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SodaHead Living 2011/08/26 21:16:58
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Yeah. You read that right.

We don't know how sex education classes are nowadays, but ours consisted of a scary video of some woman in labor going through what looked like the most painful experience of her life and a stern "Don't have sex before marriage!" talk from our school principal.

But it looks like times have changed -- in New York City at least. The metropolitan city is reforming the way they look at sex education and will begin implementing a more controversial curriculum starting this year.

What does that mean, exactly? Well, for starters, public middle schools and high schools in the city will be given lessons on how to successfully use a condom and a talk on the appropriate age for sexual activity.

The sex talk we can understand, but a tutorial on how to use a condom? At eleven years old?! That seems a bit excessive.

The brand new mandate is a part of New York Mayor Michael Bloomberg's strategy to improve the quality of life for black and Latino teenagers who, according to city statistics, are far more likely to have unplanned pregnancies and get STD's compared to their white peers.

“It’s obviously something that applies to all boys and all girls,” Linda Gibbs, deputy mayor for health and human services, told the New York Times. “But
when we look at the biggest disadvantages that kids in our city face, it is blacks and Latinos that are most affected by the consequences of early sexual behavior and unprotected sex.”

Do you think New York's sex education mandate is a step in the right direction?
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  • DeeLikeABossHoward 2012/11/16 08:06:54
    No
    DeeLikeABossHoward
    although i new by 8
  • bobby.f.dudley 2012/10/28 02:39:05
    Yes
    bobby.f.dudley
    Of course hey should.In fact,I think ALL boys and girls should be taught YOUNGER.We have to stop lying to ourselves.I started masturbating at the age of 9 ! And,that was in 1971 ! And,I know for some...THAT'S LATE !!!
  • JohnnyRudick 2012/06/19 04:47:54
    No
    JohnnyRudick
    I mean "Yes".

    That was just what I needed at age 11.
    Get me started out in life with the right things in mind.
    You bet.;-)
  • flyingseaturtle BN 2012/05/30 19:49:15
    No
    flyingseaturtle BN
    +1
    Not every 11 year old should be taught how to use a condom but it should be given as a option ;-)
  • BillygoldBill 2012/01/29 23:44:16
    No
    BillygoldBill
    +1
    the parents should teach
  • BUDUMBUDUM 2011/12/13 01:13:28
    No
    BUDUMBUDUM
    +1
    Teaching children to use condoms is only going to increase the number of STD's in the city. This is because when children think that it is alright for them to be sexually active at such a young age and outside of marriage, it leads to them becoming more sexually active. Basically, when kids are taught this they're more likely to believe that the action is condoned and it won't cause them to actually use the condoms anyway.
  • freddie morley-kirk 2011/11/28 22:34:27
    Yes
    freddie morley-kirk
    I think schools should teach students at the legal age when they can have sex.
    people will find out about sex naturally i found out when i was 9 on the school playground
  • aliycat 2011/11/22 21:50:06
    No
    aliycat
    There shouldn't be 11 year olds needing to know that. Me? I leanrt all the BC stuff mostly when I was in ninth grade,which was okay.
  • Elizabeth 2011/11/02 21:29:38
    Yes
    Elizabeth
    i think with the way society is now kids should be taught and if theyre teaching kids about everything else why not that? if it shows them how to use it right then maybe teen pregnancies would drop a little
  • frankthecrank 2011/10/11 01:08:25
    Yes
    frankthecrank
    they should teach sex ed classes in all of the school`s now day`s
  • Fernando 2011/10/03 11:53:05
    No
    Fernando
    +1
    Hell, No !!!!
    I did not have to learn how to use one because I did never use one. I learned about the women’s period and cycles and then a little bit of mortification and control of my basic animal instincts and had no problems at all. We are given the capacities to dominate and control our bodies because of the fact we are intelligent beings but in a society in which every time our children demand something from parents they give them what they want, there is when the problem begins. Just, give me, give me, give me, I want, I want, I want, I want…and then we satisfied their wants because we don’t want to be annoyed, or they ask us something when in front of other people and we don’t want to be embarrassed and so on and so forth. We as parents have to learn how to say No!!! We as parents have to learn about limits and teach our children to learn to build up limits and how to learn self-denial and to learn to wait. (I don’t want to talk about the benefits of the Bible in this way, but as they took it out of the school and lives then “The horse lost its reins”). I think that we have to be grateful for these trouble times with the economy. I think that since we as society have not been able to learn in times of plenty it is now in these scarcity times when we have to learn and learn the hard way. In other wards economic problems are forcing us to learn and to learn the hard way.
  • dlsofsetx 2011/09/30 00:48:12
    No
    dlsofsetx
    +1
    I never needed lessons to use one.Any man with an IQ with at least two digits can figure it out.
  • mooncat 2011/09/28 18:41:43
    No
    mooncat
    +1
    11-year-olds taught to use a condom in NYC schools? Just as I thought, Bloomberg had a hand in this. Right in line with a national finding that there's an epidemic of oral sex among U.S. middle school students, many of whom believe that OS isn't sex. Shades of Bill and Monica!
  • shindogg 2011/09/26 07:37:19
    No
    shindogg
    +1
    they are too young. it would be better if the school told kids they would get cancer and die if they had sex while unmarried and under 21
  • shygurl 2011/09/25 18:46:51
    Yes
    shygurl
    +2
    kids now a days are thinking more about sex than before they think its okay now they dont think about the consquences so maybe teaching them about this can help them understand
  • bettyboop 2011/09/22 16:48:59
  • Mariah 2011/09/18 19:06:41
    No
    Mariah
    +1
    They will think it's ok to have sex at that age. People are stupid. Wow
  • dctravelerforworkandfun 2011/09/17 12:36:34
    Yes
    dctravelerforworkandfun
    +1
    Not all parents are great parents. Some are drug addicts and some sell their kids for sex. Teaching children about condum use under the age of 18 may be necessary in some areas. When would be a good age? At what age do parents show their children how to use condoms? I think the age of 11 was used as a shock factor for soadhead users. If an 11 year old was taught this what were the reasons why? Was the 11 year old already considering engaging in sex before the age of12? Some do, in which case wouldn't it be nice they knew of condoms prior to having sex?
  • Rebecca 2011/09/16 22:21:37
    Yes
    Rebecca
    Hi rebecca here I'm from the uk so we get sexueal ed at the age of nine maybe sometimes lower. I knew a kid who asked me for sex at the age of 7! no joke saw her again and didnt reckonise me one bit. so I believe crottet me if I'm wrong from the usa you are. People have different laws so lets take india for example get married at 13 years i should say and have to get ready for children and sex is the only way we know. so its best everyone knows what sex and condoms the pill e.c.t is before its too late
  • Ashley 2011/09/15 17:31:31 (edited)
    Yes
    Ashley
    +1
    Would you rather they learn how to have a baby at age 11 instead because nobody told them what could happen or what a condom is...to parents saying it's their right to decide what and when to tell their child I say it's my right not to have to give my tax money to people on medical assistance because they had a baby at age 12 and dropped out of school
  • myfoxmystere 2011/09/12 20:01:09
    No
    myfoxmystere
    +2
    Only perverts would allow such a thing to happen.
  • J P myfoxmy... 2011/09/17 18:24:46
    J P
    Only perverts wouldn't want youngsters to be educated about this.
  • Peanut J P 2011/10/16 15:56:55
    Peanut
    +2
    Only perverts would think about children having sex.
  • xifidieyoung 2011/09/10 16:23:54
    Yes
    xifidieyoung
    +3
    Well it seems like some kids are starting to have sex at that age so why not. Besides, I had sex ed when I was 12 and I'm not pregnant.
  • nzapanda 2011/09/10 08:05:47
    No
    nzapanda
    +3
    This is a personal family matter, not something government should be involved in. Same reason why government shouldn't be teaching when, where, and what age you should get married.
  • W Voolzk 2011/09/10 03:24:55
    Yes
    W Voolzk
    +1
    Would parents rather their child learned from the street?
  • nzapanda W Voolzk 2011/09/10 08:06:58
    nzapanda
    +2
    Parents rather their child learn from their parents.
  • JoeDinas 2011/09/09 03:04:54
    No
    JoeDinas
    +2
    let me rephrase that ....... DEAR GOD NO END OF STORY
  • Spyderman739 2011/09/08 14:45:45
    Yes
    Spyderman739
    +7
    It's better to teach abstinence, but since hormones speak louder than anything adults say, it's a good idea to teach kids to protect themselves.
  • JohnnyR... Spyderm... 2012/06/19 04:59:36
    JohnnyRudick
    That way Government has a larger pool of voters who depend on it for livelihood.

