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Can You Be In Love With Someone Emotionally But Not Be Physically Attracted?

Geezertalk 2009/07/29 17:33:38
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  • falice 2011/04/15 15:59:33
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    falice
    i have the same question and I really like this guy emotionally but I dont have a strong physical attraction to him, i just don't know what to do! i have a physical attraction to like three other guys as well as this guy i like but only more. I just need some advice. how do i deal with this situation? just wondering. please answer.
  • Mimi Lucia 2009/08/16 13:48:15
    Yes
    Mimi Lucia
    Absolutely!!! There are women/men that I am literally in love with, but have no physical attraction to them what-so-ever. It is what it is.
  • Brosia 2009/08/02 01:15:48
    Yes
    Brosia
    There are lots of kinds of love.
  • Spizzzo BN-0 2009/08/01 06:35:34
    Yes
    Spizzzo BN-0
    But it's not much fun.
  • queenalyss Spizzzo... 2009/08/05 20:00:42
    queenalyss
    +1
    ABSOLUTELY
  • Beck∞♥☮♫♫♫∞ 2009/07/31 17:10:37
    Yes
    Beck∞♥☮♫♫♫∞
    ohhh yea looks are not everything! Im totally falling in love.
  • Autumn 2009/07/31 14:13:31
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    Autumn
    You can love someone.and not be physically attracted. but not In love, being in love with some one is physical attraction.
  • rabid repubilican 2009/07/31 14:03:47
    Yes
    rabid repubilican
    sure
  • Queen B 2009/07/31 12:44:06
    No
    Queen B
    Not unless I was blind. I'm a very visual person, so I have to be physically attracted to someone on some level. I don't think I could be in love with them just emotionally. It's all part of a bigger package. It would be like being in love with the most drop dead gorgeous person, but they are ugly on the inside. I wouldn't be able to do that either.
  • Maddie 2009/07/31 11:59:16
    Yes
    Maddie
    I think you can but I also think it's hard to have a relationship if you not physically attracted to them. But there have been a few people I fell in love with their personality well I don't know about love but you know.
  • G 2009/07/31 08:27:16
    No
    G
    I don't think so.
  • icymore 2009/07/31 08:10:32
    No
    icymore
    I can't imagine being in love with someone and not being physically attracted to him. Isn't that just part of it?
  • bccxcc 2009/07/31 01:59:21
    Yes
    bccxcc
    I don't see why not
  • Feck Sodahed 2009/07/30 22:14:46
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    Feck Sodahed
    Not in a romantic sense. The kind of love a family member or friend has...then yes... you can love them in spite of their physical flaws. But in cases like when couples grow apart and are no longer attracted to one another...that's a different kind of love too. Similar to the family/friend love... which is a love made up more of compassion...pity... empathy...and sympathy. I think that explains how people who say "I still love you...but I'm not in love with you" comes in.
  • AmericanVirus 2009/07/30 20:45:58
    Yes
    AmericanVirus
    It'll happen.
  • Hula girl - Friends not Fol... 2009/07/30 20:32:47
    Yes
    Hula girl - Friends not Followers
    +1
    Absolutely, it happens all the time. Many marriages are that way. They love each other but are not sexual or physical with each other and haven't been for years.
  • johnnywoo 2009/07/30 20:22:37
    Yes
    johnnywoo
    +1
    Yes,I agree,you talk to the person on the phone and you fall in love with their voice! You converse with a person on the internet,and you love the way they put their words together! But have never physically met!
  • MickeyRenee~ 2009/07/30 17:47:37
    Yes
    MickeyRenee~
    +1
    I think so. Love is blind.
  • Nick~believe ^MOTOOP^ 2009/07/30 17:36:59
    No
    Nick~believe ^MOTOOP^
    +1
    I'm sure it's possible, but I can't. I can love someone I'm not physically attracted to, but being IN love is different.
  • Lizzie Bee *In My Sisters I... 2009/07/30 15:42:17
    Yes
    Lizzie Bee *In My Sisters I Trust*
    +1
    absolutely
  • Treecat47 2009/07/30 15:33:48
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    Treecat47
    +1
    I'm not sure.

