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Are Parents Mean to Overweight Kids?

SodaHead Living 2010/09/24 14:52:46
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It's pretty tough being a "fat" kid. If you weren't overweight yourself, we're sure you remember how classmates treated the kids who were.

But we're shocked to learn that even parents treat overweight kids differently.

Mom and dad may be less willing to help their child buy a car if that child is overweight or obese, new research shows.

"No one is going to be surprised that society discriminates against the overweight, but I think it is surprising that it can come from your parents," researcher Dr. Adriel Boals of the University of North Texas in Denton told Reuters Health.

Hey, we were pretty thin in high school and our parents didn't buy us a car! But studies have also shown that parents are less likely to help overweight or obese kids pay for college, researchers say.

"There are a number of very viable explanations here," Boals said. "One could just be from an evolutionary standpoint; parents may be less likely to invest resources in offspring they believe are unfit."

Boals also suggested that parents may be discriminating against their kids for being overweight the same way people in general discriminate against the overweight.

"I don't think the parents are doing this knowingly," he said.

While most parents are probably thinking, "I love my kid no matter what," maybe we all have to be extra sensitive to those dealing with a weight problem.

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  • Philo-Publius 2010/09/24 17:42:34
    Yes
    Philo-Publius
    +14
    Often they are, edeneh...

    I just wanted to chime in here and say this particular mother in the title photo has no right to be mean to her kid... she's carrying some junk in the trunk, too, yo.
    chime mother title photo kid shes carrying junk trunk yo

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  • HiYa 2010/09/29 02:03:43 (edited)
    No
    HiYa
    I think this data is inconclusive and misleading. Children of affluent parents are typically not overweight as often as children in less priviledged homes. Therefore, it's only worthwhile stats if this data is from comporable neighborhoods, or if they've included families that have purchased a car for one child whom is not overweight and not bought a car for a heavier child.
  • Bonnie 2010/09/27 20:39:42
    Yes
    Bonnie
    It's mean to let them eat themselves into obesity when you have direct control over their diet! Nevermind the fact that you're supposed to be teaching them about boundaries and self-control.

    That said, fat kids really gross me out. Blegh.
  • Souther... Bonnie 2010/09/27 21:24:47
    Southern Comfort
    Agreed with you up until that last comment.
    People that dislike children really gross me out.
  • Bonnie Souther... 2010/09/28 00:05:32
    Bonnie
    Oh, I like children fine. Just not fat ones. Sorry that offends you so.
  • Souther... Bonnie 2010/09/28 00:06:41
    Southern Comfort
    It doesn't offend me, if my considering you to be a ***** doesn't offend you.
  • Bonnie Souther... 2010/09/28 00:12:42
    Bonnie
    Nope. Guess we're good then. :-)
  • Nic 2010/09/27 20:22:13
  • elijah 2010/09/27 19:55:23
    No
    elijah
    IT'S A INDIVIDUAL THING.
  • booonXD 2010/09/27 19:48:59
    Yes
    booonXD
    tbqh, its usually the parent who makes the kid overweight. that is mean!
  • Andrea 2010/09/27 19:41:41
    No
    Andrea
    If parents wouldn't cram junk food into their kids and get them off that computer and outside we would have less fat kids.
  • Ariadne 2010/09/27 19:26:21
    Yes
    Ariadne
    +1
    Yes, because who fed the kids 3 extra servings of fried chicken at 3 years old? The parents are suppose to be responsible in feeding their kids a well-balanced diet and teaching their children about good nutrition and exercise. Children look up to the parents as examples and if the parents are always sitting down on the couch engulfing half a pizza, what do you think children will believe is the right lifestyle to live in? The parents are mean to overweight kids because THEY made them overweight!
  • Quintessential Brother The ... 2010/09/27 19:14:42
    Yes
    Quintessential Brother The Conservative Liberal
    +1
    Cause they keep feeding them food that isn't good for them... they should be reported to child protection services!
  • LoneWolfe_19 2010/09/27 19:10:11
    Yes
    LoneWolfe_19
    i was in Menards one time and i was walking around just looking around and i heard a toddler start scraming his mo-fo head off and im like thinking " wow! somebody shut up this kid!" and then i come around a corner and see the fat kid sitting inside the shopping cart screaming because he's stuck and and then the mother smacks the crap outta the kid's mouth! i dont wanna sound narcisstic but man that was kinda funny, but at the same time im kinda like thinking " aww damn! thats a little over the top"
  • joker 2010/09/27 17:50:36
    No
    joker
    No, if i were.
  • naruto 2010/09/27 16:45:49
    No
    naruto
    well I don't know but I don't think that they are mean to them (well I know some and they are nice) so I think they shoudln't be mean to the kids because some kids are just a little bit fat when they are younger but maybe if they come in the puberty then sometimes they are going to be thinner :) hehe
  • Takoma543 2010/09/27 15:12:30
    Yes
    Takoma543
    +2
    half of the time kids are overweight because of the food the parents provide for them in the house hold.they dont know any better than to eat what the parents tell them to eat.
  • Ainsley Jo Phillips 2010/09/27 14:55:50
    No
    Ainsley Jo Phillips
    +1
    I voted "No," as this question is too generalized. If parents have a tendency to be mean to kids, there might be some who would use their weight as an excuse. On the other hand, they might like their chubby kids better than their skinny ones. There are just some mean people out there who happen to also be parents (so-called), and the kids will suffer because of it.
  • Nonicknameunlessyouknowme 2010/09/27 12:09:48
    No
    Nonicknameunlessyouknowme
    +1
    I sure hope not. If anyone should love another person unconditionally, it should be one's parents, as well as grandparents. I know I was fortunate enough to have such a family and I know that the one grandmother who took care of my cousins, one of whom was a little chunky, never treated her any different than she did the rest of us who were slim.

