Are Co-Ed Bachelor/Bachelorette Parties Cool, or Ruining a Tradition?

by Catch My Party Posted 2012/07/27 16:00:00

Related Topics: Bachelor Parties, Bachelorette Parties, Wedding, Marriage

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	In this day and age, can’t we all let loose and celebrate together?	157 votes	47%
	It’s your last hurrah, it needs to be just you and your BFs getting crazy!	176 votes	53%

I’ve been to both, and personally I prefer a traditional bachelorette party. How often do you get to have that much fun with just your girlfriends? Those are memories I will never forget.

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GLaDOS to diarslade 2012/07/28 03:18:51 (edited)

+1
You ever notice how the word "spouse" sounds so much like "louse." I guess it fits when that future-spouse will be bugging you about stuff.

That said, I'm so lucky! You may glance, but I know that there's no attraction. Mwahahaha!

Oh, and she's not much younger than you, so she just needs a little experience and maturation, I think.

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diarslade to GLaDOS 2012/07/28 03:27:49

+2
I am pretty awesome aren't I? :3 <3

She just seems a little judgmental is all, probably go away with time. Seems to be in a relationship with a good guy (so she says, and I don't make it a habit of assuming people are lying) so best of luck to her.

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Blutand... to Melody 2012/07/29 12:03:05

Look Lady, your husband may not say it in front of your face( which is gute etiquette), but alle through one's life, be they men or women, are going to LOOK at the opposite sex. At the beach, in the mall, etc....To be so insecure as to think otherwise is something you must work on. Just because the opposite sex LOOKS, does NOT mean they have bad morals. It means they are HUMAN!

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addie to Melody 2012/07/28 08:46:41

+2
I do not have friends that would hire strippers or go to any part with them, but there are traditional games that go on at a shower that are just better when it is all women. That is kind of why I think it is better for them to stay traditional.

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debhead to GLaDOS 2012/07/28 03:53:40

+1
I agree with you!

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Scream 2012/07/27 21:29:44

In this day and age, can’t we all let loose and celebrate together?

+1
Especially if most of your "BFs" are guys and you're a girl

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moviebuff 2012/07/27 21:05:39

In this day and age, can’t we all let loose and celebrate together?

That is so FUN!

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Christian 2012/07/27 20:28:25

In this day and age, can’t we all let loose and celebrate together?

They will do what they will do I guess.

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Daniel 2012/07/27 20:08:06

It’s your last hurrah, it needs to be just you and your BFs getting crazy!

I've never been to a bachelo® party without it being co-ed. I sure as Hell don't want to see them take their clothes off.

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Ben 2012/07/27 19:57:20

In this day and age, can’t we all let loose and celebrate together?

+3
My wife is cool. I love her to death, but unfortunately, we weren't going to spend more on Bachelorette or bachelor parties than our actual tiny wedding. But, If we had a choice, we would probably both go to a strip club together. Maybe for our one year. lol.

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Mr. Smith 2012/07/27 19:46:14

It’s your last hurrah, it needs to be just you and your BFs getting crazy!

+1
You have the rest of your lives to do stuff like that together......

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Tennessee3501 2012/07/27 19:37:12

It’s your last hurrah, it needs to be just you and your BFs getting crazy!

There will be plenty of co-educational activity at the wedding! Keep the tradition!

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Inquisitve Kat 2012/07/27 19:28:23

It’s your last hurrah, it needs to be just you and your BFs getting crazy!

I mean, to each their own... but you and your partner will have the rest of your lives to do things together.

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Michelle 2012/07/27 19:25:16

In this day and age, can’t we all let loose and celebrate together?

+3
If the bride or groom wants to invite their friends of the opposite gender, why not? Not everyone goes to a place that makes the other gender uncomfortable for their bachelor/bachelorette parties-- though if you plan to, I recommend you don't invite the friends that would be uncomfortable.

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MOMMA THOMAS 2012/07/27 19:18:14

In this day and age, can’t we all let loose and celebrate together?

DO IT ANY WAY YOU LIKE! ....GREAT GRANDMA

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Mrs. Kathy Arch 2012/07/27 18:46:28 (edited)

It’s your last hurrah, it needs to be just you and your BFs getting crazy!

Sorry, but mine is girls only! And I certainly don't want any part of his festivities-nor do I want to know what they do! I don't think the men would like my party favors.... o.O

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mikeeonly 2012/07/27 18:43:11

It’s your last hurrah, it needs to be just you and your BFs getting crazy!

+3
some traditions are better off left as is

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smitty 2012/07/27 18:40:19

It’s your last hurrah, it needs to be just you and your BFs getting crazy!

