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Do Chores Make Men Happier?

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According to researchers from Cambridge University, husbands who do chores in the home are happier than those who do not. Sociologists used data from the European Social Survey, which compares values, attitudes, and behaviors across Europe. They compared responses from men and women regarding happiness and well-being, “work-life conflict,” and the amount of time spent on tasks like cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping, etc.

The researchers expected to see women’s happiness levels rise when men shouldered more of the burden. Interestingly, it was the men who were happier, while their wives and girlfriends remained largely unmoved. According to the research, men who do more housework feel less guilt and experience less work-life conflict. In part, men are becoming more supportive of gender equality but women are also becoming more vocal.

“As a more equitable philosophy becomes the ideal, if you are experiencing something which doesn’t live up to that you are more ready to express dissatisfaction – and certainly that is what is perceived by men,” said Jacqueline Scott, professor of empirical sociology at Cambridge.

On the one hand, women are frustrated when men don't do their fair share of the housework and are expressing those feelings. However, many also want to make sure that the job is done right. Another study recently revealed that women in the UK spend three hours a week redoing chores they believe their partner hasn't done properly. No wonder women's happiness levels aren't rising as men take on more of the housework!

So, what do you think SodaHeads? Do chores make men happier?

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  • Eyes Se... mae 2012/07/02 07:59:35
    Eyes See Wide North
    +1
    Some people are better suited to certain parts of the home, I dont do well with dishes (mostly because I hate the feel of wet, doesnt stop me from doing it when it needs done) but when someone asks me to clear out and make 30 sq feet of open space into something, more easy on the eye, I make the most of it.

    Seriously, I have to set up my venues out of back gardens sometimes, and quite often they have been 3ft deep clutter.
    I hate seeing abandoned spaces all over the place, I use to break into them when I was young and turn it into a disco hall (first time when I was 14 out of an old garage, got out of hand after, brought a bad crowd).
  • Keith 2012/07/02 02:38:03
    Undecided
    Keith
    +1
    What's up with all this studied on men and women, we have all these global problems yet still people devote their time into proving how men and women are different. They are not different, but they are raised to be different, look at most parents they treat the boys and girls differently and have different expectations for each other, which in turn makes them grow-up differently.
  • mae Keith 2012/07/03 17:59:54
    mae
    True--My parents were strict--right out of the victorian era when it came to raising us...My husband's mom raised her 6 sons to be able to fend for themselves, so as not to marry the first chicky that came along just for cooking and laundry and cleaning up the house skills--she was a wise woman indeed...It's interesting to see just how many men enjoy cooking and doing other chores around the house. SH surveys like this are a very nice break from global politics, which bombard us with every news report and make everyone weary, and some sodaheads very grouchy--see the politics section for the grouchy ones.
  • MarinerFH 2012/07/02 02:26:49
    No
    MarinerFH
    Men who are prone to do chores may just have a more agreeable personality that fosters happiness.
  • Eyes Se... MarinerFH 2012/07/02 08:01:03
    Eyes See Wide North
    +1
    Like the sound of that, I love chores and seeing improvement in anything whether it is as small as a table surface, or as big as concert hall.

    Any men can enable this attitude in themselves, I use to be a fat lazy prick when I was a kid, did something called growing up.
  • MarinerFH Eyes Se... 2012/07/02 18:59:11
    MarinerFH
    Good for you, and any women in your life. Kudos!
  • spencerc143 2012/07/02 02:06:25
    Undecided
    spencerc143
    Up to the guy.
  • Spe168 2012/07/02 01:48:12
    Undecided
    Spe168
    +2
    But if they do I can sure make some man very, very happy.
  • Kibbles 2012/07/02 01:27:56
    Yes
    Kibbles
    +3
    For me I know I complain and gripe about chores but truth be told once I'm doing them I find it hard to stop, I find washing the dishes oddly therapeutic to me. SO yeah chores do make me happier.
  • Red Rage Kibbles 2012/07/02 05:39:35
  • Kibbles Red Rage 2012/07/02 06:11:48
  • Jen 2012/07/02 01:23:47
    No
    Jen
    Who likes chores!? Nobody is happy about them....more likely there is no feeling at all...they just need to get done.
  • Pele Emerging 2012/07/02 01:14:20
    No
    Pele Emerging
    +1
    But men doing chores makes WOMEN happier!!!
  • Bloodle... Pele Em... 2012/07/02 03:09:11
  • U Mad Bro? 2012/07/02 00:58:55
    No
    U Mad Bro?
    +1
    Since my grandmother died I have been cleaning her house while my grandpa turns it upside down. Am I happy? Hell no.
  • Twinkle 2012/07/02 00:50:16 (edited)
    Undecided
    Twinkle
    +2
    If that what they have to do to get their wife to sleep with them. Hhaa
  • John Hall 2012/07/02 00:39:54
    No
    John Hall
    Are you kidding me this is why I give my daughter money to do it .
  • Doreen 2012/07/02 00:31:40
    Undecided
    Doreen
    +1
    My husband does the cooking, taking out the garbage and recycling. He is happy to cook but I have to ask him several times to take out the garbage and recycling and he gets mad but he does not seem to have the ability to comprehend that garbage and recycling falling over the top of the bin is when it needs to go out. I ask him occasionally to help with something extra and he starts to do the "poor me I was busy doing something really important" mumble. He keeps saying that he should help me more around the house but get annoyed when I need him to. overflowing kitchen garbage can
  • TheBorg 2012/07/02 00:25:16
    No
    TheBorg
    +2
    Another example of science gone bad, the lack of understanding between correlation and causality. Men who do chores are happier because:
    1) They are married and because they are doing chores they are getting more sex from their spouse and therefore happier.
    2) They are doing all the chores because they are single and therefore happier.