    That cousin now weighs about 350 pounds and I love her as I always have and I have no doubt the rest of the family feels exactly the same.
  • pyromaniaticwhale17 2010/09/27 11:56:45
    Yes
    pyromaniaticwhale17
    Some parents think they're helping their kid when they say that. It's a way of manipulation that they're trying to pull off. To force their kids into being healthier. They don't realize how much damage their doing. Other parents might have something against it, and let their anger out of their kids. Some just use "fat" as an insult when angry since it's common to choose that topic to pick on. To pin-point an exact answer is always difficult. My mother always called me "her chubby one" out of love, and as a little girl I took it the wrong way. It did cause problems along the way, but I should have realized that pet name didn't mean much at all.
  • SourCherry 2010/09/27 11:40:38
    Yes
    SourCherry
    I think some are.
  • Depsycho 2010/09/27 09:46:50
    Yes
    Depsycho
    I can't say for sure, but I wouldn't doubt overweight children are treated differently compared to normal sized kids, even on a parent level. Why? I dunno. But to me it's not right.
  • NidStyles 2010/09/27 09:13:52
    Yes
    NidStyles
    To be honest I think overweight people themselves are generally far more moody than average or skinny people.
  • Topcount345 2010/09/27 07:46:28
    Yes
    Topcount345
    Generally if the parents let the kid get overweight in the first place (there are some exceptions) then because they can't take responsibility they just move the blame over on to their children. I see it when I'm out and about, parents placing the blame on their children because they're too immature to take responsibility for the things they've done themselves. It's sick and it makes me wonder if there shouldn't be requirements for parenthood.
  • iamnotCARROTTHEDEMONDOG 2010/09/27 07:29:40
  • carla 2010/09/27 05:35:59
    No
    carla
    No!!!! It's the kid's choice to be OVERWEIGHT!!!
  • Trystan carla 2010/09/27 13:46:16
    Trystan
    Not always. Their parents could be feeding them a bunch of junk, and they might not have any control over it.
  • carla Trystan 2010/09/28 04:50:56
    carla
    Parents don't feed their kids with "bunch of junk"...
    Parents are even concerned to their kid's health..........!!!!
  • Trystan carla 2010/09/28 13:26:55
    Trystan
    You're grammar doesnt make any sense to me. SOME PARENTS, DO NOT FEED THEIR KIDS HEALTHY FOODS. do you understand?
  • carla Trystan 2010/10/01 05:56:13
    carla
    yati!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
  • Trystan carla 2010/10/01 16:29:45
    Trystan
    wtf... I'm done talking to you. You're obviously remedial with grammar. lol
  • runningintriangles 2010/09/27 04:12:49
    No
    runningintriangles
    Not buying your child a car isn't being mean, it's being responsible. Let the kid save their own money to buy the damn thing. Or let them walk. They could probably use the bloody exercise.

    And honestly, what's "mean" is when a parent calls their child fat when they're clearly not (thanks, mum... what a bitch). If a kid is overweight, a parent telling them to get off their arse and do something about it isn't a bad thing in the least.
  • Fantasy... running... 2010/09/27 12:18:14
    FantasyAuthor
    You spelled a word wrong!
  • running... Fantasy... 2010/09/27 12:35:26
    runningintriangles
    ...no I did not, kid. Grow a brain.
  • Fantasy... running... 2010/09/27 12:47:07
    FantasyAuthor
    In stead of saying ass you said arse
  • Trystan Fantasy... 2010/09/27 13:46:51
    Trystan
    Probably because he's british or something. ghaa
  • Fantasy... Trystan 2010/09/27 13:55:33
    FantasyAuthor
    She! The person is a she and I don't like the person to begin with, so I don't care if the person is british or not. I don't like her. I don't like her one bit!
  • Trystan Fantasy... 2010/09/27 13:57:47
    Trystan
    Oh okay, SHE* &If she is british, you should'nt be making fun of her grammar.
  • Fantasy... Trystan 2010/09/27 14:02:19
    FantasyAuthor
    I only made fun of her grammer once but she has been making fun of me many of times
  • Trystan Fantasy... 2010/09/27 14:04:16
    Trystan
    I'm not going to argue. lol. I'm just saying, it was stupid of you to (try) to correct her.
  • Fantasy... Trystan 2010/09/27 14:06:53
    FantasyAuthor
    It is stupid of her to make fun of me! I am only human you know It is stupid for her to banned me from her page when I am only stating my opinion

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