ARE YOU OR HAVE U BEEN IN A ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP??? IF YOU WERE WHAT TYPE OF ABUSE AND HOW DID U GET OUT OF IT, AND IF YOU ARE IN ONE WHY R U STILL THERE???
Not sure if my relationship was abusive, I would say not consciously, but it did make me feel a bad husband and a bad father.
In the long run with help I gained back my confidence and left that relationship and my kids came wit me.
I have been subject to verbal...never physical..abuse. I am still in it because he is my husband. I have my exit plan all in place and will not hesitate to use it if I deem it necessary. I have a lot going for me and he can be a total moron much of the time. I am not afraid to leave, but I have pets I love and can't leave them. I can deal with him because I know without a doubt that I am much smarter than he is.
Awww! Lol, by the sounds of it he won't know what's hit him!! (Personally I'm hoping it will later turn out to be a hair dryer but use whatever you feel necessary!!)
In the long run with help I gained back my confidence and left that relationship and my kids came wit me.