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BlondieBrownEyes 2010/08/17 13:39:16
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  • joye 2010/08/18 02:48:09
    joye
    +1
    yeah in my case it was the only option seeing as he had already moved his new gf and babys momma into our apt. really didnt want to deal with any of that so i ran straight to the courts and got it done asap. i had held off for months prior thinking the two of us could work it out, but once you get someone else pregnant that goes out the window if youre smart lol. straight courts asap prior thinking work pregnant window smart lol
  • Blondie... joye 2010/08/20 18:57:47
  • joye Blondie... 2010/08/20 21:31:55
    joye
    +1
    youre welcome.
  • oldsalt 2010/08/18 01:44:21
    oldsalt
    +1
    It would have ended up in a violent physical altercation had it gone on.
  • Blondie... oldsalt 2010/08/18 02:20:11
  • oldsalt Blondie... 2010/08/18 20:28:55
    oldsalt
    +1
    I can have a temper,am a big guy & I used to drink heavily-bad scene all together
  • Blondie... oldsalt 2010/08/20 18:58:14
  • oldsalt Blondie... 2010/08/20 19:03:45
    oldsalt
    +1
    I'm not one to act on my emotions, but I did growl & snarl & could scare the crap of people. I still,on occasion, can. Read my profile-I'm 6'-3"/240 lbs,LOL.
    Giving up booze back in '83 was a MAJOR milestone + getting on meds
  • Blondie... oldsalt 2010/08/20 23:24:25
  • oldsalt Blondie... 2010/08/20 23:54:07
    oldsalt
    +1
    Now I have 2 gf's,neither a live in,& we get along fine. If I understood the laptop better I'd download pix of them
  • Blondie... oldsalt 2010/08/21 01:14:28
  • oldsalt Blondie... 2010/08/21 02:27:54
    oldsalt
    +1
    I do. I love them both dearly and equally. I'm 64 &. 1 is 42, the other only 34,LOL. Don't ask me how or why it works but it does. I just gotta keep them from finding out about each other, I'm not a guy for chasing young chicks either,it just happened
  • Blondie... oldsalt 2010/08/21 02:57:03
  • oldsalt Blondie... 2010/08/21 02:58:22
    oldsalt
    +1
    I live with 2 female roomies(not gf's) & they've said nothing so far
  • Blondie... oldsalt 2010/08/21 17:58:23
  • i love sushi 2010/08/18 01:11:48
    i love sushi
    +1
    Depends on the situation. I really don't like the idea of staying together for the sake of the kids. Kids need to learn to deal with the situation and what's best for the parents too. It sucks that some people end up having to make that choice but again sometimes it's just for the best.
  • Blondie... i love ... 2010/08/18 02:20:40
  • Peapod 2010/08/17 22:40:42
    Peapod
    +1
    No question about it.
  • Blondie... Peapod 2010/08/17 22:42:07
  • Peapod Blondie... 2010/08/17 22:50:23
    Peapod
    +1
    My kids are relieved too. I hung in there for the sake of my youngest who is a teenager now, but even he said he could never go back to the way it was.
  • Blondie... Peapod 2010/08/17 22:51:30
  • Peapod Blondie... 2010/08/17 22:53:01
    Peapod
    +1
    In our case, it was. He became abusive and refused to get help with his anger issues. I couldn't chance it anymore.
  • Blondie... Peapod 2010/08/17 22:54:25
  • Peapod Blondie... 2010/08/17 23:22:31
    Peapod
    +1
    It was more emotional and verbal, but he did hurt me once physically by smashing a hard cover book into my face and bloodying my nose. I made him leave immediately. Had he not left, he would have been taken in handcuffs. I separated for a while and gave him a last chance when he asked to come home. But his temper showed again very quickly into the deal and he did it in front of both my kids. I made him leave for good that time and vowed to my children that they would never see that again. I am a woman of her word. Even though my kids are pretty much grown at this point, I wasn't about to teach them that this was the normal part of marriage. I care too much about their future and I am willing to sever my vows to teach them what is love and what is not.
  • Blondie... Peapod 2010/08/17 23:32:35
  • Peapod Blondie... 2010/08/17 23:42:21
    Peapod
    +1
    I had alot of good friends encourage me all along the way. I may not have had the courage had I not had them pulling for me. Sadly, not all my family is on board with my decision since my ex can put up a good front for them. But it's my life and my job is to take care of my teenage son who I never want to see repeat a pattern.
  • Blondie... Peapod 2010/08/17 23:45:34
  • Peapod Blondie... 2010/08/17 23:55:16
    Peapod
    +1
    It's terrible when they can put such a good front for others. But you know, it opened my eyes to a few members of my family as well. Painful lesson I had to learn about myself and how much time and energy I poured into people that weren't worth it. Breaking away from him was the start of cleaning house of all those that were pulling me down emotionally. Life is too short and when you finally grasp your own self worth, you never look back.
  • Blondie... Peapod 2010/08/18 00:19:52
  • Peapod Blondie... 2010/08/18 00:44:44
    Peapod
    +1
    Thank-you Blondie.



    thank-you blondie
  • Blondie... Peapod 2010/08/18 00:50:07
  • Thin Lizzy 2010/08/17 22:09:51
    Thin Lizzy
    +2
    Yes, when you just know you don't even like each other any more~
  • Blondie... Thin Lizzy 2010/08/17 22:33:35
  • Thin Lizzy Blondie... 2010/08/17 22:39:35
    Thin Lizzy
    +3
    I am glad you could work everything out! That's great! I wish you both the best! As for me, I'm just done trying.
  • Blondie... Thin Lizzy 2010/08/17 22:42:44
  • Thin Lizzy Blondie... 2010/08/17 23:17:17
    Thin Lizzy
    +1
    Thank you! =)
  • Peapod Blondie... 2010/08/17 22:43:06
    Peapod
    Glad it worked out for you. : )

    Certain things are deal breakers for me, so there was nothing left to work out. I gave it 2 decades, so I know I did all there was to do to save it.
  • sam 2010/08/17 20:38:50
    sam
    +2
    Why is divorce so exspensive? Because its worth it!..Mine cost a little over 200k in the end it was worth it! I'm re-married to someone who appreciates me..
  • Blondie... sam 2010/08/17 20:49:38
  • Peapod sam 2010/08/17 22:45:41
    Peapod
    +1
    The cost is what is hanging me up, hence my status of "complicated." I am waiting for him to send me papers to sign because he seems to have much more cash than I do. I just get by. Should he drag his feet much longer, I may need a second job to pay for this. I want my legal freedom more than you know.

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