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Sister Jean 2012/01/17 17:36:55
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  • layne.duffy 2013/06/27 22:32:34
    I think
    layne.duffy
    +1
    I think you have to find out what they try to improve about themselves for people to notice, e.g if there overwheit constantly tell them how fat she/he is and if there ugly make sure you say as many hurtful things as you can about ther appearance it will work an hurt them alot
  • stephen.helebrant 2012/11/12 01:07:56 (edited)
    it's
    stephen.helebrant
    +1
    If you really want to hurt someone’s self esteem, according to Self-Discrepancy Theory; first and foremost you will need to find out how a person views themselves... and secondly find out how they want to be seen by others. People direct their efforts in making a match between these two (hence the creation of self esteem). If you can create a mis-match between how they see themselves and how they want to be seen... you can impact their self-esteem in a negative way.

    The way to create a mis-match can be achieved through the manipulation of the self-assessment [one of three self motives (self assessment, self verification, self enhancement)]. Sedikides (1993) suggested that the self-assessment was the only self-evaluative motive that may cause a person's self-esteem to be damaged.

    So... find out what accurate and valid information one seeks about themselves and contradict this information to create a mis-match. It might be more difficult the older the person is, as they could possibly have fewer reasons to seek accurate and valid information as they have created their own self identity.
  • Shhh stephen... 2013/07/01 07:20:27
    Shhh
    +3
    My hero. <3
  • DBSK(fanatic) 2012/01/20 17:05:13
    I think
    DBSK(fanatic)
    +1
    I think it's by makin them self conscience of themselves
  • Shad 2012/01/19 14:40:54
    I think
    Shad
    +1
    teasing and consistently telling them they are worthless
  • Vision of Verve 2012/01/19 03:22:30
  • rhaver1 2012/01/18 21:55:07
    I think
    rhaver1
    +1
    With an ice pick.... to the ear..... or verbally, I would say that attacking whatever they're most self conscious about.
  • **StarzAbove** 2012/01/18 18:30:38
    it's
    **StarzAbove**
    +1
    To lie to them.
  • Sister ... **Starz... 2012/01/18 18:31:01
    Sister Jean
    no
  • **Starz... Sister ... 2012/01/18 18:31:52
    **StarzAbove**
    +1
    It is for me.
  • Sister ... **Starz... 2012/01/18 18:36:10
    Sister Jean
    lie is wrong
  • Shaun 2012/01/18 14:32:27
    it's
    Shaun
    To shoot them in the head but in such a way as to not kill them
  • Sister ... Shaun 2012/01/18 15:41:13
    Sister Jean
    rude
  • Shaun Sister ... 2012/01/18 15:41:56
    Shaun
    How so?
  • Pug For Huck 2012/01/18 12:08:24
    I think
    Pug For Huck
    +2
    Silence can be the most insidious reply.
  • Sister ... Pug For... 2012/01/18 15:41:23
  • Tropiceagle33 2012/01/18 10:21:43
    it's
    Tropiceagle33
    to use verbal abusive words at them...
  • Sister ... Tropice... 2012/01/18 15:41:34
  • rejina.... Sister ... 2013/04/23 20:08:14
    rejina.luck
    +1
    alright sister marry calm down
  • Pocahontas 2012/01/18 10:08:39
    it's
    Pocahontas
    +1
    Always tell the truth.
  • Sister ... Pocahontas 2012/01/18 15:41:51
    Sister Jean
    +1
    truth can hurt
  • PUNX! 2012/01/18 08:42:52
    it's
    PUNX!
    If they care about you then. ''If you don't do this I will kill myself''
    Hurts like a mofo.
  • mrdog 2012/01/18 08:30:36
    it's
    mrdog
    +1
    Growl at them for no reason...bark
  • Sister ... mrdog 2012/01/18 15:42:21
  • RainbowCloset 2012/01/18 07:11:02
    it's
    RainbowCloset
    +1
    to lead them on
  • LoveBug 2012/01/18 06:41:36
    it's
    LoveBug
    When you love someone and little by little they stop wanting to see you because, secretly, they want someone else...When you find out, that just crushes you.

    And also when you are with the one you love and they don't just see you...they see everyone. And I don't mean just sleeping around..

    When they know you are hurting and have low self-esteem, but continue to do the same things over and over.

    When they know just how to break your heart.
    broken heart
  • Sister ... LoveBug 2012/01/18 15:43:07
    Sister Jean
    all took post too serious
  • Kyle 2012/01/18 06:29:17
    it's
    Kyle
    telling them you dont like them anymore
  • ♒ßεllεchεvεllε®♒ 2012/01/18 03:47:56
    I think
    ♒ßεllεchεvεllε®♒
    it's using their weaknesses against them.
  • MarcusRP 2012/01/18 03:09:25
    it's
    MarcusRP
    Lobotomy. lobotomy
  • Sister ... MarcusRP 2012/01/18 15:43:31
    Sister Jean
    rude
  • GirlyGirl™ 2012/01/18 03:02:21
    it's
    GirlyGirl™
    +1
    Tell them you don't love them anymore.

    broken heart
  • 13_JunkyardDog 2012/01/18 02:08:19
    it's
    13_JunkyardDog
  • merlin 2012/01/18 01:50:17
    it's
    merlin
    +1
    Its something i try not to do;-]]]~
  • Sister ... merlin 2012/01/18 01:53:27
    Sister Jean
    +1
    most took it too serious
  • merlin Sister ... 2012/01/18 02:00:15
    merlin
    +1
    Is the full moon out;-] naw just kidding sister;-] have a good nite I'm Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.
  • AnoSayWa 2012/01/18 01:30:23
    it's
    AnoSayWa
    Harping on their insecurities till it makes them sick.
  • Sister ... AnoSayWa 2012/01/18 01:37:07
  • Kitora 2012/01/18 01:19:27
    it's
    Kitora
    Ignorng them, write lies with bad words to them and just shout bad words to them...
  • Crime Time 2012/01/18 00:36:18

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