Do You Believe in Love at First Sight?

by The Big Question Posted 2012/06/14 00:13:03

Related Topics: In Love, Love, Love at first sight

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stevegtexas@aol.com 2012/06/14 14:04:25

No

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no, nt love at first sight, but mutual attraction yes....love develops. at least for me it does. Meeting someone that i am attracted to........is the first important step, lets be sensible. sodahead.com
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BlondeA... to Carlo 2012/06/15 00:16:22

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I'd take a stalker right now lol

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Carlo to BlondeA... 2012/06/19 03:08:48

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You and me both. Just a little postive attention.

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Eyes See Wide North 2012/06/14 17:29:00

No

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Desperation at first sight, dont try and justify it.

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Carlo to Eyes Se... 2012/06/14 20:36:55

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No shiit

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jackie 2012/06/14 17:19:17 (edited)

No

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It just mean I find him cute. Reminds me of what the girls do in high school "I love him and want to marry him because he is so hot".

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hannah to jackie 2012/06/14 18:12:03

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lolziez. yeah that is a kinda ridiculous way for a girl to be. i dont do that though. i know love takes time. i think that if you're more picky with you're relationship life and you wait on the right one you really learn how love works. you learn to cherish it and treat it more as something real and grounded rather than fairyland "oh he's cute i love him he's dreamy and blah blah blah". true love isnt a dream. true love is reality. chances are if it feels like a dream its not real. if it feels real then it is true love. :)

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Carlo to jackie 2012/06/14 20:40:22 (edited)

The whole love at first site thing would have to be based on gender recognition of it. If those feeling aren't displayed equally then it would be difficult for any perception of that love to continue I think. Applying to hetero relationships of course.

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Blueskys 2012/06/14 17:14:43

No

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I believe in love after the first date....

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janet 2012/06/14 16:54:25

Yes

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What can I say, I'm a romantic at heart : )

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Kibbles 2012/06/14 16:50:36

Yes

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Not love, but that special feeling that takes you, that makes that little voice in the back of your head turn into a roar, the one that drives you to try and know the person.

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katywon 2012/06/14 16:47:21

Yes

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I do know that it is true. The only problem is that sometimes it is only one-sided by either party. And sometimes it grows into real long lasting love. I have seen it many time in successful unions.

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Carlo to katywon 2012/06/14 20:46:33

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That almost sounds like a no answer. But well put.

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katywon to Carlo 2012/06/15 06:06:25

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It even looks that way to me. Thanks

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PotatoHead 2012/06/14 16:36:54

No

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Love at first sight is falling in love with someones looks, not personality.

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Carlo to PotatoHead 2012/06/14 20:47:16

Or the person as a whole.

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lm1b2 2012/06/14 16:36:42

Yes

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I dated my wife a short time,and knew she was the one for me.

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Carlo to lm1b2 2012/06/14 20:50:18

Were you able to feel the love you had for her the molment you met as the love that developed over time. Seems dificult to do so. Not to say you cant know the person is what you have desired to be the one.

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lm1b2 to Carlo 2012/06/15 13:31:11

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Love got stronger over time.

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JonDeniro 2012/06/14 16:35:00

Yes

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From first hand experience :)

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Darlin' 2012/06/14 16:31:08

Yes

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Altho my 2 most meaningful relationships developed slowly ...

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U Mad Bro? 2012/06/14 16:26:21 (edited)

No

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Get the hell outta here with that BS, this isn't a Disney fairy tale. No wonder the divorce rate is so high in this country.

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Carlo to U Mad Bro? 2012/06/14 20:51:50 (edited)

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Exactly and giving young girls the perception of what the happiest day of their life is suppose to be like doesnt help. The answers here are just about the divorse rate as well.

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CJ M 2012/06/14 16:17:30

No

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"Love at first sight" I don't call "boners" or "appeal" love. You wouldn't sacrifice your whole being for a person on first site, that requires you to know the person a little.

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Marvelous Wildfire 2012/06/14 16:13:15

Yes

ABSOLUTELY!
It's happened to me twice, and I married both of them.
One marriage was until her death, the other still going strong after all these years.

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sammanilla 2012/06/14 16:12:11

Yes

Yes, absolutely.

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Xitlalilolly 2012/06/14 16:08:56

No

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well its both but i gueess my main option is no.. its not real in soo many ways to me..i've been hurt so maybe thats whyy

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Carlo to Xitlali... 2012/06/14 20:55:51

No its because your an intelligent young lady is all.

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Xitlali... to Carlo 2012/06/15 01:30:54

what do you mean? i used to believe in it but noww i dnt know

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Sister Jean 2012/06/14 16:07:21

Yes

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yes

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Carlo to Sister ... 2012/06/14 20:54:39

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Sister Jean you amaze me. But im not sure its love..yet lol

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Sister ... to Carlo 2012/06/14 20:58:09

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Mom and Dad did and were married 56 years

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paul to Sister ... 2012/06/15 03:50:58

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Awwww nice....

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Chris D 2012/06/14 16:06:54

Yes

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Although you need to talk at least a couple of sentences....cause that can ruin it pretty quickly

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Carlo to Chris D 2012/06/14 21:00:11

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Well that's not to say the love cant dissipate as soon as they speak. lol

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Jon Peter 2012/06/14 16:05:00

No

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One word sums it up. Hormones!

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Katie 2012/06/14 15:58:56

No

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It's lust, how can you be in love with someone you don't know anything about? You don't know where they come from, their personality, you just see their looks. There is a such thing as intense attraction towards each other, but love? nope, sometimes people just mistake Lust as love.

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BlackNeko 2012/06/14 15:56:43 (edited)

No

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Not with people only with food

ORGASM

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Incognito 2012/06/14 15:54:44

Yes

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Absolutely. I fell in love at first sight the first time I saw a picture of:
Lynda Carter,
Elle McPherson
Halle Berry
Lara Flynn Boyle
Charlize Theron
Natalie Portman
Avril Lavigne
Page 3 girl(s) . . .

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Maxine 2012/06/14 15:41:12

No

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It's not "love at first sight", it's lust. How can you love someone before you even know them? Physical attraction only means lust.

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xXmIsSuNdErStoOdXx 2012/06/14 15:36:42

Yes

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It happened to me. I saw Tom Brady on the television screen and I have been a solid fan and lover for 8 years now lol but I seriously believe in it

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