    The people who I have been in love with I was attracted to them physically and emotionally.

    Maybe some can be.
  • dreamwriter12 ✲the libraria... 2009/07/30 15:31:05
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    dreamwriter12 ✲the librarian of ρнaεt✲ in grammar I trust
    +2
    I suppose you could be, but I wouldn't think of it as both a true and romantic sort of love. If you are romantically in love with somebody, you will generally be attracted to them in every single way: intellectually, emotionally, physically, etc.
  • Necole 2009/07/30 14:28:37
    Yes
    Necole
    +5
    Yes, you can be in a emotional relationship with someone and not be attracted to them. I mean my ex-husband John and I who was married for 9 and a half years was like that. I wasn't attracted to his body except for his face, and loved him dearly.
  • Treasure ♥ijm♥ 2009/07/30 14:12:25
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    Treasure ♥ijm♥
    +1
    Not sure....I know that I am in love with someone that I haven't met in person yet but I also know that I am attracted to him in every way. He stimulates me emotionally, mentally and physically just by being who he is!! Never say never! : )
  • turkey pepperoni 2009/07/30 13:40:15
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    turkey pepperoni
    +1
    oh that's a good question. i'm stumped.
  • Geezertalk turkey ... 2009/07/30 20:24:33
    Geezertalk
    +1
    Excellent.
    excellent
  • Heather Unknown 2009/07/30 13:06:52
    Yes
    Heather Unknown
    +1
    <---Who better to ask.
  • Killjoys Queen 2009/07/30 12:05:10
    Yes
    Killjoys Queen
    +1
    I think so...it's possible.
    There are times when one person feels attracted to another person not because of physical attractiveness but because they feel connected somehow, and through some qualities that a person possessed, e.g. great personality or a sense of humour...
  • allyface 2009/07/30 11:51:52
    Yes
    allyface
    +1
    i guess
    guess
  • Waiting 2009/07/30 11:32:01
    Yes
    Waiting
    +1
    Absolutely. You can be in love with someone and have never met them in person.
  • Florida Keys 2009/07/30 08:54:47
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    Florida Keys
    +1
    maybe?

  • WhoaIt'sSarah. 2009/07/30 06:16:20
    Yes
    WhoaIt'sSarah.
    +1
    yes.like if u met online and have no idea what he looks like and fall for him. then u met in person and see hes okay but not something you HAVE to kiss.....
  • Captain Tobias. The Liberal... 2009/07/30 05:38:56
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    Captain Tobias. The Liberal Captain
    +1
    Yes and no. Mainly what the case is you are Physically attracted by someone, but not Emotionally attracted to that person.
  • Jay 2009/07/30 05:18:20
    Yes
    Jay
    +1
    Yes, it's called friendship, lol!
  • beyondtheparadoxical 2009/07/30 05:13:03
    Yes
    beyondtheparadoxical
    +1
    Yes, absolutely. I know this firsthand. But I think that if you fall in love with someone, you can get past not being physically attracted to them.
  • claire0917 2009/07/30 05:12:19
    Yes
    claire0917
    +6
    I believe so, love is a very strange thing.
  • Sleepytiredgirl 2009/07/30 04:49:08
    Other
    Sleepytiredgirl
    +1
    I have been wondering that for the last week or so, I am not really sure, I think if you are emotionally in love with someone they become physically attractive........but Im not sure........I think physical attraction is important.
  • ruthie 2009/07/30 04:36:18
    Yes
    ruthie
    +1
    yes I can.
  • jazie 2009/07/30 01:44:25
    Yes
    jazie
    +1
    i guesse so
  • apachehellfire65 2009/07/30 01:38:40
    Yes
    apachehellfire65
    +1
    have you ever been married lol.

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