Did you have pre-marital sex, or did you wait?

no!! its in the bible !!! and i don't want it to end up me geting pregnat,std,or him leaving me the next day because thats all he wanted and that i did it with someone that didn't love me

no way my mom was so hard on us and my dad was even harder all of us 4 girls waited because you had no time to go anywhere and all the boy could do was sit in the front room and talk, my 4 brothers go to do a little bit more than us girls , when i was growing up all you could do was go on a picnic or over your friend house because and if a girl went to a club or had sex she was called a bad girl and you could not play with her anymore

its just that good.

Nope, I waited until I got married...At Nineteen..

:)

ftw

It took a dedicated commitment from both me and my wife.

... and it's a good thing, too, because I would've hated it if I waited until I was married and THEN found out the guy I married was a dud in bed.

AND I AM HAPPY BECAUSE OF IT

And have enjoyed it each and every time. :o)

What can I say? Sex is amazing.

Well said!

not quite. I have not had premarital sex and I WILL wait. (i am not married, of course)

im in 5 year relationship, how can i not have sex and be in a relationship for 5 years.it is impossible.i also dont see why i should wait until marriage.sex is healthy and it is a need.it is just another way too enjoy with your love one...

yep.... i've had sex

IT WAS HARD BUT IT WAS THE RIGHT THING TO DO. WE WAITED AND IT WAS WORTH THE WAIT. DON'T RUSH INTO HAVING SEX BECAUSE IT MAY NOT GIVE YOU THE SPACE TO GET TO KNOW EACHOTHER FIRST.

Unfortunately yes I did. Fortunately it was with my soon to be wife with whom I am still married. I will say that doing this before marriage has resulted in a lot of trust issues over the 16+ years of marriage. I would undo that particular aspect of the past if I could. So would she.

yeah I did, so did he.....

Sex is very important in a marriage. There's no way I would marry someone without having sex first.

yes and two kids then married him and had another.

I haven't met one person except for like this home school girl i know, who hasn't had sex.

oh, you poor poor soul.

let me direct your attention to a very good friend of mine. read the thoughts of 'kentuckian' on this page.

http://www.sodahead.com/quest...

I did it 2 months before getting married. I was just 2 months away though!

With today's way of life i find it very hard to wait till marraige... They use to get married at 14 damn it! I started dating my BF when I was 15. We didn't have sex untill 2 months before I was 18. I was very proud of us for waiting 2 and 1/5 years. I'm still with him, it's been 4 years now and I probably will marry him, but not till I finish 5 more years of schooling, I can't imagine waiting 10 years or more... I don't regret it at all.

and still am...

Since there's no 3rd option for people who haven't married...

I'm almost 22... haven't yet. For a long time it was easy, b/c I wanted to please God by abstaining. Also, I'm not really a normal person in many ways, so it was cool to be different. Lately, though, I've been hurt so much by being different, and have been wanting to go more towards normal.

It was easy at first, not so much now. (Except I'm not in a relationship atm) I always believed I would "make it"... now I'm not so sure, but... we'll see I'm a hard case so don't count me out... or in.... depending on ur views.... yet.

hang in there, your doing good. stand for what you believe in it, don't give in just 'cause it's hard

But I was over 21 when I did.

sometimes i regret it but ive come to accept the fact that i made a choice and theres no going back...of course i dont want to anymore

yes and im still not married... but guess what? i used a condom like your suppose to!
that doesnt mean im like the devil's whore or anything, it just means i fell for the sin.

I couldn't wait...I was a teenage whore.

Didn't wait...but oh do i wish that I had.

I would encourage it. There can be some sexual incompatibilities.

ill wait til im married but honestly i idk if i become a 40-yr-old virgin

i regret being with some of the people i was with; i mainly only did it because of low self esteem; i wanted to feel valued and worthwhile to someone (and i'll tell you, that is the worst way to feel valued, i ended up feeling used a lot of the time!! i was so young and stupid!)

i've been with the same guy for 2 and a half years now, he was a virgin when we met which kind of made me wish that i had been too, it would have been more special. but at the time what i was doing made sense and i can't go back on it.

I also had sex with other guys wives to lol

Our children were in our wedding: 2 flower girls, ring bearer, junior bridesmaid and soloist.

I had sex while still in highschool... to the man I am married to today. :) 11 years together, 3 of those married. The reason? He was the only guy out of previous boyfriends who NEVER tried to push sex on me. And I loved him for that. And then, I just fell in love with him.