything.
    If you do decide on a "spanking", explain why you are administering the spanking and after ward hold the child in your arms and tell them how much you love them and hope for them to do better.
  • jules 2012/06/17 20:34:37
    Undecided
    jules
    +2
    I used to but when I was raising my first daughter, I didn't feel right about disciplining that way and then not long after was when there was a big deal going on that spanking was a form of abuse. To this day I think it got twisted by the media to the point everyone is afraid to raise a hand now.
  • Lili13 2012/06/17 20:28:56
    no
    Lili13
    +6
    That can change the way a child see's everything and can change the child fully as well
  • Kashee Lili13 2012/06/18 14:38:14
    Kashee
    +2
    It actually changes the developing brain.
  • Justin Bolander 2012/06/17 19:09:11
    yes
    Justin Bolander
    +3
    It builds character
  • yvee l'... Justin ... 2012/06/17 21:25:20
    yvee l'unico
    +1
    yeah right
  • SEAL76 2012/06/17 17:50:34
    no
    SEAL76
    +3
    I am father who hit his kids. I regret it to this day. I apologized to them and I told my sons never to hit their children. One listened one didn't. The one who did is doing better with his kids.
  • Kashee SEAL76 2012/06/18 14:42:47
    Kashee
    +1
    When you knew better, you did better. I respect your honesty and the compassion you showed your children when you did know better. I wasn't a mom who spanked her child, but I have had to apologize for not always showing the compassion my child deserved.
  • Arel 2012/06/17 17:36:43
    yes
    Arel
    +3
    I have no problem with spanking.
  • Willie 2012/06/17 17:22:04
    no
    Willie
    +6
    Spanking is the way that lazy and stupid people attempt to discipline their children. There are so many more effective ways in which to teach a child - why use violence (especially to teach a child not to be violent - that's got to be the dumbest thing of all).
  • Sister ... Willie 2012/06/17 17:34:26
    Sister Jean
    agree
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