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Do Father-Daughter Dances Promote Gender Discrimination? (The ACLU Thinks So)

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Father-daughter dances and mother-son ballgames are now a thing of the past—at least in the Cranston Public Schools district in Rhode Island. The American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU) targeted these longstanding traditions after a single mother filed a complaint when her daughter was prevented from attending a father-daughter dance in Cranston.

Apparently, the district’s hands are tied because Rhode Island’s gender-discrimination laws do not exempt such events—thought federal laws do. Strangely, the policy change banning these events was apparently made months ago. However, it only began to receive widespread media attention lat week when Sean Gately, a candidate for state Senate, announced that he would reinstate such events if elected.

The ACLU said in a statement:

"The controversy that has suddenly arisen in a political campaign over father-daughter dances in Cranston is old news -- the matter was amicably resolved with school officials over four months ago. And it was resolved for a simple reason: the school district recognized that in the 21st Century, public schools have no business fostering the notion that girls prefer to go to formal dances while boys prefer baseball games. This type of gender stereotyping only perpetuates outdated notions of 'girl' and 'boy' activities and is contrary to federal law.

"[Parent-teacher organizations] remain free to hold family dances and other events, but the time has long since passed for public school resources to encourage stereotyping from the days of Ozzie and Harriet. Not every girl today is interested in growing up to be Cinderella -- not even in Cranston. In fact, one of them might make a great major league baseball player someday.

"We commend the school district for its resolution of the matter, and are sorry to see some people turning it into a political football -- a game that they may think only boys should be interested in."

So SodaHeads, what do you think? Do father-daughter dances promote gender discrimination?

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  • sandra smith 2012/09/26 07:13:18
    No
    sandra smith
    They're actually healthy, presuming, of course, the father isn't molesting the daughter, or the mother the son. They help the youngster learn the skills of relating to the "opposite sex" on a more adult level, around activities that are more mature than playing games, and more as "peers" than parent/child. Such activities foster skills of growing into adult relationships not only with parents but with peers later as well. And when parents enter into them freely and willingly, they also help the child's self esteem strengthen in the newer role.
  • jon 2012/09/26 07:02:56
    No
    jon
    +1
    The ACLU does not THINK they just screw with folks, they should just be ignored sort of like cow pies in a dairy yard , made of about the same stuff also.(there are bulls there).
  • Marek 2012/09/26 06:56:15
    No
    Marek
    +1
    The American Communist Lawyers Union is undermining family structures.
  • America... Marek 2012/09/26 17:03:52
    American☆Atheist
    +1
    How is this communism?
  • Marek America... 2012/09/26 20:53:02
    Marek
    How is what communism?
    The ACLU was founded by two communist party lawyers to defend communists charged with subversive activities. Hence, the ACLU is an American Communist Lawyers Union.
  • America... Marek 2012/09/27 12:09:44
    American☆Atheist
    That is not what ACLU stands for, do your homework.
  • Marek America... 2012/09/27 22:09:49
    Marek
    I did my homework and that is precisely what ACLU stand for American Communist Lawyers Union.
  • America... Marek 2012/09/28 09:27:51
    American☆Atheist
    Be honest, where was the research done?
  • FlyGalsMom 2012/09/26 06:28:11
    No
    FlyGalsMom
    +1
    ~ not only are father/daughter dances being targeted but also any mother/son venues~ the reason being if a girl doesn't have a dad or a boy a mom we are DISCRIMINATING against them~~ HMMM UNTIL gay marriage and adoptions came to light the USA didn't seem to have a problem with this~ LIFE IS LIFE~ and we should be teaching our kids how to deal with it~MY PARENTS Divorced when I was 10 didn't get to go to a lot of dances because of the whole custody thing ~ I dealt with it~ WTF are these parents teaching their kids? TO SUE if they feel the slightest bit annoyed?
  • KingdomNow 2012/09/26 06:24:44
    No
    KingdomNow
    +1
    What does the ACLU propose, father-son dances?

