Do You Ask For Help When You Need It?

by Deborah Posted 2012/04/16 01:09:54

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	Yes I have no problem asking for help	14 votes	42%
	No I never ask for help	3 votes	9%
	I will only ask certain people	11 votes	33%
	None of the above	5 votes	15%

Some people don't want others to know that they need help, do you ask for it when you need it? Do You Ask For Help When You Need It

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FencerCat 2012/04/24 20:12:05

Yes I have no problem asking for help

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I try to solve my problems myself first, but if it's apparent I need help, I will go to whoever is most likely to be able to help.

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hrailey 2012/04/24 19:57:17

I will only ask certain people

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I have found that most people have no interest in anybody else's problems, but I have one or two really true friends that would drop everything to help me, but I only ask when it's extreme because I don't want to take advantage.

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kPOW™ 2012/04/24 17:41:12

Yes I have no problem asking for help

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... and its driving a wedge between me and someone i love unconditionally ... "please help me better" :j

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tommyg - POTL- PWCM-JLA 2012/04/24 16:40:12

Yes I have no problem asking for help

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Spinning my wheels is infinitely more frustrating. I'll ask for the help.

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retrograve 2012/04/24 15:22:43

I will only ask certain people

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It feels like I'm bothering people when I do.

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Junichi 2012/04/24 15:14:14

Yes I have no problem asking for help

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why not ask for help? if i don't know what i'm doing there is no point in acting like i do. i tend to try and ask my older sister most of the time though, but if i need to i don't mind asking strangers or anyone else either! i love talking to people and questions are a good way to learn as well

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S and S 2012/04/24 15:09:16

No I never ask for help

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The only time I need help is when I need to see a doctor, which I pay for that service.

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Rachel 2012/04/24 14:59:47

I will only ask certain people

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... and when I have already exhausted all means possible.

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Firefly 2012/04/24 14:58:31

None of the above

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I have a problem asking for help with things

and will do EVERYTHING in my power,

to not HAVE to ask, so...

If and when I DO ask,

it is usually at the

very last minute,

and I need it

right away,

and have

been soo

screwed

because

of it ....

;P

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The River Rat 2012/04/16 04:24:58

I will only ask certain people

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Usually I don't ask at all. I try and handle it myself.

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Deborah to The Riv... 2012/04/16 20:40:25

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Thanks

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Changeling 2012/04/16 02:54:02

Yes I have no problem asking for help

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I have no issues with asking

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Deborah to Changeling 2012/04/16 20:40:33

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Thanks

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Red_Horse 2012/04/16 02:50:59
Deborah to Red_Horse 2012/04/16 20:40:47

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Thanks

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Toxic-Death 2012/04/16 01:55:25

Yes I have no problem asking for help

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Unless i think they are going to look down upon me!

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Deborah to Toxic-D... 2012/04/16 20:40:57

Thanks

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FrancheskahMae:) 2012/04/16 01:45:54

None of the above

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Sometimes I get too shy and keep my mouth shut. Which is BAD cause I'll never get anything done. But other times I get over it and ask.

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Deborah to Franche... 2012/04/16 20:41:23

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Good for you

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METALheadMom 2012/04/16 01:45:33

Yes I have no problem asking for help

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I've never understood people who obviously could do better if they got help but refuse to ask for it.

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Deborah to METALhe... 2012/04/16 20:42:01

Sometimes I guess it's just to embarrassing for them,Thanks

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SovereignX 2012/04/16 01:28:52

Yes I have no problem asking for help

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if u want to make the most of ur life, u need to suck up ur pride once in a while

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Deborah to SovereignX 2012/04/16 20:42:18

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True, thanks

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Kashee 2012/04/16 01:16:45

None of the above

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I will rarely ask for help. I drive my husband crazy because he'd be glad to help.

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Deborah to Kashee 2012/04/16 20:42:35

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Thanks

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Christi 2012/04/16 01:15:54

Yes I have no problem asking for help

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most of the time i will

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Deborah to Christi 2012/04/16 20:42:50

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Thanks

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Christi to Deborah 2012/04/17 01:08:43

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you're welcome

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Pinkladic 2012/04/16 01:15:10

None of the above

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I ask for help when I feel I am forced to...a last resort if you will. I am stubborn

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Deborah to Pinkladic 2012/04/16 20:43:04

Thanks

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kitkat42 2012/04/16 01:14:53

Yes I have no problem asking for help

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But only IF I really, really need it. I'm pretty stubborn about being self reliant.

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Deborah to kitkat42 2012/04/16 20:43:11

Thanks

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animelover123 2012/04/16 01:12:57

I will only ask certain people

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I don't like asking for help

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Deborah to animelo... 2012/04/16 20:43:19

Thanks

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