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Child Born a Boy, But Lives as a Girl

- An Omaha child born a boy will start the next school year with a new name and a new identity -- as Katie, a girl.

According to the Omaha World-Herald, the parents of the 8-year-old say the child they first named Ben exhibited girlish tendencies as young as 2, when he would create long hair using scarves. A year later, he donned a tiara and dressed as a princess for Halloween.
The child's mother told a CNN affiliate that she's come forward to tell her family's story so people will understand. The Omaha newspaper reported that it is difficult to accurately estimate the number of people in Western countries who are transgendered, meaning they see themselves as a different gender, according to the American Psychological Association.

"If the child is truly transgender, it's not going to go away," said counselor Megan Smith, whom the family consulted.
Ben's family looked at his school drawings that expressed his frustration with feeling like a girl, but looking like a boy. They asked him what he liked about being a boy, and he always answered, "nothing."
Finally, they decided to let Ben be what he wants -- Katie.
"This really isn't our journey," his mother told the newspaper. "We're kind of observers on this path."

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  • crimsonbutterfly May 19, 2009 19:01:35 (edited)
    crimsonbutterfly
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    Those are remarkable and rare parents indeed. It shows how much they love their child. At least she can grow up with a healthy outlook in life.

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  • Kida May 26, 2009 15:06:42
    Kida
    I'm glad that these parents love their child enough to let her become what she feels she needs to be. I work with children such as that and the like, and I can't cound how mant times they've told me that they often feel frustrated when their parents don't understand, they tell me things that they feel and they think that their parents won't love them anymore if they confess.
  • Drew May 25, 2009 16:37:38 (edited)
    Drew
    A few questions : which bathroom will he she use ? How will the other kids treat he she ?
  • Angel123 May 25, 2009 16:26:37
    Angel123
    weird
  • sally May 24, 2009 22:37:14
    sally
    wow this little kid is really wierd
    okay all you gay lovers
    believe ot or not you are the one that gives yourself the out come, you are the one that determines if you want to be straight or not, you are the one that influences yourself.
    if you say that you are born with it then you are just trying to give yourself an excuse. if you keep thinking about it at a young age then you are just kindling a feeling inside of you and you are the one that is doing that ot yourself. its not that you are born with being gay, you are the one that is giving youself a sex perference.
  • Kaylan May 24, 2009 15:58:26
    Kaylan
    WHY DO YOU THINK THE PARENTS SHOULD BE SHOT THATS STUPID.
  • howlowcanugo May 23, 2009 16:50:16
    howlowcanugo
    OMG. Those parents should be shot.
  • Ena howlowc... May 23, 2009 16:59:14
    Ena
    wtf ?
  • howlowc... Ena May 24, 2009 19:28:45
    howlowcanugo
    I say that because what kind of parent does that to a kid? He may have some girlish tendencies, but stop it immediately, don't encourage it!
  • 야만다 ♥ AMANDA May 20, 2009 22:24:56
    야만다 ♥ AMANDA
    How messed up it that kid going to be when later on in life they realized that he was supposed to be a boy.
  • Kitten 야만다 ♥ A... May 23, 2009 08:25:59
    Kitten
    They realize it now; but they will support there baby no matter what! It's not our place to judge! If you don't agree talk to god don't down anyone! The child is merely that; a child who feels out of place! Give the baby a break! He will work his life out himself!
  • 야만다 ♥ A... Kitten May 24, 2009 04:23:30
    야만다 ♥ AMANDA
    +1
    You are telling me to talk to God about this?

    Oh come on!

    If you want to bring religion into this, okay...

    Now why on Earth would God put that kid through all that pain and trouble... confusing him like that?