    happier 1 married chores sex spouse happier 2 chores happier
  • taitaFalcon23 2012/07/02 00:23:19 (edited)
    Undecided
    taitaFalcon23
    +2
    this is a nebulous concept; men are happier if they're not being nagged. If momma ain't happy; then nobodys happy.
  • Neelo 2012/07/02 00:11:37
    No
    Neelo
    they complain, but sometimes they enjoy just keeping busy
  • Jay Calderone 2012/07/02 00:08:02
    Undecided
    Jay Calderone
    +1
    Chores sure don't make ME happier.. but i'd do them if them made my girlfriend happy
  • ♌βļąƈʞƦơșƐ3033♌ 2012/07/01 23:58:39
    Undecided
    ♌βļąƈʞƦơșƐ3033♌
    +1
    I don't know but it'd make the wives and girlfriends happier.
  • k fleming 2012/07/01 23:41:17
    Yes
    k fleming
    If da momma ain't happy, dey ain't nobody happy.
    If da momma's happy, everyone's happy!
  • realist 2012/07/01 23:30:56
    No
    realist
    why post a poll like this and allow women to vote at all...
  • FELINE ... realist 2012/07/03 10:55:56
    FELINE GESTURES IN THE DARK
    Because it is Soda Head . Strange things happen .
  • ↓←↑♣→NVL←♣↑→↓ 2012/07/01 23:28:27
    No
    ↓←↑♣→NVL←♣↑→↓
    Dad has OCD
  • briannenicole2 2012/07/01 23:23:40
    Yes
    briannenicole2
    They sure do make my Dad happier. As long as the house is kept clean, he is happy. Whether it's him cleaning, or us.
  • Jack 2012/07/01 23:10:14
    Yes
    Jack
    +1
    In the Royal Navy, we have the opinion that men who have too much spare time on their hands do too much thinking, and get p#ssed off, or homesick, or rebellious. So if there's nothing needs doing, jobs are invented, to stop people thinking too much. That's why toecaps are bulled, passageways are cleaned with toothbrushes, and clothing is folded to exactly A4 size.
    Men with a lot of spare time on their hands can sometimes screw themselves - or others - up.
  • AmericanVirus 2012/07/01 23:09:13
    No
    AmericanVirus
    +1
    Not this man
  • SOUL4REAL 2012/07/01 23:08:32
    Yes
    SOUL4REAL
    +1
    When a man help around the house they feel useful. This is what you call love and family life. when a man can compromise in a relationship or marriage they will probably go the distance. I love a man who can cook and clean!
  • tobe 2012/07/01 23:05:59
    Yes
    tobe
    I was told by my ex I was a great house husband
  • FELINE ... tobe 2012/07/03 10:56:21
    FELINE GESTURES IN THE DARK
    Is that why you are an ex now ?
  • tobe FELINE ... 2012/07/03 13:15:44
    tobe
    +1
    well it sure as hell wasn't why we split
  • Rubyking 2012/07/01 23:01:43
    No
    Rubyking
    that's what makes them chores
  • Anonymouse BN-0 ~bibbityboo~ 2012/07/01 22:31:01
    Undecided
    Anonymouse BN-0 ~bibbityboo~
    Depends on the guy. With me, it depends on my mood - sometimes I'm in a mood where I just want to tidy and sort things out, then I enjoy doing chores.
  • Jon Peter 2012/07/01 22:15:45
    No
    Jon Peter
    +2
    I love to cook for the ladies. In fact, woman love to see TLC into a great meal.
  • elvira 2012/07/01 22:07:58
    Yes
    elvira
    Men seem to love to "do" things. Whether it's fixing the car or roof or just housework. It makes them feel needed; which they are. Anytime my better half is busy, he is happy.
  • Joey 2012/07/01 22:06:21
    Undecided
    Joey
    Some do.. many (not) all of these guys are

    Hen pecked
  • Elizabeth 2012/07/01 21:50:09
    No
    Elizabeth
    Chores makes NO ONE happier! Not even women. But you have to do them.

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