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Are children important in a relationship?

Kitty Kat 2012/04/30 18:44:50
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  • fcombs 2012/04/30 18:54:09
    No....Explain
    fcombs
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    Well, in the first place it would depend on what the relationship is. Is it living together, friends, roommates, married? I think of the relationship as an entity unto itself. Problems beset relationships that have nothing to do with children, and if you have a lot of problems in the relationship, adding children could be a disaster. Children are a separate issue - they are not a part of the "relationship" per se. And they should come before any selfish desires of the relationship.

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  • Maker Deng Nyang 2013/01/02 13:24:36
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    Maker Deng Nyang
    Children are blessing in relationships between husband and wife but not as the core value. People need to understand that children are gift from God. what matter is how you care about yourselves. I have seen many marriages breaking up whether there are/no children. what causes that is lack of misunderstanding because of poor communication. The most important thing in relationship is good communication and seeking God. Maker Deng Nyang
  • Lisa 2012/05/07 04:32:19
    No....Explain
    Lisa
    I've never wanted children.
  • Donnie 2012/05/01 00:52:37
  • Dark Angel 2012/04/30 22:03:28
    Yes....
    Dark Angel
    In my case, If they are mine..But I still are 4 them as if they are mine.
  • Vision of Verve 2012/04/30 21:10:29
  • bama girl 2012/04/30 20:06:15
    No....Explain
    bama girl
    unless either partner already has children then the children should be top priority !
  • sockpuppet 2012/04/30 19:25:17
    No....Explain
    sockpuppet
    Not to me... I mean, if I HAD children, or was involved with someone who did, they'd be very important. I've always been perfectly satisfied to be part of a couple, no children required.
  • Sheila 2012/04/30 19:07:04
    No....Explain
    Sheila
    WHAT relationship?
  • Fef 2012/04/30 18:59:16
    No....Explain
    Fef
    +1
    People can have a good relationship without children -- in fact, they can more easily enjoy their relationship by not having kids.

    Unless, of course, either partner wants to fulfill an important obligation by having children
  • LADY LIBERTY SILLY WORDSMITH 2012/04/30 18:56:01 (edited)
    Yes....
    LADY LIBERTY SILLY WORDSMITH
    YES, children are very important in our relationship.

    I put my children before relationship.
  • fcombs 2012/04/30 18:54:09
    No....Explain
    fcombs
    +3
    Well, in the first place it would depend on what the relationship is. Is it living together, friends, roommates, married? I think of the relationship as an entity unto itself. Problems beset relationships that have nothing to do with children, and if you have a lot of problems in the relationship, adding children could be a disaster. Children are a separate issue - they are not a part of the "relationship" per se. And they should come before any selfish desires of the relationship.
  • Sheila fcombs 2012/04/30 19:07:37
    Sheila
    +1
    VERY well said!!
  • fcombs Sheila 2012/04/30 19:58:01
    fcombs
    +1
    Thank you. You have to define things these days because words have come to have so many different meanings.
  • Mike 2012/04/30 18:54:05
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    Mike
    +1
    They should be top priority

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