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Do gays choose to be gay or are they born that way?

kidkewlsgirl8888 2011/04/13 18:34:41
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  • Chris 2011/04/13 18:56:59
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    Chris
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    It's all about genetics and starts at conception. I knew I was gay before I even knew what gay was, so NO it isn't a choice. People that believe "gay" is a choice don't have a CLUE.

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  • seathanaich 2011/06/24 04:00:49
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    seathanaich
    They're born that way. Does any heterosexual remember "choosing" to be heterosexual? Of course not. Religious bigots are stupid (as usual) when they claim otherwise.
  • Bruce Whittington 2011/06/08 19:12:35
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    Bruce Whittington
    Gays are not born gay. It is a scientific fact they choose to be gay.
  • cнιвι cυρcαқєs ~*Λℓιcє*~ ♥♥ 2011/04/14 01:45:03 (edited)
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    cнιвι cυρcαқєs ~*Λℓιcє*~ ♥♥
    +1
    You can either be born gay and not know it until a certain stage of your life OR you can choose to be gay.
  • kerran 2011/04/14 01:02:23
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    kerran
    +1
    i choose to be bi, i wasnt born bi
  • bethany kerran 2011/08/17 06:35:18
    bethany
    +3
    you choose to be attracted to girls and boys? so if someone held a gun to your head and said stop liking girls you would say okay? because u choose to? o.0 im confused. because im gay and i sure dont wanna be, because there are alot of haters..
  • Chancy99: Plague Rat 2011/04/14 00:32:27
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    Chancy99: Plague Rat
    +1
    Born. Why Would we Chose to be Treated As Second Class citizens.
  • Meng 2011/04/14 00:22:51
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    Meng
    +1
    On one side you have things like the Bible, and Vitriol, and Platitude.... on the other side you have things like Science, Facts, Incontrovertible Evidence... hmmmmm...
  • Bruce W... Meng 2011/06/08 19:14:29
    Bruce Whittington
    +2
    And what is your incontrovertible evidence that only you have and not even the world of science has? Or are you as I suspect, just talking out of your behind?
  • drauna 2011/04/14 00:20:44
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    drauna
    +1
    they a cute and very delicious
  • elijahin24 2011/04/13 23:44:54
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    elijahin24
    +1
    I'm shocked that so few evangelicals have pounced on this!
  • ShinyUmbreon01 2011/04/13 23:03:55
    born....
    ShinyUmbreon01
  • vannuck 2011/04/13 22:09:23
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    vannuck
    +3
    Nobody choses to be gay....those people that think so should tell us when they chose to be straight...
  • Isma'ila (God has heard)! 2011/04/13 21:14:05
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    Isma'ila (God has heard)!
    +1
    I am in the middle on this issue. I was not born bisexual but I did not choose it either.
  • Thomas Rea: Gay Christian A... 2011/04/13 21:09:13
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    Thomas Rea: Gay Christian Advocate
    +2
    I don't think people will choose to be hated. So why do people think its a choice?
  • Captain Sticky 2011/04/13 21:04:22
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    Captain Sticky
    +1
    I chose to be Gay once to make sure I was straight.
  • auron 2011/04/13 21:02:47
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    auron
    +2
    Why was toad the pic for this question? Are you implying the mushroom kingdom is gay?
  • Dave In... auron 2011/04/13 21:29:02
    Dave In Cali
    I'm with you - I was totally laughing at little gay Toad :)
  • auron Dave In... 2011/04/13 22:03:36
    auron
    Now that you mention it I never saw a female toad untill toadette, and that was awhile.
  • kidkewl... auron 2011/04/14 04:03:30
    kidkewlsgirl8888
    no i posted the question thru my cell didnt get to add a pic so it put my icon up there
  • auron kidkewl... 2011/04/14 09:57:17
    auron
    okie dokie, thank you for playing my game :)
  • WankerBait 2011/04/13 21:00:50
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    WankerBait
    predisposition ...
  • Icarus 2011/04/13 20:35:57
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    Icarus
    +1
    Think about it: Could you choose to be gay? I know I couldn't. The whole idea is rather absurd.
  • Shawna 2011/04/13 20:33:53
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    Shawna
    +5
    Why would anybody choose to be so different that they have to face hatred, intolerence, possible rejection from friends and family and at one time a death sentence?
  • Icarus Shawna 2011/04/13 20:37:20
    Icarus
    +2
    Indeed... and still today a death sentence, sometimes in the most prolonged and agonising ways, if you're unfortunate enough to live in some mediaeval Middle-Eastern hell-hole.
  • Shawna Icarus 2011/04/13 20:45:00
    Shawna
    +1
    Yes-horribly true!
  • Kyra 2011/04/13 19:46:05
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    Kyra
  • Matthew Frankwitt 2011/04/13 19:09:58
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    Matthew Frankwitt
    +7
    No one would ever choose to be alienated by their friends and family. No one would choose to not have equal rights. No one would choose to live in fear of holding hands with the one they love.
  • CatchingFear 2011/04/13 19:06:33
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    CatchingFear
    +2
    Although I don't believe that you can't choose, if that makes sense.
    And something one of my gay friends was saying is that why would they go through all the things they go through, all the abuse and shit that happens to them just to kiss a guy? Why would they choose that?
    They don't.
  • Chris 2011/04/13 18:56:59
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    Chris
    +8
    It's all about genetics and starts at conception. I knew I was gay before I even knew what gay was, so NO it isn't a choice. People that believe "gay" is a choice don't have a CLUE.
  • Dickens 2011/04/13 18:53:18 (edited)
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    Dickens
    +4
    ..as far as I know, it's who you are, not something you've learned. And, since it is who you are, it's cool.
  • Chris Dickens 2011/04/13 18:59:01
    Chris
    +5
    Right on... NO one taught me to be gay! I knew when I was 4 or 5 years old.... ☺
  • Dickens Chris 2011/04/13 19:05:14
    Dickens
    +3
    I've never understood the opposition to gay marriage, either. How would someone's gay marriage affect my straight marriage? How does someone's elses straight marriage affect my straight marriage? How does my marriage affect anyone elses marriage, gay or straight? We're a weird society of strange prejudices.
  • BALANCED 2011/04/13 18:50:13 (edited)
    born....
    BALANCED
    +7
    QUESTION -
    can any straight men on here convince themselves to like gay better ?
    like him
    straight convince gay
    instead of her
    straight convince gay

