Are you more of a talker or more of a listener?

by (▪‿▪)DoctorWhoGuru(▪‿▪) Posted 2012/04/16 04:44:28

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	Talker	12 votes	26%
	Listener	34 votes	74%

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KarenInKenoshaWisconsin 2012/04/16 21:56:51

Listener

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I listen more in person, write a lot online.

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Jessica ♥ Nick = foreva 2012/04/16 20:47:49
(●̮̮̃•̃)(͡๏̯͡๏)(•̪●)Winches... 2012/04/16 18:29:10

Listener

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I try to be both...

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retrograve 2012/04/16 15:22:01

Listener

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Lol, my mom said she didn't like talking to me because I rarely talk back. Can't win for losing.

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Fran-Halen 2012/04/16 13:46:08

Listener

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I listen, and offer responses that help.

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Hope 2012/04/16 11:28:46

Listener

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A lilttle bit of both actually

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nothingbutthetruth 2012/04/16 08:33:08

Listener

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It's a balance for me. I like to listen to people, but I also like people to listen to what I have to say too.

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Abdullah Baspren 2012/04/16 07:22:03

Listener

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The usefulness of speak (to others) The usefulness of listening (to himself) ..
Preferably the ratio is between 1/3
Listen to 3 times compared with the speech

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Kndrk 2012/04/16 06:12:09

Listener

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I love to listen, that way i have a lot to talk about.

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learning2walkagain 2012/04/16 06:11:08

Listener

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But I do ramble when im nervous.

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LoveBug 2012/04/16 05:56:51

Listener

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Which is probably why I feel suited to my career choice: Psychiatrist.

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toxic_phantom 2012/04/16 05:29:48

Listener

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i dunno if this is wierd or not, but i LOVE listening to people. i could literally listen to people all day!

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⚜3rd Street Boss⚜ 2012/04/16 05:22:14

Talker

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Listen good too

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beach bum 2012/04/16 05:19:34

Talker

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a little of both

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☂~WaterBabŸ~☂ 2012/04/16 05:19:28

Talker

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Great listener too!!!.. :))

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susan BN-0 2012/04/16 05:11:38

Listener

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I'm not much of a talker.

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samantha 2012/04/16 05:03:27

Talker

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I'm ADHD so I am the talker normally but when I get my meds I'm and awesome listener!

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Moonbeams 2012/04/16 04:55:21

Listener

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It helps with the talking.

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Roblem BN-0 2012/04/16 04:49:52

Listener

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HA... no fair I can be both. ;-)

Active listening is very important.

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Kibbles 2012/04/16 04:47:57

Listener

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I listen first then I tell people what they need to hear so they can completely understand themselves better.

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Nameless 2012/04/16 04:47:03

Talker

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...which is odd because strangers will just walk up to me and start telling me personal things about them. My husband just sighs and walks off and waits for me, now. I find out about people's spouses, children, grandchildren, and all sorts of things. I have no idea why people feel they can just tell me things. It happens all the time - from the grocery store to a park.

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mateo to Nameless 2012/04/16 04:54:45

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So Gossip from people you know or just random strangers. curios

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Nameless to mateo 2012/04/16 04:57:27

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Not gossip at all. Just sharing stories of children/grandchildren. How old they are and how long they have been married. When their spouse died. Where they are from and how long they have lived in the area. Where their children live. Where their grandchildren go to college... Just plain old sharing. Random strangers.

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mateo to Nameless 2012/04/16 05:03:18

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"My husband just sighs and walks off and waits for me, now." I have to admit, I would do the same most of the time. If it was a common everyday thing. I hope I didn't offend with the Gossip bit.

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Nameless to mateo 2012/04/16 05:05:33

Oh, no, I wasn't offended. I am not a gossiper at all. I don't mind that my husband strolls off to look at other things. It's all good. We aren't best friends after 26 years for nothing. ; )

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mateo to Nameless 2012/04/16 05:08:10

Sorry to hear that.

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Nameless to mateo 2012/04/16 05:10:50

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I think we aren't communicating well. My husband is my best friend. ; )

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retrograve to Nameless 2012/04/16 15:23:31

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They do that with my mom too. You must have an open aura about you or something.

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Nameless to retrograve 2012/04/16 15:37:27

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LOL! I have never met anyone to whom this occurs - like myself. Recently, my daughter and I were grocery shopping and this elderly woman started talking to me about how old she is (she looked much younger), her 50+ year marriage, and all sorts of things. Another time I had a woman with triplets just stop and chat... I don't mind it at all. When I go shopping I just plan on not being in a hurry because I get stopped so much. I figure they must have a need to talk to someone. So, that's why I said I like to talk - but I think I can relate to people and listen to them, as well.

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Tim 2012/04/16 04:46:48

Talker

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But I can listen if the occasion demands.

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Wayne TH G 333 2012/04/16 04:46:31

Listener

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I like to listen.

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Pat 2012/04/16 04:45:56

Listener

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I'm a listener.

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Just me ∞ijm♥G☮F♀U∞ 2012/04/16 04:45:40

Talker

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Mostly a talker but good at listening, too.

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