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Can you disagree,yet still love someone?

Sister Jean 2012/09/21 00:20:38
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  • InfinitiRose 2012/09/21 09:50:55 (edited)
    yes
    InfinitiRose
    +2
    I think it can definitely make things difficult -particularly if it's something you feel deeply about- because it makes you question the kind of person they are. But most of these things are completely overcomable. Little things like foods, music, movies are annoying and kind of cute. Me and my love get into silly arguments -espcially over food. He's THE pickiest eater- that usually lead to play fights, that then often lead to hot passionate sex. If thats not the kind of relationship you want then I feel bad for you. But like I said, with deeply important issues, it can be tough. For instance I could never see myself loving someone that was a real, committed, unwavering racist, overbearing religious bigot, or satanist. But that's just me. If you really love someone there's usually a workable middle ground. And basically what I think it all boils down to is you can't help who you fall in love with.
  • thetacat 2012/09/21 09:48:16
    yes
    thetacat
    +3
    I like the people closest to me to be intelligent and capable of having a good debate now and again. It'd be boring to agree on everything. Some of my closest friends have different political, ethical and religious beliefs, but I love them to pieces.
  • .: LiVi :. 2012/09/21 08:42:00
    yes
    .: LiVi :.
    +3
    Sure, that's what love is
  • Ryoko 2012/09/21 06:50:21
    yes
    Ryoko
    +1
    I have many times, but I have to say it's really mind boggling as to why I still love him.
  • jennie 2012/09/21 05:48:13
    yes
    jennie
    +2
    You can not like someone but love them.
  • zapped 2012/09/21 04:51:37
    yes
    zapped
    +2
    yep it's been 15 yrs on this marriage ,,and we disagree half the time ,,dont discuss politics .....

    but has same views about current factions !
  • us 2012/09/21 04:18:13
    yes
    us
    +1
    yes, when you are with someone you usually disagree, that what makes it interesting.
  • Alicia 2012/09/21 03:45:12
    yes
    Alicia
    +2
    If you couldn't then nobody would be able to stay married. I love my husband but he's just always wrong and won't ever admit it.
  • zapped Alicia 2012/09/21 04:54:22
    zapped
    +3
    sound like my marriage ,,,and I let her think she always right !
  • Alicia zapped 2012/09/21 06:22:47
    Alicia
    +2
    You're a wise man!
  • zapped Alicia 2012/09/21 19:37:46
    zapped
    +1
    on my 3rd one ..I learned "after reading the book"
    ( men are from mars women are from venus ) good reading !
  • Pam 2012/09/21 03:24:24
    yes
    Pam
    +4
    My mother and I were as different as night and day. We had some memorable knock down drag outs, but in the end, we loved each other very much. Its been 5 years Jean and I still miss her and not a day goes by that I don't think of her. The fights make me laugh though.
  • richie 2012/09/21 02:27:27
    yes
    richie
    +1
    Yes I can
  • Cricket 2012/09/21 02:22:02
    yes
    Cricket
    +3
    of course!
  • rereblue 2012/09/21 02:21:53
    yes
    rereblue
    +2
    Of course, unless you're completely intolerant of anyone being different.
  • Lordoftheringsrox 2012/09/21 02:21:16
    yes
    Lordoftheringsrox
    +2
    Most of my family prefers drama in their t.v shows, while I lean more towards comedy. I still love them regardless! Different preferences for different people :)
  • peaches 2012/09/21 02:11:29
    yes
    peaches
    +1
    Certainly!
  • cjd 2012/09/21 02:10:08
    yes
    cjd
    +1
    of course
  • Soup Man 2012/09/21 02:10:06
    yes
    Soup Man
    +2
    do it every day
  • Rust 2012/09/21 01:49:31
  • ♛Littlɘ Ǫuɘɘn~ƿɦɐɘϯ 2012/09/21 01:47:01
    yes
    ♛Littlɘ Ǫuɘɘn~ƿɦɐɘϯ
    +3
    I have a mom and children. I do it all the time.
  • JustBeingAtPeace 2012/09/21 01:42:51
    yes
    JustBeingAtPeace
    +2
    Yes you can, we disagree constantly on parenting and everyday issues but in the end always love each other be it my siblings Mother or my other half our conversations always end with "I love you" and mean it.
  • Jan Haskell 2012/09/21 01:27:01
    yes
    Jan Haskell
    +2
    It keeps life interesting. Some of my best friends disagree with me :)
    I don t agree but I love you
  • Captain Christopher 2012/09/21 01:25:00
    Undecided
    Captain Christopher
    +3
    Hmmm, I like Dave Mason "We Just Disagree."
    'Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh, ooh oh o-whoo'
  • Trader1 is kerbonkin' 2012/09/21 01:23:08
    yes
    Trader1 is kerbonkin'
    +2
    Yep, hubby and I do all the time. Just because we're married and madly in love doesn't mean we're attached at the hip or brain.
  • DH 2012/09/21 01:19:27
    yes
    DH
    +3
    Of course. I disagree with most of my family about most things, but I still love them.
  • sυιcι∂εsυη∂αε~ 2012/09/21 01:14:35
    Undecided
    sυιcι∂εsυη∂αε~
    +1
    I dunno, they say opposites attract but I wouldn't know.. I have to have at least one thing in common with them
  • JohnT 2012/09/21 00:52:51
    yes
    JohnT
    +3
    Having differing opinions makes life interesting. If we were all the same how boring that would be. My sweet bride and I disagree on many things from religion to politics, and it is not a problem, because for those of us that live and love life and enjoy many other like interests none of those things are very important.
  • Sister ... JohnT 2012/09/21 00:56:22
  • Nam Era Vet #1 DNA TLC 2012/09/21 00:50:15
    yes
    Nam Era Vet #1 DNA TLC
    +2
    My wife and I disagree on things sometimes.
  • Gracie - Proud Conservative 2012/09/21 00:37:06
    yes
    Gracie - Proud Conservative
    +1
    I couldn't fundamentally disagree with a mate, only trivial things.
  • Pita 2012/09/21 00:36:34
    yes
    Pita
    +1
    sometimes the best part of love is arguing. it can be fun at times....then again dont let things get out of control.
  • Scott (o)(o) 2012/09/21 00:35:56
    yes
    Scott (o)(o)
    +1
    if your not an ass&ole; !!!
  • Sister ... Scott (... 2012/09/21 00:38:46
  • Scott (... Sister ... 2012/09/21 00:55:44
    Scott (o)(o)
    +1
    sis I know I lack filters sometimes but in my mind we can disagree and still be cool with each other unless one of us was an ASS
  • Katt 2012/09/21 00:35:25
    yes
    Katt
    +1
    If only this applied to politics
  • Jim in SC 2012/09/21 00:34:23
    yes
    Jim in SC
    +1
    Absolutely
  • Saga 2012/09/21 00:33:12
    yes
    Saga
    +1
    Of course! You're always going to disagree with someone on SOME point, somewhere along the line.
  • Lee The Hybrid Snowflake 2012/09/21 00:32:29
    yes
    Lee The Hybrid Snowflake
    +1
    Absolutely, loving someone means accepting everything about them even if you don't agree.
  • Anonymous Loner 2012/09/21 00:28:25
    yes
    Anonymous Loner
    +2
    Of course! I once loved a girl who bullied me!

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