Are People Attracted To You?

I've never had trouble flirting, and I've been asked out a couple times.

Respect.

I wish there was a maybe button because I have a boyfriend but that doesen't mean he is attracted to me.it could mean he just likes........well you get the picture.

Idk lol :)

And if they are they dont show it :\

well in my head i dont think so but then my sister is always saying to me"dude that guy was JUST stareing at you" and saying how a couple of the guys she knows ask for my # so i could be wrong

Thats why i dont show a picture of myself i never will show a picture of myself.....

Not in that sense. I'm more of a 'look at me and shrivell up in fear, then get to know me and you fall in love' guy...

They take me for what I am.

It has been a phenomenon. That is all I can say.

Well at least one person asks me out a month usually, soo... But that doesn't mean I say yes

I get flirted with quite a bit. I don't know an exact number but enough so my ego isn't too deflated :)

I hope so!!

Somewhat.

Most are younger than me or have a girlfriend already

My current situation. He has a girlfriend! He says he wants to be with me! He won't leave his girl for me! Confusion.........

I've had guys flirt with me and then I find out they have girlfriends. Guys are confusing!

Agreed.

I dont think so..... IDK!! Ask them..

I've never been the one who got attention or asked out a lot.

I know the feeling. :/

Are you also shy?

Nope. People just don't take interest in me. The one who does right now can't be an item with me because of his girlfriend.

Well don't wait on him. You're not shy. Are you quiet? Have any self esteem problems? Are you mean? lol I don't see that being it...I can't see why anyone wouldn't want to take interest in you.

Ah, some-what quiet.
I don't think I have self esteem problems.
Oh no, not mean.
*Shrug* Somebody did, but I turned him down because he was a ball of hate and anger. Besides that, no one.
I don't have many friends, either.

Well it could just be the quietness then & people aren't sure how to take/read you. Maybe you could open up just a little more & if not, not a problem because I think anyone who is important & interested enough will continue getting to know you :)

Possibly. That is probably it.
It could be that. I usually do not find common ground with people, so sometimes it's hard.

When I was younger I was much shyer than I am now, but due to that I can not tell you how many people thought I was a bitch, or felt I was better than them. That couldn't have been further from the truth. I'm still not extroverted but I'm much better than I was. People are quick to make a judgement we can't change that. But for your own sense of happiness, maybe you could learn to accept some differences to find that common ground. Oh, I know we aren't going to like everyone & trust me I know there are those who I don't care if we do see eye to eye, their personality sucks! lol I'd just hate to see someone be a loner like me, all the time, it's no good (for you)....

I see.
I'd like to get better at socializing...
My comfort zones are strange. Like, I'll go up to boys who are cute and tell them, "Hey, you're hot", but to make friends, to find something to talk about, it's uncomfortable for me.

Thanks, MissCue. :)

Now that is something! I'd of just assumed die before ever going up to a boy & telling him that LOL Yet, two of my daughters can do that too, no problem. I always tell them I admire that about them. Heck if you can do that, you can do anything!!! I'm not even kidding about that one! ;-) It's my pleasure you're very welcome.

Hahaha xD
Well, thank you.

You're very welcome brave one! lol

Yes, both sometimes but boys are more....mmmm about 3-4 a month :)

IDK?

No

my boyfriend's friends (all older men) are always hitting on me. They find me charming and sexy. Poor guys. If they only knew I would scar them for life.

I dunno......
Usually I'm the one attraction to them...

Fans..

Your fans? Cool. What do you do? Are you in the music industry, by chance?

Yes Family Force 5 is my band, I'm the lead singer