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Child Born a Boy, But Lives as a Girl
- May 19, 2009 18:36:14
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- An Omaha child born a boy will start the next school year with a new name and a new identity -- as Katie, a girl.
According to the Omaha World-Herald, the parents of the 8-year-old say the child they first named Ben exhibited girlish tendencies as young as 2, when he would create long hair using scarves. A year later, he donned a tiara and dressed as a princess for Halloween.
The child's mother told a CNN affiliate that she's come forward to tell her family's story so people will understand. The Omaha newspaper reported that it is difficult to accurately estimate the number of people in Western countries who are transgendered, meaning they see themselves as a different gender, according to the American Psychological Association.
"If the child is truly transgender, it's not going to go away," said counselor Megan Smith, whom the family consulted.
Ben's family looked at his school drawings that expressed his frustration with feeling like a girl, but looking like a boy. They asked him what he liked about being a boy, and he always answered, "nothing."
Finally, they decided to let Ben be what he wants -- Katie.
"This really isn't our journey," his mother told the newspaper. "We're kind of observers on this path."
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According to the Omaha World-Herald, the parents of the 8-year-old say the child they first named Ben exhibited girlish tendencies as young as 2, when he would create long hair using scarves. A year later, he donned a tiara and dressed as a princess for Halloween.
The child's mother told a CNN affiliate that she's come forward to tell her family's story so people will understand. The Omaha newspaper reported that it is difficult to accurately estimate the number of people in Western countries who are transgendered, meaning they see themselves as a different gender, according to the American Psychological Association.
"If the child is truly transgender, it's not going to go away," said counselor Megan Smith, whom the family consulted.
Ben's family looked at his school drawings that expressed his frustration with feeling like a girl, but looking like a boy. They asked him what he liked about being a boy, and he always answered, "nothing."
Finally, they decided to let Ben be what he wants -- Katie.
"This really isn't our journey," his mother told the newspaper. "We're kind of observers on this path."
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+7Those are remarkable and rare parents indeed. It shows how much they love their child. At least she can grow up with a healthy outlook in life.
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okay all you gay lovers
believe ot or not you are the one that gives yourself the out come, you are the one that determines if you want to be straight or not, you are the one that influences yourself.
if you say that you are born with it then you are just trying to give yourself an excuse. if you keep thinking about it at a young age then you are just kindling a feeling inside of you and you are the one that is doing that ot yourself. its not that you are born with being gay, you are the one that is giving youself a sex perference.
Oh come on!
If you want to bring religion into this, okay...
Now why on Earth would God put that kid through all that pain and trouble... confusing him like that?
I am pretty sure God would not treat his children like that, he would have went ahead and made the boy a girl.
I don't judge people, I state things like they are.
Maybe that kid will turn out to be the nicest person in the world, but you know what, I highly doubt that the devil got to him. He is a little boy and kids get curious. I am glad that the parent love him enough to go with what they think is right, but apparently he was born as a boy for a reason, whether it is an act of God or not.
I have heard of people being born with both parts.
He is six years, he doesn't know what he wants for himself.
If six year olds were to to make choices for themselves then we would most likely have half naked trouble makers running around eating junk food and drinking kool-aid and carbonated beverages. Probably playing the "show me yours I will show you mine" game.
Anyway, I am no expert... but I don't think someone like you should just be coming up here bugging out about my original comment when it is my opinion and my thoughts. If you feel like you can accept the six year olds "issue" then why was it so hard for you to overlook my comment?
Well, honestly, I don't want to talk about this anymore. So, please can we just let this fade out? I have been having a tough week last week and weekend with my grandma's health and she passed this morning. I know you are probably thinking, why shoud I feel sympathetic toward you because I don't know you or something like that... but.... I dunno... I am just gonna go for now... talk to you later.
I think I have just been kind of hostile about everything lately because of the situation my family and I have been in for about a month now. It is just so stressful.
I really don't know how I got six years from eight. But then again most of the time when I am on here it is like 3am which is dumb, because I am tired and not completely aware of what I want to say. Yet, me, being the stubborn person I am, I stay up so late everynight just to do it no matter how tired I am.
It is okay.
If this would have been any other time, then I most likely would have seen your point a lot easier.
I was aggressive!? Man I am a terrible person. My mom tells everyone that I am shy and quiet but when I feel like it is necessary I have a mouth on me. haha.
I don't mind being friends. You can never have too many. =)
Thanks.
It has been tough.
Everything just feels different.
I am not used to sudden change.
I usually like to do things on my own time and when I am ready to.
haha
Well, I will totally try to stay strong and help my dad through this because granny is his mom. Dad already lost poppy (his dad) about six years ago.
Anyway, thank you for being understanding and I am sorry if I took what you were trying to say, the wrong way.
I get crazy for like a whole week once every month here on sodahead if you know what I mean, but this time I have just been so rude. Sorry. I should sleep. You are right.