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Are you born or you become gay?

Sir ZaBooMaFoo 2009/03/06 19:19:34
You're born like that
You become
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Some say they have seen little children behaving homosexualy while others say that their friends where straight before they became gay....so what do you believe?
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  • vefoni 2009/03/09 17:12:48
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    vefoni
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    well i don't klnow whether they are are born gay or they just become when getting older...it might happen because something happened to them when they were little or because they were brought up in a different environment...there are also cases in which gay people were born gay..you never know!

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  • Thomas Rea: Gay Christian A... 2009/08/12 14:40:08
    You're born like that
    Thomas Rea: Gay Christian Advocate
    Why do we want to be hated?
  • Sir ZaBooMaFoo 2009/03/17 18:55:21
    Undecided
    Sir ZaBooMaFoo
    +2
    i really dont know....we need someone expert to tell us
  • tartakis 2009/03/13 15:22:27
    You become
    tartakis
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    of course!
  • vefoni 2009/03/09 17:12:48
    Undecided
    vefoni
    +4
    well i don't klnow whether they are are born gay or they just become when getting older...it might happen because something happened to them when they were little or because they were brought up in a different environment...there are also cases in which gay people were born gay..you never know!
  • Rambling Ted 2009/03/07 19:54:43
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    Rambling Ted
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    I don't think it's got anyhting to do with the way you are brought up. I asked a friend who was gay what first made him realise he was gay and he said what made you know you weren't. Fair point. For a lot of ppl its not even a conscious choice they just are gay, no reason other than they fancy someone of the same sex.
  • Clo ♥ 2009/03/06 21:25:56
    Undecided
    Clo ♥
    +1
    I have no clue how that stuff works! but I do think that people are naturally like that....it wasnt there decision to be gay!
  • Comrade JBleezz 2009/03/06 20:42:04
    Undecided
    Comrade JBleezz
    +1
    I can't honestly see why someone would choose that. I mean it would make it a lot hardy to actually find someone because you never just run into any out gay people at least where I live.

    And I think that it is more that they become it later but during puberty. When they are born it is already decided but they don't actually become gay until their body goes through puberty.
  • Electra~Greekbby♥ 2009/03/06 20:37:30
    You become
    Electra~Greekbby♥
    +1
    I don't think that sb is born to be gay or straight.
    It's a personal decision based on one's personality etc
  • bccxcc 2009/03/06 20:31:53
    You become
    bccxcc
    +2
    I don't think that it's necessarily a choice...I think it's greatly influenced by how you were brought up and if something happened when you were little
  • Electra... bccxcc 2009/03/06 20:34:55 (edited)
    Electra~Greekbby♥
    +2
    u left me speechless!!!wow!!!
  • bccxcc Electra... 2009/03/06 20:38:12
  • Electra... bccxcc 2009/03/06 20:40:09
    Electra~Greekbby♥
    +2
    'cause ur answer was really impressive!!!
  • bccxcc Electra... 2009/03/06 20:45:48
    bccxcc
    +2
    oh...thanks :)
    I like your answer too
  • Electra... bccxcc 2009/03/06 20:47:14
    Electra~Greekbby♥
    +2
    np!!! ^_^
    thanx<3 but ur answer was much better...<3
  • J 2009/03/06 20:21:04
    Undecided
    J
    +1
    I have decided. I have a gay friend and a couple of gay relatives. In a group, you are born that way. Individually, it is a choice. I have talked to too many who have a reason for choosing the lifestyle they have.
  • RipperJ 2009/03/06 20:07:06
    You're born like that
    RipperJ
    +1
    I believe you are born, but bi I believe is a personal decission.
  • Superman 2009/03/06 20:04:40
    Undecided
    Superman
    +2
    I don't believe there is one definitive answer for that. I think some of it is hormonal, how chemicals in our bodies react in relation to attraction. So in that sense, some of it is how you are at birth. I also believe a lot of it is cultural and environmental. What were you exposed to at certain ages and what shaped your sexual iq. As a heterosexual I have a hard time saying that my attraction to women is solely genetic. Because that attraction is more intricate than just wanting to have sex with women. And those interests came from environmental situations, not genetics.
  • CornerBlitz 2009/03/06 19:31:18 (edited)
    Undecided
    CornerBlitz
    +2
    Ahh the nature vs nurture debate. Both sides of the scientific spectrum claim that their data is the most conclusive. It all depends on which side you believe, and none of them agree.

    But if there is a part of the brain that makes guys wear fishnets and leopard print cowboy hats, I would sure like to see that research.
  • J CornerB... 2009/03/06 20:23:38
    J
    +2
    You know, I was born to be a prostitute. Or at best a major whore. But, because I have a strong moral base and because I know the dangers of an irrational sex life, I chose to be a little more discreet. I have the desire, but I know it is not right, so I control it. I do not let it control me.
  • CornerB... J 2009/03/06 20:24:51
    CornerBlitz
    +1
    very well put
  • ~LyDia<3J03Y~ 2009/03/06 19:20:43
    You're born like that
    ~LyDia<3J03Y~
    +2
    Yes,I think you're born gay.
  • DivaDar... ~LyDia<... 2009/03/06 19:22:59
    DivaDarling Miss Winchester
    +2
    lol plaka dn kaneis?
  • ~LyDia<... DivaDar... 2009/03/06 19:26:51
    ~LyDia<3J03Y~
    +2
    Oxi to pistevw!

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