    I am pretty sure God would not treat his children like that, he would have went ahead and made the boy a girl.
  • Kitten 야만다 ♥ A... May 24, 2009 04:31:33
    Kitten
    Look who is to say that the devil didn't put that in her head but until she/he see's the truth quit judging people you don't know nothing about! Her heart can still be made of gold! That's like someone talkin smack about your kid cause when he/she gets older turns gay! You still love your children no matter what if your a real parent!
  • 야만다 ♥ A... Kitten May 24, 2009 04:38:04
    야만다 ♥ AMANDA
    Look, who is to say that you know anything?
    I don't judge people, I state things like they are.
    Maybe that kid will turn out to be the nicest person in the world, but you know what, I highly doubt that the devil got to him. He is a little boy and kids get curious. I am glad that the parent love him enough to go with what they think is right, but apparently he was born as a boy for a reason, whether it is an act of God or not.
  • Kitten 야만다 ♥ A... May 24, 2009 22:53:43
    Kitten
    Curiosity for 6 years, doubt it! You must have never heard of babies born with both parts? So let me ask you this, if they have all parts what are they supposed to act like? Who is to say he don't ovaries? You know what I don't know everything but what I do know is that he wants to be himself, so let him! Yeah he was born a boy for a reason and neither me or you know why?
  • 야만다 ♥ A... Kitten May 25, 2009 03:26:34
    야만다 ♥ AMANDA
    How do you doubt that a 6 year old is going to be curious. Kids are curious about everything all the time.
    I have heard of people being born with both parts.
    He is six years, he doesn't know what he wants for himself.
    If six year olds were to to make choices for themselves then we would most likely have half naked trouble makers running around eating junk food and drinking kool-aid and carbonated beverages. Probably playing the "show me yours I will show you mine" game.

    Anyway, I am no expert... but I don't think someone like you should just be coming up here bugging out about my original comment when it is my opinion and my thoughts. If you feel like you can accept the six year olds "issue" then why was it so hard for you to overlook my comment?

    Well, honestly, I don't want to talk about this anymore. So, please can we just let this fade out? I have been having a tough week last week and weekend with my grandma's health and she passed this morning. I know you are probably thinking, why shoud I feel sympathetic toward you because I don't know you or something like that... but.... I dunno... I am just gonna go for now... talk to you later.
  • Kitten 야만다 ♥ A... May 25, 2009 04:53:16
    Kitten
    I am very sorry about your grandmother, very sorry! I hate that that happened and I do feel for you because I have a big heart! and just one more thing about the artical so you will fully understand what I was saying about it was that The child is actually eight and has been feeling like a girl since he was two! That's what I meant by confused for 6yrs doubt it! But yes we can let this die out! My reply was not to hurt you or start a fight it was just to open your mind! That's all! I have love for everyone and hate no one! I don't like to judge or watch someone be judged, so I apologize If I came on too strong with my opinions! I do love how aggressive you are back with me! It's hard to get a good debate on things anymore! So if you would still like to talk and possibly be friends let me know I will Ask you to be one of my sodaheads!
  • 야만다 ♥ A... Kitten May 25, 2009 04:59:11
    야만다 ♥ AMANDA
    Thanks.
    I think I have just been kind of hostile about everything lately because of the situation my family and I have been in for about a month now. It is just so stressful.
    I really don't know how I got six years from eight. But then again most of the time when I am on here it is like 3am which is dumb, because I am tired and not completely aware of what I want to say. Yet, me, being the stubborn person I am, I stay up so late everynight just to do it no matter how tired I am.

    It is okay.
    If this would have been any other time, then I most likely would have seen your point a lot easier.

    I was aggressive!? Man I am a terrible person. My mom tells everyone that I am shy and quiet but when I feel like it is necessary I have a mouth on me. haha.

    I don't mind being friends. You can never have too many. =)
  • Kitten 야만다 ♥ A... May 25, 2009 05:33:27
    Kitten
    You are not a terrible person; It's good to be aggressive sometimes! LOL! It just means you won't let people tell you how to think and feel! Which was not my intentions! I know that stress can take a tole on someone believe me have alot of it my self! LOL!!!! But heck who don't anymore!!!! But truly I am sorry about everything you and your parents are going through! Death is hard no doubt! Much love and respect to you and your family! Try to get some rest it will help with alot more than you know! Just don't sleep your life away that is the bad part about depression and or anxiety!
  • 야만다 ♥ A... Kitten May 25, 2009 05:41:14
    야만다 ♥ AMANDA
    LOL.
    Thanks.
    It has been tough.
    Everything just feels different.
    I am not used to sudden change.
    I usually like to do things on my own time and when I am ready to.
    haha
    Well, I will totally try to stay strong and help my dad through this because granny is his mom. Dad already lost poppy (his dad) about six years ago.
    Anyway, thank you for being understanding and I am sorry if I took what you were trying to say, the wrong way.

    I get crazy for like a whole week once every month here on sodahead if you know what I mean, but this time I have just been so rude. Sorry. I should sleep. You are right.
  • Kitten 야만다 ♥ A... May 25, 2009 05:57:30
    Kitten
    Lol good go to bed now night night!!!!

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