Do Stressed Out Men Prefer Heavier Women?

She's actually a little fat. Fortunately, it's in the right places and would be a great place to rest your head and relieve some stress.

What kind of correlation is that?

"Oh, I'm stressed so now I prefer heavier women. Later when I'm not stressed I'll want a skinny woman."

Really? That would suggest serious problems in married life. If she's heavier then he doesn't want her when he's happy, and if she's skinny he wants nothing to do with her when he's stressed.

If they were confident and relaxed they would be able to date pretty and thin women. Makes sense to me.

I think that is what it means too, besides from certain comments here.

The reason most men are stressed out is because they are not with any women.

Yes! They know how to whip up some comfort food!

I like them not obese but a wee bit chubby, curvy or "cuddly" is very attractive to me. A woman is supposed to have curves. The slim, sporty ones with muscles and flat stomachs just look like men to me. As for the really skinny, skeletal ones... They're just creepy to me.

Nope, I still don't see the resemblance

Lol...hit the nail on the head.

Ladies, it's simple - just show up.....we can work out the details later...

This comment cracked me up! :)

good, it was meant to have people laugh alittle... peace....

I'm stressed all the damn time, and guess what....FAT GIRLS ARE STILL A HUGE TURN OFF. lol. Now if only the fat girls could figure that maybe obesity would go down.

Being stressed out has nothing to do with it. Most men like the same size girl all the time.

There should be an "I don't know" option, because how could anyone know the answer to this question?

For god sakes, women who say men like "a bit of meat on the bones" are fat themselves, no one likes fat chicks, they need to lose weight instead of flattering themselves.

You are clueless 14yr old child. I like chubby girls and so have a lot of my friends. You have no clue what you are babbling about.

But look at the poll ^^ most people voted no, am I right?

That's because the two just don't correlate. Stressed out men aren't thinking about women at all. They have other things on their mind.

I agree lol, and I'm almost double your age, making the idiot blow you....well...an idiot at best. Fat girls, like guys, are unattractive! (liking the hair, nice work there lol)

men love meat on bones. Just not too much. and mostly boobs and ass

The meat they talk about is that :


not that

I'm just reading this blog for the pretty pictures. Keep up the good work.

I'm tired of the skinny vs fat girl fight. there's more than one kind of body. I'm working my ass at the gym, have lose almost all the belly Iwanted, but I still have curves. it can be muscles too, not only fat

Is this you? If so you look fantastic!

yeah, it's me, thank you

You're 14, but being so judgmental and making assumptions at a young age isn't a very good quality.

" women who say men like "a bit of meat on the bones" are fat themselves, no one likes fat chicks"

Great to see how a 14 year old girl suddenly speaks for all of humanity.

There's nothing wrong with being a bit chubby if you're healthy otherwise and are okay with it and there's nothing wrong with being attracted to those with more weight.

Do you also tell those girls who are underweight that they need to gain weight and stop flattering themselves?

No because that is an eating disorder, a physiological problem that people need help for. Being fat is a weight problem and covering up your problems and pretending everything is ok isn't helping any, the only person that can help you is yourself by going on a diet and doing excersise.

I suppose you don't know of BED (Binge Eating Disorder) which many overweight people actually have, often without knowing because it's a eating disorder which isn't discussed and glamorized unlike anorexia.

So do you honestly think overweight people are just overweight because they want to be? You don't consider that they might have psychological problems which they need help for? Or what if they healthy and okay with being a bit overweight?

It's the same as you telling a person who is underweight (I am underweight myself by the way) that they need to start eating more and gain weight and stop pretending everything is okay because it isn't helping anyone. Even if they are healthy/and/or okay with being underweight.

But it seems you hold the two (Both equally unhealthy) to totally different standards. I think your attitude only encourages ED in younger people.

No, they are overwieght because they are lazy and can't control themsleves, about 80% of the time. I am not saying about the ones with actual real problems and I'm talking about the ones who are overwieght and its their own fault, and like it or lump it, not a lot of people find them attractive.

Oh, by the way, I'm underweight too.

So, I bet you just love it if people came up to you and constantly judged you negatively due to your weight not being 'normal' and told you that no one finds it attractive and you should change yourself to suit others standards and that you're just making excuses to not gain weight and you just cannot control yourself.

Because there are people who think the same about those underweight, and either way it is unfair and not cool at all to be a judgmental prick when it comes to weight related issues.

I noticed a lot of younger teens (And adults too) who are underweight tend to think they are somehow superior for not being chubby or even normal weight, but in honesty it is just a terrible attitude to have and nothing good comes out of it for anyone.

For all you know, one day you'll develop a disorder which makes you gain weight. I have friends who are not lazy or greedy who are overweight, simply for the medication that they are taking.

A friend of mine was at the lower weight BMI until she developed very intense panic disorders and heart problems, she was given medication and now within 2 months of taking it has become overweight. She feels terrible about it, and has sunk into depression, and it's people like you who just make it so much worse for those people.

Oh my God, are you listening to me at all??
I said I am not talking about those who are overwieght for a reason like your friends, I'm talking about people who are overwieght because they simply can't control themselves then try to flatter themselves by saying "Men like it" and all that crap, they do nothing to help themself.

And also, no one has ever told me I am underweight in a nasty way anyway, and I am most definetly not saying I'm better than everyone else because I'm underwieght, I'm answering the question - Men do not prefer Heavier Women, and stress has nothing to do with it.

I would have to say from my own experience/knowledge of the opposite sex, they seem to like curvy women. Not women who resemble stick people or women who look like the fat lady in the circus.

i like a little weight, but not fat.....all the time, no matter my mood............

unknown, never been with a woman in about 30 years.

So you are 50?

i am 54 now.

That all depends on the man. I certainly would prefer a heavier woman than one that is underweight. They've got more cushion for the pushin'. ;-)

Do Stressed Out Men Prefer Heavier Women?
by mrosen814 Posted August 10, 2012
Yes, especially black men i heard down here....they prefer overweight white women whose families wont help them when they get out of prison or the clink.....the shelters are full of em, and they make great "gang members!" (and they like dey tattoos on their necks too of the guys name!) for some reason.....easier to run from em! ha ha ha!

I must be bipolar, because I like them all ;)

Most men don't want Lardo or fat women. Some of them make me almost sick to just look at then.