    Children having children.
    All turning the young minds to sex it has been shown over and over again how young people are reckless even though they know better.
  • Kayla K 2011/09/08 02:31:18
    No
    Kayla K
    +1
    I think not because im twelve and in my health class, my teachers making us put a condom on a banana
  • nefertari 2011/09/07 01:56:41
    No
    nefertari
    +4
    This is a sick society. At 11 years old boys are still playing with toys. Who in the world has suggested this sick idea?
  • Lyndzz 2011/09/06 15:41:29
    No
    Lyndzz
    +2
    Great now kids know every little detail they'll all have children before they're 20.
  • sapphire_love_life 2011/09/05 05:54:51
    No
    sapphire_love_life
    +4
    *facepalms* im 14 and i swear i know better than some of these knuckle heads.
  • TheTailor 2011/09/05 03:41:33
    No
    TheTailor
    +3
    An 11 year old? Really? Provencetown, MA, gay sick perv capital is giving kids condoms in elementary school. Sick perv lefties want children to get used to sex earlier and earlier, what's next, lower the age of consent like Canada? 14?
  • JohnnyR... TheTailor 2012/06/19 04:54:32 (edited)
    JohnnyRudick
    +1
    That way Government has a larger pool of voters who depend on it for livelihood.

    Children having children.
    All turning the young minds to sex it has been shown over and over again how young people are reckless even though they know better.
  • Demiann 2011/09/04 22:50:49
    Yes
    Demiann
    +4
    I believe it's better to be completely educated so that kids don't end like the girls on 16 and pregnant and teen mom because they are making it look cool to have babies at a young age which is bull. They make it seem so easy but it's not. Trust me. I just recently had my first child and i'm 17 and when people asked me if i wanted to be on the show i said i don't want to influence little girls to get pregnant just to get on MTV.
  • lexi 2011/09/04 19:25:58
    Yes
    lexi
    +5
    It's better to learn now instead of pregnant in middle school...
  • JohnnyR... lexi 2012/06/19 04:55:15 (edited)
    JohnnyRudick
    That way Government has a larger pool of voters who depend on it for livelihood.

    Children having children.
    All turning the young minds to sex it has been shown over and over again how young people are reckless even though they know better.
  • cuteri97 2011/09/04 14:12:13
    No
    cuteri97
    +1
    maybe in high school!
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