Most secrets that come to me aren't really secrets; they were 'old news' before they passed to whomever told me the supposed 'secret'. Secrets that contain hurtful information are really defamations of character, and need to be put to rest. I am not going to keep a mean, dangerous, hurtful piece of information a secret. Secrets are really a way for us to 'cubby-hole' shocking, surprising news that we don't know how to deal with...we simply pass it on, hoping someone we tell will know what to do with said information--what we are really looking for is an ally, what we create is an accomplice. Secrets that are manufactured--such as recording a phone call that is placed in order to ellicit a wanted response--in an attempt to trap or hurt somebody--are the worst kind of secret, and are a Direct Reflection on the Idiots who manufacture and spread these pieces of informtion. Inability to communicate effectively leads to all kinds of problems.
Sometime I remember the secret, but forgot to keep a promise that never tells anyone about it.
Walked in the hallway and crossed with guy that don't need to know the secret.
Me:Hey man, congratulation for being as a father?!
He:f**k you! You gone out with my wife! *fisted into my face in second*
I was unconscious at that time, but next day, I came back with REVENGE so I punched him straight into his face with metal knuckle! He was unconscious in whole week...
I have one friend where she tells me EVERYTHING on her mind, and I know more about her than her current boyfriend. Which I kinda feel bad about as she's about to dump him.
People tell me a lot of stuff and if they tell to keep it between us I do.On the other hand,if they screw me over in some way I break off the friendship and screw them over with their dirty little secret.It all depends on how bad they hurt me first.Otherwise,I'll take a secret to the grave and they know it.Unless it's a child that's in trouble with drugs,abuse,or whatever then I'll have to tell somebody who can help them.Will I lose their trust?Of course,but to help a child it'll all be worth it.
The longest secrets I have kept are 50 years old and the ones who told them to me have passed away now and I still have not told anyone...I am a very good secret keeper...
I avoid secrets and gossip like the plague, but if for any reason someone trusts me with something they don't want others to know, other people won't be hearing it.
If it's a serious one. If it's stupid like someone is in a relationship with someone else then I don't care I'll tell considering I'm 13 so none of the relationships are serious. But if it's a family issue or something then I keep those secrets well because I know what it feels like, big things like that going on you need a friend to confide in and if someone trusts me with a secret like that I feel honored and won't tell anyone if they don't want me too. So that goes for internet too, if anyone on here ever needs someone to talk to; I'M HERE. No matter what it is, you can trust me. Promise.
Yep. I don't blab unless I know it's ok. Makes me pretty bad at gossip. I do like to create rumors, though. It's a practical joke thing. A few years back a friend seemed pretty bored n mopey so I made a rumor that she was moving and we should have a going-away party for her. lol It worked. She got unbored and had a blast at the party. :D
Well, sometimes, but you know, there is sometimes where the secret is so good or just such a thing that shall not be a secret.. for example what if the secret was something against a friend or something, I mean, I would not keep that.. know what I mean?
Well, I was. I know about losing someone in Vietnam; gaining a body, some-way; and then having on MIA (Missing In Aciton) . . . And I kept it a secret for what seems like "forever" (May 2, 1968) but now I will tell anyone about it who wants to discuss it. It is not a mistake that the U. S. Marine Corps should feel proud of; that's for sure; however, how could anyone even attempt to complain, when no one really knew about it? Let's just say that there is "an extra Lance Corporal" @ Graves Registration in Danang, in what used to be known as "The Republic of Vietnam" RIGHT NOW!!! . . . Now, as far as WHAT they did with him; I have no idea. What they plan to do with his remains, I just don't know. It doesn't bother me anymore. It's called "The Healing Hands Of Time" . . . It is one of the biggest SECRETS that I ever kept in my entire life.
I can't keep secrets... I'm like "here's the effin truth... like it or not..." If I try to keep a secret... later on I'll forget it's a secret (when I'm drunk) and spill all the beans on the table... I'm like you're gonna have to lay it all there eventually...
If you don't want it a hot topic, don't tell me... LOL!!!
Yes. I'm good at keeping secrets :P
Walked in the hallway and crossed with guy that don't need to know the secret.
Me:Hey man, congratulation for being as a father?!
He:f**k you! You gone out with my wife! *fisted into my face in second*
I was unconscious at that time, but next day, I came back with REVENGE so I punched him straight into his face with metal knuckle! He was unconscious in whole week...
-i'm not going to be stuck in a whole bunch of drama
If you don't want it a hot topic, don't tell me... LOL!!!