Can someone come and heal the heart that broke a year ago?

sorry to say i know EXACTLY what your talking about...i can say honestly...what healed my broken heart?
this song,this band,this man...swear to BJA

soon as you decide it's time to move on..you can tease me , lecture me, tell me what the difference between right & wrong are..even tell me i'm old and boring ( it's true after all)... the early years of our lives are the trials we must all face.. only the time and energy we choose to dwell upon failed relationships that confront us along our individual journey, will really really help us to gain a heathy perspective on the human experience... moving on & remembering the fond memories and even the not so fond memories makes us who we are...but, moving on is exactly what we all will do... sanity intact or not is optional =)

This is going to sound harsh and uncaring but stop feeling sorry for yourself. No one else does. Now get your ass out there and have some fun. Sheesh!!!

it WAS harsh and uncaring and yeah there are people that care because they KNOW how mdaly in llove with him i was!

what?

ahh ok

Move on. It's one guy.

Before I say anything, how old are you? xD

16 almost 17

You're still young, don't waste your time worrying about this one guy. I read the comments below and i honestly don't think a guy like that is worth your time. I know letting go is hard, I get really attached to people, but it's better to focus on people who truly care about you and not let your happiness depend on someone else.

i know that but he was my longest relationship.... almost 6 months... he betrayed everything i held close

It doesn't matter how long you've dated, if he betrayed you in any way and doesn't seem to care about it move on and focus on things that are actually worth it.

like my acting, modeling and writing? and school and work?

Exactly x)

The best thing I found is to find yourself. We rely on other people to define us when is should be who we are defines who are friends/partners are. Find something you love and do it...be happy just being you. The rest will come.

i think the reason why you cant get over it is because you havent forgaven this guy if you forgive him you can let go and get better

i DIDNT get closure... he started dating this slut the day after he breaks up with me. what could i have done? he refuses to talk to me!

well then just write a letter but dont send it it will maek you feel better i have done it before for a really bad thing that i thought i couldnt get over but writing a letter let me forgive him and even though i didnt hear his side i let it go

i wrote him 3 letters and burned all of hit things that he sent me

well then you just need to talk to him try to get his attention or something or have someone trick him to get him to meet you instead of them

he lives 6 states away... im moving up there in a year and a half...

wow umm well then i have no idea what to tell you besides anybody stupid to break up with you is aa son of a b*tch because you are really pretty

thanks. that means alot. :)

A good friend of my mother told her after her husband, my step father, died, "It seems dark today but the sun will shine and the sky will be blue again." Allow yourself to grieve and then move on.

its been almost a full year. i cant possibly find anyone now. the guys i like dont like me because they think im a freak

nonsense. If that is your picture, you are pretty and young--plenty of time to find different guys. Value yourself rather than who likes or dislikes you for a while...

that was my picture before i dyed my hair black. and thank you