ATTENTION SODAHEADERS!!! I NEED YOUR HELP!!!!! ADVICE PLEASE?

i think that 1st they should go out behind her parentz back and den check like how their relationship is goin and then like if dey think they would b together 4 a long time well then their she could introduce him 2 her parents cuz it would suck if like she tells her mommy and daddy about dat and stuff and like tha week later they brake up
but i mean i hpoe u get ma point

if she really loves hm and he loves herthey can convince the parents !!!!!!!!!!!!!! or at least thats wat i think

YAY!

i think he needs to meat her parents then let then diceide if he is ok for her. it is better then her going behind her perantes backs

She is your friend - she is 16 she can not have a relationship with a 19 year old because she is too young - she must wait - why does a 19 year old want anything to do with a 16 year old kid - all that can happen for him is her parents can toss him in jail for statutory rape - being classified as a sex offender will ruin the rest of his life - if she like him at all she will stay away from him -

Well yeah. that is true but then again he just graduated high school last year i think and she will be 17 soon.

the law doesnt care - they just care about the birth date

true./

really think about it KD are you going to hang out with a kid who is 13? why not your only 3 years older

the difference between 15 and 20 is more than just 5 years

Yeah I know what you mean. And I do agree. Cuz someone 20 years old should be more mature than that the 15 year old obvously don't know what he/she is doing. and I think its a stupid situation they both are in. I saw my 14 year old best friend make the stupid same mistake with a 21 year old. Nothing happened to her thank god but he always said i love you i want to marry you when he cheated lied and obviously just wanted one thing. that was really stupid of me not to tell in the first place. But I was 14 too so I was just as stupid to belive the stuff he said to her. But the difference I see here is that if the parents say its okay and he doesn't do anything to hurt her or try doing things with a young girl I don't see what the problem is. Although at the same time I'm unsure if its a good idea.


But learning my lesson the first time I would tell the parents if there is sneeking around trust me.


Seeing as how all the wise of Sodahead say its a bad idea I'm going to trust that =]

She loves him, but she hasn't dated him?
He respects her parents, but he hasn't met them. Respect is good, but he should meet them, and he should tell them he wants to date their daughter, and he should walk away if they balk.
She should respect her parents, too, but it sounds like she doesn't. Without that, she will pretty much do what she wants, so it's very much up to him to decide where to take the relationship...

Yeah he wants to meet the parents but he is unsure about it. She wants to see him tomorrow but he doesn't really know if he should

He definitely should not, and if he's smart, he won't. If he's just a guy, though, he will, and then it'll be all over.

hmmm yeah... thanks =]

i think a 19 year old wants sex. i dated a an 18 year old ate 16...he wanted sex. he got it. i did end up marrying the asshole but thats beside the point. he also lives an hour away. anyway its stupid but there is nothing you can do but tell on her and let the parents no whats up.

too bad her parents hate me and probably don't care what i say huh?

doesnt matter if they hate you or not. once you tell them its in their hands.

Thats true. Thank you =]

im not sure,i never really tell my parents about my personal life.

i think that the man should be man in which he is at the age of manhood... introduce himself to her parents really without her knowing and let them know who he is and what his interest is with their daughter the parents would appreciate that and would probably approve of him even though there is a 3year age difference when a man shows this type of respect and responsibility the father in most part will feel more comfortable letting his daughter talk or even date this guy rather than one that hides away fr4om the family or if that dont work try your luck and go behind the parents back trust me it will get boring and it wont last very long......... Words from the Wise!

Thank you!

First of all, tell her how she is in love with him. Then, tell her parents why she likes him.

......eat a cookie