Could the best thing about you make you miserable too?

Oh yeah. I'm a complicated lady :)

all of my good things counteract each other. So i'm social, but i can enjoy the space as well and i make quick decisions but don't share them until i'm sure

It happens all the time.

I have photographic memory and I can remember Things clearly from as young as 3. This is good for Tests at school and stuff and it means people Almost never get away with lying or breaking promises. But It also means I never forget awful things that have happened to me like bullying.

I'm a very open, genuine..caring person.

I seem to attract women who need to feed of this to make themselves feel better and leaves me in a confused state, whether they loved me or just used me to recharge their emotional inner being.

Being miserable for more than a very short time is a choice.Same goes for all emotions.As for decisions you make them and then live with them and learn from them. Social life is over rated. Stay out of my yard.

the best thing about me in general is that i often have multiple opinions about one thing. While that's ok for the most part, i tend to get in arguments (mostly other people) who don't understand my positions on something. So i have to explain it all and the thing is im not good at explaining things in a timely matter and then they don't get it or argue even more... and blahh. so yea... it can make you miserable.

I am very social so whenever i am alone i go Crazy !

same here! i hate it! lol

Right? :D

yep XD it drives my friends insane cuz i'll call them at random times like 2am and be like hey i'm losing my mind wacha doin? lmao

Haha...yeah exactlyy ! xD

lmao XD it's good when youre trying to make friends but bad when youre alone with nothing to do :p

Right ! ;D i 100% agree (:

whooo XD lol

Hi my name is Kourtney :)

lol Hey, I'm Ariell :p

That's awesome ! ;D like the mermaid !

yep and i'm a crazy dreamer like her too XD

Yeah she's awesome :)

i'm different in many ways and some poeple don't wanna be friends with me because of that reason :/ it sucks

just dont worry bout em

lol thanks that reallly mde my day....well night i guess

lol yay! glad i could help XD

My husband is not a very chatty person. He likes his garden and pottering around on projects. So I go to the gym, read books, watch TV, volunteer for different things. and waste too much time on SodaHead. Still I am an incurable didactic and somehow alway suffer under the delusion that what I think is as clear as the nose on your face so why can't I get others to come on over.

I guess you could have a strength that is also a weakness.

However, I believe that once you have made something a true strength (whether it is: being social, independent, or analytical) that you will have also become wise in priorities, and balance with your strength. Being social does not require you to be lonely in the absence of others, being independent can also mean that you are self driven and capable but also know your limits and can ask for help, and being analytical with prioritization and wisdom can mean that you do you best to look at a decision from all angles in the time allowed and accept that you can't control situations outside your control.

This is not conceit, but I was a beautiful child, teen and adult. My mother and relatives often praised this too much which made my sisters resent me. Looks can often cause more loneliness.

looks can also often cause you to avoid people. so yeah i do agree that they can makw you lonely

ennh.

ennh? lol

yeah.. just enh.

I try not to think too hard about things like that.

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