Can The Girl Propose to The Guy??

Anything is possible. Depends obviously on the person you want to marry. Some guys can easily handle this, others cannot. Good luck.

She can Tell Him About Her Feelings, but Don't Propose to Men

I was proposed to by my girlfriend in one of my very first 'intense' relationships. I didn't marry her, but the precedent had been set. I don't see anything wrong with the woman proposing, but not every guy can handle it. Proceed cautiously. Keep telling him you wanna get married. If he doesn't respond, then you can ask--but be prepared for him to say no, not yet, freak out, etc.

But what do I know. I'm only 12. ROFLOL!

Do ordinary people still do these artificial, staged proposals?

Surely it's more like you both find yourselves in a place where the next obvious step is to get married and you both decide to take that step together...

This is a key opportunity for you to test his love for you. If he truly loves you as you do him it will not matter to him who propose's. You say you have been through your fair share of up's and down's. That is good because you have seen the other side of each other and you have worked through them. Far too many people today do not do that and find out only too late that they are not right for each other.

This is not something that anyone can truly tell you what to do. Every man looks at this differently and it is a fact that many feel like it is their place to do the asking. But we also know there is nothing magic about it.

There is only one issue that could present itself. If he has already planed on asking you and is trying to work out that special way of doing so, as to surprise you, then when you do ask it would spoil those plans. The only thing for you to do is to try to determine where he is on this without spilling your plans. If you know one of his friends you may want to ask them what they think and determine from that where he may stand on this.

Do not put this off if your heart is set on asking. He may beat you to it.

Nice response!

Thank you! :-)

Yes, but I think it's the guy's job to propose, not the woman's.

Women want equal rights, right?



That means they should start opening doors for men like men open doors for women.


Can't have equal rights and expect men to do everything. This is 2012... you want to get married to him, so Propose!

It doesn't really matter to me, if girls do. I mean I prefer the guy too. But It doesn't really matter.

I think you should.

Personally, I don't see why not. BUT! If you don't wait and pay attention to what he believes should happen. You could spoil it! Especially if he has bought the ring and has been waiting for the right moment, as he sees it, no matter how long it's been since he's bought the ring. Being impatient can also taint or sometimes ruin a relationship. Even a strong one. It can make a man feel like you don't trust him to make the important decisions. If you insist on being the one to ask, you better know, I mean really know how he feels about such things! I hope this helped give you food for thought, any way.

why not?

It is a new world... Women can pop the question just as well as the men.

It is about time they deal with the rejection of someone saying NO! : )

I've never heard of any man being bothered by the idea that his lady might be the one to pop the question. It's not emasculating or sleazy or anything like that-- seems like it would be the nicest thing a guy could hear if he was in a serious, committed relationship.

A lot of couples don't seem to know *who* proposed-- they'd always just assumed they'd be married at some point.

Take your time with it, if you're going to, and do it exactly the way you want to.
Make every event in your life a celebration. Best of luck with this! :O)

Sure! Why not?

Yea it doesn't really matter who asks and if he paid more attention to the fact that you asked instead of being happy bout it anyways then I'd say you have a problem there.

sure

It has happened.