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CHUCK 2012/06/10 22:14:57
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Little note
When
I was a kid, my Mom liked to make breakfast food for dinner every now
and then. And I remember one night in particular when she had made
breakfast after a long, hard day at work.. On that evening so long ago,
my Mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage and extremely burned biscuits in
front of my dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed!

Yet
all my dad did was reach for his biscuit, smile at my Mom and ask me
how my day was at school. I don't remember what I told him that night,
but I do remember watching him smear butter and jelly on that ugly
burned biscuit. He ate every bite of that thing... never made a face
nor uttered a word about it!

When I got up from the table that
evening, I remember hearing my Mom apologize to my dad for burning the
biscuits. And I'll never forget what he said: "Honey, I love burned
biscuits every now and then."

Later that night, I went to kiss
Daddy good night and I asked him if he really liked his biscuits
burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said, "Your Mom put in a hard day
at work today and she's real tired. And besides - a little burned
biscuit never hurt anyone!"

As I've grown older, I've thought
about that many times. Life is full of imperfect things and imperfect
people. I'm not the best at hardly anything, and I forget birthdays and
anniversaries, just like everyone else. But what I've learned over the
years is that learning to accept each others faults and choosing to
celebrate each others differences - is one of the most important keys to
creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship.

And
that's my prayer for you today... that you will learn to take the good,
the bad, and the ugly parts of your life and lay them at the feet of
God. Because in the end, He's the only One who will be able to give you a
relationship where a burnt biscuit isn't a deal-breaker!

We
could extend this to any relationship. In fact, understanding is the
base of any relationship, be it a husband-wife or parent-child or
friendship!

"Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket - keep it in your own."

So, please pass me a biscuit, and yes, the burned one will do just fine.

And
PLEASE pass this along to someone who has enriched your life. Be
kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of
battle.

"Life without God is like an unsharpened pencil - it has no point."
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  • Nick Name 2012/06/11 02:18:40
    I AM NICE..
    Nick Name
    +4
    I try to be nice.
    I can honestly say I married the nicest person I ever met.
    I have moments when I still can't believe she married me.

    Now we're up to abut 3.5 grandkids.

    Grandma   grandson
    Nothing keeps you warmer than a spongebob blanket and Grandma.

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  • Texas Gal 2012/06/11 23:31:42
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    Texas Gal
    I try to be flexible -- not demanding. Thank you for sharing this. :-)
  • Danny Barker 2012/06/11 19:21:22
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    Danny Barker
    +1
    I try to be nice but sometimes it is hard
  • Chaoskingsxz 2012/06/11 18:21:08
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    Chaoskingsxz
    +1
    that was amazing what you wrote......it brought out a tear .....
  • BOOGIE-WOOGIE-MUSIC-MAN-ROC... 2012/06/11 18:13:01
    I AM NICE..
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  • Aksana 2012/06/11 17:39:41 (edited)
    I AM NICE..
    Aksana
  • susan BN-0 2012/06/11 17:09:03
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    susan BN-0
    +1
    Great post.
  • Louis Contreras 2012/06/11 16:53:53
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    Louis Contreras
    +1
    Great lesson.
  • Mark In Irvine 2012/06/11 16:41:03
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    Mark In Irvine
    +2
    i try to be nice, but i have learned the lesson illustrated by your dad's handling of the biscuit. it's very simple but it takes us a while to see what's important.
  • MJ 2012/06/11 16:28:01
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    MJ
    +2
    Good Story
  • Treasure ♥ijm♥ 2012/06/11 16:25:44
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    Treasure ♥ijm♥
    +2
    I loved this story....how true. If people could only remember to treat others like this what a wonderful world we would live in.......
  • katywon 2012/06/11 04:00:29
    I AM NICE..
    katywon
    +1
    Very nice.
  • Nick Name 2012/06/11 02:18:40
    I AM NICE..
    Nick Name
    +4
    I try to be nice.
    I can honestly say I married the nicest person I ever met.
    I have moments when I still can't believe she married me.

    Now we're up to abut 3.5 grandkids.

    Grandma   grandson
    Nothing keeps you warmer than a spongebob blanket and Grandma.
  • jubil8 BN-0 PON 2012/06/11 02:18:01
    I AM NICE..
    jubil8 BN-0 PON
    +1
    Great post, Chuck, tx.

    The 2 most important words in the English language: Thank you
    The most important word in the English language: Please
    The least important word in the English language: I
  • CHUCK jubil8 ... 2012/06/24 19:54:57
    CHUCK
    +1
    TRUE..
  • beach bum 2012/06/11 01:09:06
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    beach bum
    +1
    agreed
  • kfallslady 2012/06/11 00:21:04
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    kfallslady
    +1
    wonderful post, thank you!
  • beachbum 2012/06/11 00:03:33
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    beachbum
    +1
    Excellent post...........loved it.
  • sky blue pink - American 2012/06/10 22:55:00
    I AM NICE..
    sky blue pink - American
    +1
    most of the time.
    Have a good one !
  • pamela 2012/06/10 22:31:09
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    pamela
    +1
    Such a nice post. Well worth the read. I am the same way. If there is something a little different I will do my best to accept it the way it is.
  • Charmaine 2012/06/10 22:21:28
    I DON T CARE..
    Charmaine
    +1
    I try to be nice...but stupid people ruin it for me on a daily basis!!!
  • Sister Jean 2012/06/10 22:19:39
    I AM NICE..
    Sister Jean
  • mealzizhere(: 2012/06/10 22:18:58
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    mealzizhere(:
    +2
    OMG!!!! SO SWEET!!!!!!!
  • CHUCK 2012/06/10 22:16:15
    I AM NICE..
    CHUCK
  • mealziz... CHUCK 2012/06/10 22:19:20
    mealzizhere(:
    WHATS THAT????

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