Can a someone at fifty years of age go on a date with a 19 year-old?

White Horses 2013/01/17 18:35:12
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  • Sinister Ken Doll™ 2013/01/22 03:48:39
    Sinister Ken Doll™
    They're both adults fully capable of making their own decisions
  • wamcalif 2013/01/21 06:09:14
    Depends on what you consider a date. If two people have common interests, like maybe catching a jazz performance for dinner & drinks. Or going to the wax museum for laughs, or art gallery. Everything does not have to be about sex, but if two adults are willing, so what?
  • Keith 2013/01/20 23:23:09
    They can but they shouldn't.
  • blissful 2013/01/19 07:10:02
    Hell No!!...
  • kitkat42 2013/01/19 07:05:37
    As long as they take a nap first! :)
  • Racquelle 2013/01/19 03:56:11 (edited)
    The question isn't 'can they', the question is 'should they'....Of course they can it's a personal decision between 2 adults; I would say it's probably not the best decision. Personally I don't get it; I'm not even 50 yet and I have zero interest in dating someone that much younger than me...
  • specGlass 2013/01/19 03:50:38
    if someme at 50 m33t a 19 y.o girl i dont call it as dating,,its more like having fun rather than a intimate f33ling,,old guy do wanna have fun too
  • debhead 2013/01/19 02:38:20
    Yes they can but should they. I was with someone who was 21 years younger than me for 2 years. The sex was great for awhile but it was always just for play
    I had to break it off and let him go have his own life. I had fun but I wouldn't do it again.
  • White H... debhead 2013/01/19 02:53:01
  • YourCompanionCube 2013/01/19 00:45:49
    ****ing Hell! What happened to bloody Morality?
  • White H... YourCom... 2013/01/19 00:49:27
  • euphrosyne 2013/01/19 00:44:15 (edited)
    Why not? If both of them love each other and are okay with it, society cannot stop them in no way. I personaly believe that It's not wrong at all when it comes to age difference(from my experience, It's not impossible to fall in love with someone way older). Of course, there would apparently present a few problems in the future,since the young one would someday have the desire to build a family and would probably look for things that the old one couldn't provide anymore. So...I don't think that this relationship would last for ever..haha.

    But It's your own life, in which you have the chance to take your own choices and risks. people who are not okay with it should better pay attention to their own lifes..
  • White H... euphrosyne 2013/01/19 00:46:23
  • Ripley 2013/01/18 22:12:58
    they can if they want but I wouldn't advise it
  • B_M_Anderson 2013/01/18 22:10:27
    Why not, old enough to vote, old enough to fight / die for your country ...
  • Mj PINKYFINGERDOWN 2013/01/18 22:09:10
  • ziad 2013/01/18 22:06:28
    I'm not the best
  • Jon the Flamer 2013/01/18 20:19:38
    Jon the Flamer
    I see no reason why a 50 year old man or woman couldn't date me, but I'd question if I would be enough for someone of that caliber.
  • mikeyavelli 2013/01/18 18:14:38
    win win here. a 19 year old male will thrill a 50 year old female. and there is not a 50 year old man alive who wouldn't, if given a legit chance, get it on with a 19 year old female. just how it is. not too many exceptions.
  • Dawn 2013/01/18 18:13:07
    Legally, yes. At 19 he's a legal adult and can date whom he wants, but I think it's gross/weird being with someone old enough to be your grandma.
  • Greg Saunders 2013/01/18 17:22:23
    Greg Saunders
    Though I think the guy that is attracted by it is immature himself.
  • White H... Greg Sa... 2013/01/18 19:03:52
  • Greg Sa... White H... 2013/01/19 10:00:45
    Greg Saunders
    Why's that?
  • White H... Greg Sa... 2013/01/19 10:20:57 (edited)
  • Greg Sa... White H... 2013/01/19 10:46:09
    Greg Saunders
    I never go by what I've been taught but by research or some experience. I did answer yes to the question and partly for your reasons but in my experience the type of guy that leans towards much younger women were immature in other ways too. Younger girls tend to have the romantic dream of love and many of those men know it and play on it. They're also usually more inexperienced and still haven't worked out what they want so it can even be unfair.

    If I take on your reasoning completely as an animal instinct then surely the girl should also go for the fitter younger handsome male. But it's just more logical that relationships are difficult enough without added pressure, she should be out experiencing life and doing stupid stuff with her immature friends of her own age. She misses out on a lot of lessons, she might not see it at the time but has no choice afterwards to rejuvenate herself if she changes her mind.

    Then there are the genuine cases where the guy hasn't just a liking for younger girls but simply met someone who he fell in love with. No one should have a say when it's not predatory.
  • White H... Greg Sa... 2013/01/19 14:08:36
  • Dickens 2013/01/18 17:18:00
    ..of course...I wouldn't, but it's their choice...I think I'd have a hard (no pun intended) time finding common conversational ground...
  • Rod 2013/01/18 17:09:52
    CAN a fifty year old date a 19 year old? Of course they CAN. Besides that it's nobodies business but theirs.
  • monkeyking908 2013/01/18 16:53:46
  • Greatkibble 2013/01/18 16:09:17
    Are you, sharing out your fantasies...?
  • White H... Greatki... 2013/01/18 16:13:20
  • twocrows 2013/01/18 15:53:01
    of course. if the two of them insist on looking foolish, who are we to stop them?
  • Psyblade 2013/01/18 15:48:38
    They're both adults.
  • lucky 2013/01/18 15:28:18
    Legally yes but I would be suspect of the 50 yr olds motives and worry about whether the 19 yr old understands what they were getting into.
  • White H... lucky 2013/01/18 16:03:33
  • lucky White H... 2013/01/18 16:59:45
    Its not about the ages, its about that much of an age difference between the two people. Not knowing either person personally, as someone who did marry someone 15 yrs older than me, I know personally that with age difference comes differences in life experience. Its extremely hard to imagine when you dont know the people personally exactly what kind of life experience they may have in common. Better to be suspect then outright condemn or take the chance that either of the people are not on the up and up.
  • Willy 2013/01/18 15:21:39
    Yes, just ask Hugh Hefner.

    hugh hefner and gurlfriend
  • Wonder Woman 2013/01/18 15:20:16
  • White H... Wonder ... 2013/01/18 16:05:37
  • Wonder ... White H... 2013/01/18 23:32:55
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