Separate the dudes and the chicks. Life is too short and you will soon be co-ed for the rest of your life.

I had no interest being at my wifes bachelorette party. She sure the heck wasn't coming to mine. Thankfully I only remember half of it and it was all before cell phones.

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lil crazy 2012/07/27 18:18:47

In this day and age, can’t we all let loose and celebrate together?

+1
Actually it is up to the bachelor/bachlorette on how they wish to celebrate the event and doesn't matter to me as long as they agree.

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GLaDOS to lil crazy 2012/07/28 02:28:49

Well, technically, those particular parties are supposed to be thrown by the best man/maid of honor, respectively, I'm pretty sure.

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Anthony Souls 2012/07/27 18:08:11 (edited)

It’s your last hurrah, it needs to be just you and your BFs getting crazy!

I think I missed-read the question. Oh wells. The picture threw me off.... LOL

Take care,

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kevracer 2012/07/27 18:06:08

It’s your last hurrah, it needs to be just you and your BFs getting crazy!

co-ed is lame

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Sterling 2012/07/27 17:44:46

In this day and age, can’t we all let loose and celebrate together?

+2
The whole idea seems stupid to me.

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Firefly 2012/07/27 17:30:57

It’s your last hurrah, it needs to be just you and your BFs getting crazy!

+1
Traditions should be left alone ~

They were set for a reason ;0 )

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David 2012/07/27 17:07:13

In this day and age, can’t we all let loose and celebrate together?

+1
What does the "Ed" stand for in your question?

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Elizabeth 2012/07/27 17:04:46

It’s your last hurrah, it needs to be just you and your BFs getting crazy!

i'm not really into parties.

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Arse-Whole 2012/07/27 17:01:06

It’s your last hurrah, it needs to be just you and your BFs getting crazy!

+2
I've never been to a strip club for a bachelor party. That's kind of a common misconception among women. A bachelor party is a chance to go have fun with your friends without checking in or worrying about trust issues or making sure your fiancé is having a good time or whatever before you commit to having a nag in your ear for the rest of your life.

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Kyle to Arse-Whole 2012/07/28 02:56:07

That's how I've always viewed it.

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JCD aka "biz" 2012/07/27 16:50:19

In this day and age, can’t we all let loose and celebrate together?

Bachelor parties are often too stupid.

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YeahISaidIt 2012/07/27 16:47:01

It’s your last hurrah, it needs to be just you and your BFs getting crazy!

+1
Although I'll probably want female strippers too.

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Christopher Kirchen 2012/07/27 16:37:39

It’s your last hurrah, it needs to be just you and your BFs getting crazy!

+4
The whole point of a bachelor party is for it to be a "stag party", and for the groom to be able to have a "last hurrah," not under his fiancee's eyes.

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xcheshirecat 2012/07/27 16:35:52

In this day and age, can’t we all let loose and celebrate together?

+1
Since peple have sex and stuff before marriage, there's no "last time" of something before marriage

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Rob 2012/07/27 16:29:49

In this day and age, can’t we all let loose and celebrate together?

I remember my bachelor party, a surprise my buddies put together for me. They literally swooped in, picked me up and took me out for an awesome evening. My fiance's last comment before I left? " Just you keep your pants on."

Whatta girl! (BTW, we're still happily married)

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thefatguy 2012/07/27 16:24:44

In this day and age, can’t we all let loose and celebrate together?

It defeats the purpose of the event. How silly! If invited to a co-ed party, I would find something better to do.

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Michael 2012/07/27 15:38:47

In this day and age, can’t we all let loose and celebrate together?

+2
boring for guys to witness female bonding and vice versa,it is a passage from being single to being a couple.

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Fashionable60s 2012/07/27 15:34:15

In this day and age, can’t we all let loose and celebrate together?

I don't know what tradition? A lot of my friends did not have bachelorette parties, just a group of very close friends getting together doing silly things at someone's home or office not at a club. I guess we were square and out of touch women.

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Bob S 2012/07/27 15:14:06

It’s your last hurrah, it needs to be just you and your BFs getting crazy!

+1
Can't see any reason or reasons to fight the urge.

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Fef 2012/07/27 15:12:42

In this day and age, can’t we all let loose and celebrate together?

+2
Co-ed parties to celebrate blissful marriage -- call that the wedding.
When a guy wants to have his last few hours with his guy friends, he doesn't want any women around.

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Bronar 2012/07/27 15:10:43

In this day and age, can’t we all let loose and celebrate together?

+4
When you put the two together it becomes just one more engagement party.

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