    when straights like the opposite sex - it is not a choice - it just is -
    when straights DONT like the same sex - it is not a choice - it just is -
    why should it be different for gay !
  • Chris BALANCED 2011/04/13 19:03:06
    Chris
    +4
    Exactly!! I have been asked so many times, "So when did you choose to be gay?"

    I reply with, "So when did you choose to be straight?"

    Thanks for 'getting it' ☺
  • BALANCED Chris 2011/04/13 19:15:33
    BALANCED
    +2
    bi sexuals are the only ones that get to choose -
    best of both worlds - ha ha ha
    I am straight - but not naive-underexposed-stupid or religiously fooled -
  • Icarus BALANCED 2011/04/13 20:38:28
    Icarus
    +1
    Exactly right. How could anyone not get this?
  • BALANCED Icarus 2011/04/13 22:14:39
    BALANCED
    49.999% of the world population is below average intelligence -
    3,000,000,000++ people not thinking up to average capacity -
    25% - way below average - 1,500,000,000 people not thinking at all !
    neded more reasons why !!

    average capacity 25 average 1500000000 people thinking neded reasons
  • Icarus BALANCED 2011/04/13 22:26:31
    Icarus
    Good point.
  • drauna BALANCED 2011/04/14 00:23:43
    drauna
    thats true....it doesnt matter....its our choice cause no one else can rule us....we have the rights to choose our partner
  • METALheadMom 2011/04/13 18:42:20
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    METALheadMom
    Show me the PROOF otherwise, and I will gladly change my mind.

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