Can A Couple Have A Relationship With No Arguments Or Fights?

if you don't argue you can't make up... i thought that was the fun part

What kind of relationship would that be? Damn girl. That's half the fun.

The current las I am with (been with her for the better part of this year), we have argued once, and have not outright fought over anything. We have our occasional disagreements, but those are compromised in minutes.
Even that one argument we did have, everything was fine and dandy the very next day. So in my experience, yes, or very very close to yes.

Highly doubtful.

Only if they lived in separate countires and never spoke after the honeymoon.

lol even then it would be doubtful...

I did it with my husband for the entire first year we were together. When we moved in together with my daughter everything changed within a week or so. HE became very Authoritarian and Tried to be Father to her, she had one, he could have tried a better approach. 20 years later he had an affair.

That would be pretty awesome if they could.

Only if one of them is in a Coma and even then it's not likely

I highly doubt it...

Nope.

Aye, if it's a long distance relationship. Then even so, I'm not sure there could be NO arguments.

I haven't had an argument or fight with my wife for at least 5 years. Probably more like 10. We only had a few things that were problems right after we got married, and most of that was because my wife moved 3000 miles from home when she married me.

No, but people can address their boundaries being crossed without anger.

Nope

yeah lol two years and my bf and I never fought about anything other than what to watch or where to go out for dinner but those weren't really fights lol

It is impossible to put two people together and have them share the same living space for any length of time and not expect an argument or disagreement to creep up. We are all different in our likes, dislikes, hopes, dreams, wants, desires, expectations and just day to day emotion. A rubbing of the wrong way is inevitable. It is how you handle those moments of argument or discord that determins where your relationship is heading from that point on.

no
if you arent your not a good couple

so far tova and i haven't at all
but if you fight you learn what bugs each other
so i guess

what? how woud that be even possible? you've got to disagree on something. besides, i think it's good for people to argue every once in awhile. it keeps you an idividual,and reminds you that you are a person beyond your significant other. thats something i think people tend to forget a lot... :)

There is no way that a couple can stay together without arguing. But I agree, if they get psyical, then you have some problems.

No. There will always be disagreements in any relationship. But you can disagree without getting ugly and nasty. Plus there's always the making up....................

Haha probably not.

i don't think that's possible lol

NO

Its not possible.

Absolutely... for at least a little while. If the relationship is meant to last though, then it will most likely endure some arguments. Fights are a different story... and arguments do not have to lead to them. Some couples make it over 50 years together without a single fight... but if they went that long without so much as an argument I'm guessing they weren't together.

Of course, there is a big different between arguing as a means of communication and arguing as a means of establishing dominance... and if it's to establish dominance then there probably will be fighting anyway, or a very unhappily dominated partner in a sad excuse for a “relationship” at the very least.

Dogs make a good example of that kind of relationship... dominance rules and fidelity tends to exist only to the extent that it can be enforced. Not something I would want any part of. Communication and mutual respect are too important to be compromised just for the sake of proving who's boss in a relationship.

My parents had it worked out pretty well. My mom chose to make my dad the “boss” when it came to matters where they may have to decide arbitrarily who to let have the say in something... but my dad never forgot that it was ALWAYS her “choice” and she knew it.

Absolutely! There is a HUGE difference between having a calm disagreement, and a loud argument that leads to a knockdown, drag-out fight.

Absolutely ... side by side caskets!

Yeah they can!
Me and my boyfriend never agrue.

Of course not. Its part of a relationship we mostly try to avoid

Yes, if they're are not in a relationship.

And without fights there is no making up, and with no making up there is no make up sex. Which I hear is the best. Lol

Well, those who think that are unfortunately missing out on more than they'll probably ever know... but what ever works for them.

Lol!

Yes, but it might not be a good relationship. If one spouse dominates it, either the husband, the wife, or both might be miserable.

Yeah, exactly... there can of course be YEARS without an argument in a really good relationship, so theoretically they might make it through a lifetime that way in some rare cases... but as I said in my comment, before I saw that you had posted this similar thought "...and if it's to establish dominance then there probably will be fighting anyway, or a very unhappily dominated partner "

You should be able to do so 90% of the time or maybe you should not be together! An arument or disagrement is fine over politics or most things but about the relationship you better be able to work things out with a full blown fight or argument.

Some people even argue with themselves.. meaning, a person can argue when there's nobody else in the room. If that can turn into a fight, then they're probably bound to fight with their partnet as well... but if a person can work out their own internal disagreements peacefully, then with communication and an understanding partner they should be able to work out their disagreements together just as peacefully.

Very true!