Are there any men here who feel they are able to get women way out of there league? (Without money, punks)

I naturally have romantic charm and can make a conversation with a board woman very interesting, and to add the cherry on top, my looks are hot like Tom Cruise's, no girl can resist the boy next door look I have, unless she's snob, flashy and too high maintenance. those kind a women are a no no for me. I prefer the free spirited conservative laid back types. those are the ones I admire the most

To further sum up those women you defined in the end, the smart women.
The best kind of woman.

Yea, you said it, I don't like the high maintenance types that drive hot cars their parents bought for them and thinks that what they see is what they get and don't have the natural attitude to approach a guy like me.

Awh the worse thing about high maintenance women, when you dont show interest in them they are 100% convinced you must be gay, I have been attacked by those kind of women before simply for not showing interest :(
Thank god I had smart women nearby to lay the hand.

Great minds think alike..... good to know we share the same experience, my story was almost the exact same thing. and one did acuse me of being gay because I didn't show interest. this is an epiphany of the "wolf and the sour grapes"

I googled "Wolf and sour grapes" and found nothing, I am sure I know, but would you care to define it for me? It sounds interesting.

And know that you are never alone on this planet, there are always great minds who share our experience, when you find the right minds to work with, you can achieve greatness in every aspect of life.

Wolf or Fox and the sour grapes is a kids story about a hungry fox that was chased out of a village by citizens for trying to steal meat or a threat to farm animals, the fox ran for miles until the village was out of sight, he was very hungry, tired and exhausted from all the running and saw a nice juicy grape vine tree high with very big sweet grapes on it. He jumped to catch the grapes many times he missed, and since he could not have them he said they were no good. so the lesson in the story was that some people are like that, when they can't get what they want, they say it is no good.

Makes perfect sense, some people feel like they need to believe something they cant have is bad.
For me, I can accept that I might have missed the greatest opportunity in my lifetime, and still carry on.

I have in the past and, although I am out of practice, I think I could again. (Out of practice because I have been with one awesome woman for the past 26 years)

I've done it, a great looking girl went for me, On my best day I slightly better than average. On my worst I fall to average. Yet somehow I was able to become entangled with one of the most popular girls in the school. Now as a nerd guy who was taking modern dance while all his friends believed he was pretty gay I think that's a good accomplishment.

Thats it, Let everyone think what they want, I deliberately act gay to certain people just to prove a point.
Every person on this planet can perceive me in a certain way without it effecting my actions, some of the women I have slept with have hated me before and after.

See people think I a silent tough guy recluse now, the friends I do have still think I'm gay.

Very good, remember you can play around with how people perceive you, start a little rumour if you want, it can be great fun. At the end of the day you are not changing yourself, you are just allowing other people to see you differently.

By the way, I have passed up sex with women on more than one occasion (most recently last friday, 2 girls from my class in my bed, but that was more because I passed out from blood loss), and as I am a very honest man, a lot of people know about this and are convinced that I cannot be straight passing up such golden opportunities, if your brave enough, try something similar :)

I've turned down sex before, a girl I was breaking up with offered me sex if I would stay with her, I still said no, then again she did cheat on me so that may have been a part of it. I also missed the chance to check out a large group of girls in their underwear, twice, during dance we all changed in the same room and out of who I am I left the room to give the girls privacy. Many of my mates use this as a large reason for why they think I'm gay. I find it rather interesting.

Its respect friend, for yourself and others, dont let anyone tell you its anything else.

I have alway been able to get the babes.... It's all in the attitude!!

I call it game, everyone has it, a lot of people just dont know how to play.

Starting to sound like Ghetto Wisdom.

My wife would get angry...

Did you consider your wife to be out of your league when you first met?

No - although she was very different than the party girl bimbos I usually played with. On a superficial 'looks' basis she was not the type I went for but on the stability and maturity and intellectual side she was (and is) unlike any other love interest.

I have met and dated these intellectual women, I have learnt while they are someone I can truely enjoy spending time with, it is not enough to stop my desire to sleep with the best looking women. So for now, I keep the intellectual girls as friends.

In the future when I have fully matured, I can settle down with one of these or any other mature women. I could be 50 before that happens, I could die alone, but its the road I am taking.

And don't think my wife is a 'personality girl'... With appropriate attire and make-up she could (or would have) made a good bimbo.

Hahah, I assumed nothing like it, usually the intellectual women arent the best lookers at a young age (childhood mostly) but they always blossom into beautiful women.

She was actually the High School Cheer Leader who went on to Major in English Literature and left her pom poms behind...

'Just a man' O.o I am very much so a man. But I am the type of man who treats women with the respect they deserve rather than the crappy treatment they are used to from most.(Not to be confused for a desperate doormat that does everything to try to please a woman, just someone who treats them humanely.)

Wow, explained my situation perfectly there mate. So far the gals go for the jocks or the jerks, then again I could care less, what really interests me is if the girl could make me ask her to tell me what something means.

You can be a jock and real man, you yourself might have perceived them all to be jerks, I myself might have been considered a Jock if I was in America, Im big, sporty and very dominant, but I dont let the power go to my head (very often) and while all us real men can survive ridicule easily, the true test for us is having power.

Im not sure what you mean in your last part? What is it you want a girl to ask you?
By the way, keep your eyes open for smart women, like real men, they mature later than most. But with a smart girl, you can talk to her about anything, and I mean anything :) doesnt require an intimate relationship, that can limit what you discuss.

I want her to make me feel the less intelligent one in the relationship. I tend to be the more intelligent one, the one who is more well read. I'd like to find a girl who could have me asking her intellectual advice.

I hear that loud and clear, I actually find it to be quite a turn on, when you have a fight with a smart girl and your the one that has to turn around and say "sorry, I was wrong" it just creates strong emotion for you and her, because its a gester so few men can show the right way.

Keep looking, you will find a truely intelligent woman, she might not be able or willing to disprove you on every point, but we all have our own areas of genius.

Find one with a similar genius to your own :)

That's the plan mate.