    bugger off
  • garyt212 2012/09/26 06:09:39
    No
    garyt212
    +2
    The ACLU has their head up their a$$.....
    liberal head up ass
  • Erok 2012/09/26 06:05:00
    No
    Erok
    +2
    The ACLU needs to blow it out their collective arses!!!!
  • Mae 2012/09/26 05:46:52
    No
    Mae
    +3
    This is such utter nonsense, it makes a person doubt for the future of our country. Can somebody please send the ACLU back to Russia, where they belong? There's nothing wrong with promoting family activities between father/daughters, and mother/sons, and I say this as someone who grew up in a divorced home, so no, I didn't have a father there for events when I needed him. When our church held a father/daughter dance, I went with a Brother from our church, I wasn't excluded, nor did I feel discriminated against. I also never felt like I was being forced into a sexist activity, either. This politically Correct garbage is a tool of liberalism, I.e. communism, and is designed to let governmnt take over our lives and our freedoms. It must be fought wherever it tries to assert itself, for all our sakes.
  • Nam Era Vet #1 DNA TLC 2012/09/26 05:37:59
    No
    Nam Era Vet #1 DNA TLC
    Just Dance
  • TucsonGuy9 2012/09/26 05:12:09
    No
    TucsonGuy9
    +3
    Father-daughter dances and mother-son ballgames promote family values. Only a political lackey could think otherwise.
    Who among the thinking would believe that a single event, dance, has any comparison with a ball game. I took my girls to both. You can almost always count on the spineless cowards who run our schools taking the side of a pack of liberals who find any male/female activity sexist.
    So long as the gender battle is between male/female I have no grudge but when it becomes a homosexual issue, I'm going to stand up and take action.
  • urwutuis 2012/09/26 04:55:54 (edited)
    No
    urwutuis
    +6
    The ACLU doesn't have ACLUE.
  • the wizz 2012/09/26 04:51:08
    No
    the wizz
    +4
    Boy are those Jackass's clueless !!!! The Father / Daughter relationship is special just as Mother / Son is, It's just nature folks !! Get over it and stop making your selves look like complete IDIOTS !!!!!!!!!!
  • Redneck 2012/09/26 04:28:03
    No
    Redneck
    +5
    I'm truely worried about our country
  • ktorch 2012/09/26 04:25:30
    No
    ktorch
    It's their relationship not mine! Why has people become so involved with what everyone else is doing? They cause a lot of pain and create insecurity. When a 2 year old little boy I was threatebed with hell all the time. To me that's child abuse. But as you Christians know a new born baby is bearing the sins of Adam from birth. God lets him play a few years, then comes down hard on him. By the time he's got his first job, god shows him a collection plate. Will we ever get this crap out of government(s) and our lives?
  • jon ktorch 2012/09/26 07:07:37
    jon
    You have a problem almost as bad as the ACLU does.
  • DizziNY ktorch 2012/09/26 10:46:26
    DizziNY
    Yea, I have to agree with Jon. When you get to the God part, you are so off base.
  • bt sedlock 2012/09/26 04:21:02
    No
    bt sedlock
    +2
    This is absolutely stupid!
  • Answer Ops 2012/09/26 03:43:36
    No
    Answer Ops
    +1
    What next people have to pretend to be homo at random intervals because gays feel socially awkward and they want equal rights?
  • sandra ... Answer Ops 2012/09/26 07:18:44
    sandra smith
    +1
    Hope not, because that's NEVER going to happen from ME! But I don't do PC either!
  • Answer Ops sandra ... 2012/09/26 14:08:46
    Answer Ops
    That must of been random for ya, sorry about that. That was a low blow but I think it does kind of get the point across that I was getting at. My cyber bullying is done now.
  • PortaPocketGal 2012/09/26 03:33:17
    No
    PortaPocketGal
    +2
    this is getting stupid.
  • bt sedlock PortaPo... 2012/09/26 04:22:18
    bt sedlock
    +2
    You better believe it's getting stupid.
  • davidg2e 2012/09/26 03:26:32
    No
    davidg2e
    +5
    Another lunatic effort to be politically correct, induced by an organization that never had any logical legitimacy. The ACLU, by its numberless lawsuits, does nothing so much as bringing the mater of race or gender discrimination to the fore, even when there is none, such as father/daughter dances. What this nonsense will, ultimately, produce, is an increase in the establishment of private clubs that neither seek nor accept public funds, giving them the right to flip the bird to the government nannies!
  • Altering_Minds. 2012/09/26 03:05:49
    No
    Altering_Minds.
    +3
    Why would they even think that? what their saying doesn't even make sense!
  • whatever535 2012/09/26 02:56:24
    No
    whatever535
    +3
    Absolutely not many fathers don't even live or ever seen their daughters so to have your dad be with you on things that you like truly is a wonderful blessing
  • bt sedlock whateve... 2012/09/26 04:25:00
    bt sedlock
    +1
    I heard that the ACLU was founded by a man named James Baldwin, a former member of the American Communist Party.
  • America... bt sedlock 2012/09/26 18:13:28
    American☆Atheist
    Well you heard wrong
  • bt sedlock America... 2012/09/29 18:20:19
    bt sedlock
    How do you know I'm wrong?
  • America... bt sedlock 2012/09/29 19:45:02
    American☆Atheist
    Because they are the furthest thing from communism.
  • bt sedlock America... 2012/10/02 05:32:29
    bt sedlock
    Oh really? Well it just so happens that I have a video about how the ACLU has been waging war against Christians in this country. It's called the ACLU EXPOSED and it shows how they support the distribution of child pornography; support the belief in tax exmption for satanists; support nationwide child prostitution; support flag burning as free speech; oppose the planting of signs and directions to churches on public lawns, among others. The ACLU is crazy as well as stupid in their views. They even that NAMBLA, the North American Man Boy Love Association should have the legal right to have their website posted on the internet.
  • bt sedlock bt sedlock 2012/10/02 05:40:52
    bt sedlock
    The ACLU using their beliefs in civil liberties as way of destroying our own. Spreading fear in the American people that any criticism of fringe elements would be politically incorrect and would call us people in the mainstream intolerant bigots. The ACLU believes in intolerance disguised as tolerance.
  • America... bt sedlock 2012/10/12 16:11:59
    American☆Atheist
    Not christians, just christian law, along with every religious law.
  • bt sedlock America... 2012/10/12 21:19:20
    bt sedlock
    Did you know that the ACLU believes that if a person coming into this country from a Muslim country does not want to show their face on an American passport or an identification card because it's against their religion they have legal right. I do believe that it is required by law for all immigrants coming to this country no matter where they came from have to show their face on a passport if they want to live in USA. The ACLU still opposes such a thing.
  • America... bt sedlock 2012/10/13 00:46:16
    American☆Atheist
    Do you have proof or did you hear that on fox?
  • bt sedlock America... 2012/10/13 04:42:44
    bt sedlock
    Talk radio whose talk show hosts tell the truth far more than msm.

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