I can't speak for anyone else but myself, but my father raised me in the typical alpha-male gentleman mold. He taught me that men have roles in society that they are honor-bound to follow with regard to women and to themselves.
I know, many people have an immediate knee-jerk reaction to this. My father was horrible. He stifled me; misogynist, etc... Horrible and wrong, correct?
Without going into everything he taught me, not through macho words or rebuke, but through simple example, I will say this. I had three sisters with whom I played many girl games with. I played Barbies with them. I allowed them to play 'dress up' with me, to put make-up on me and show me off to both my father and mother. I engaged in these activities with their friends on many occasions. My father did not forbid this nor rebuke me for engaging in 'girly' activities. The reason for this was, I was honoring the most important role for a man in society with regard to women. This role is do everything in your power to give the women whom you love in your life joy and to do so with out shame. This isn't a sacrifice, this isn't a chore, this is a privilege of being a proper man.
Another duty of being a man is to live your life as you so choose without shame and to approach it with valor. If yo...
I know, many people have an immediate knee-jerk reaction to this. My father was horrible. He stifled me; misogynist, etc... Horrible and wrong, correct?
Without going into everything he taught me, not through macho words or rebuke, but through simple example, I will say this. I had three sisters with whom I played many girl games with. I played Barbies with them. I allowed them to play 'dress up' with me, to put make-up on me and show me off to both my father and mother. I engaged in these activities with their friends on many occasions. My father did not forbid this nor rebuke me for engaging in 'girly' activities. The reason for this was, I was honoring the most important role for a man in society with regard to women. This role is do everything in your power to give the women whom you love in your life joy and to do so with out shame. This isn't a sacrifice, this isn't a chore, this is a privilege of being a proper man.
Another duty of being a man is to live your life as you so choose without shame and to approach it with valor. If yo...
I can't speak for anyone else but myself, but my father raised me in the typical alpha-male gentleman mold. He taught me that men have roles in society that they are honor-bound to follow with regard to women and to themselves.
I know, many people have an immediate knee-jerk reaction to this. My father was horrible. He stifled me; misogynist, etc... Horrible and wrong, correct?
Without going into everything he taught me, not through macho words or rebuke, but through simple example, I will say this. I had three sisters with whom I played many girl games with. I played Barbies with them. I allowed them to play 'dress up' with me, to put make-up on me and show me off to both my father and mother. I engaged in these activities with their friends on many occasions. My father did not forbid this nor rebuke me for engaging in 'girly' activities. The reason for this was, I was honoring the most important role for a man in society with regard to women. This role is do everything in your power to give the women whom you love in your life joy and to do so with out shame. This isn't a sacrifice, this isn't a chore, this is a privilege of being a proper man.
Another duty of being a man is to live your life as you so choose without shame and to approach it with valor. If you like the color pink and wearing dresses, then do so and do so proudly and stand up for yourself against any whom challenge you. Being a man is more than what you look like or behaving boorish and aggressive. It is being confident and strong no matter what the situation and to always stand up for yourself and most importantly to be yourself and be courageous enough to do so.
Unfortunately I believe that most boys are raised by fathers that don't know how to be men. So raising a boy to be a man is beyond their understanding. So these boys aren't raised to be men at all. They're raised to be terrified of what isn't the status quo. They don't stand up for themselves and buckle under peer pressure. They are raised by movies and television who, everyday, reinforces what is and isn't 'manly' so instead of being men they're boys pretending to be what the culture teaches them what a man is.
Because of this what is and isn't considered to be 'manly' becomes exaggerated. Even those who purport to go against the status quo are only doing so not because they are men but because they're are simply doing what is contrary to what they've been taught by their peers and culture. You can see this by the cultural norms being established by terms like 'metro-sexual', and other such idiotic labels.
Until boys can live their lives without shame or fear of embarrassment from their immediate peers they will remain boys. When they find confidence to be themselves no matter the outside pressure then they will truly have earned the honor of being a man. Then they can strive to maintain that honor on a daily basis.
(more)I know, many people have an immediate knee-jerk reaction to this. My father was horrible. He stifled me; misogynist, etc... Horrible and wrong, correct?
Without going into everything he taught me, not through macho words or rebuke, but through simple example, I will say this. I had three sisters with whom I played many girl games with. I played Barbies with them. I allowed them to play 'dress up' with me, to put make-up on me and show me off to both my father and mother. I engaged in these activities with their friends on many occasions. My father did not forbid this nor rebuke me for engaging in 'girly' activities. The reason for this was, I was honoring the most important role for a man in society with regard to women. This role is do everything in your power to give the women whom you love in your life joy and to do so with out shame. This isn't a sacrifice, this isn't a chore, this is a privilege of being a proper man.
Another duty of being a man is to live your life as you so choose without shame and to approach it with valor. If you like the color pink and wearing dresses, then do so and do so proudly and stand up for yourself against any whom challenge you. Being a man is more than what you look like or behaving boorish and aggressive. It is being confident and strong no matter what the situation and to always stand up for yourself and most importantly to be yourself and be courageous enough to do so.
Unfortunately I believe that most boys are raised by fathers that don't know how to be men. So raising a boy to be a man is beyond their understanding. So these boys aren't raised to be men at all. They're raised to be terrified of what isn't the status quo. They don't stand up for themselves and buckle under peer pressure. They are raised by movies and television who, everyday, reinforces what is and isn't 'manly' so instead of being men they're boys pretending to be what the culture teaches them what a man is.
Because of this what is and isn't considered to be 'manly' becomes exaggerated. Even those who purport to go against the status quo are only doing so not because they are men but because they're are simply doing what is contrary to what they've been taught by their peers and culture. You can see this by the cultural norms being established by terms like 'metro-sexual', and other such idiotic labels.
Until boys can live their lives without shame or fear of embarrassment from their immediate peers they will remain boys. When they find confidence to be themselves no matter the outside pressure then they will truly have earned the honor of being a man. Then they can strive to maintain that honor on a daily basis.
The promotion of heterophobic acts without labeling them as such is a veiled assault on heterosexual society. It is an ongoing psy op designed to destabilize society and weaken its resistance to the NWO. It also reveals the true Communist and satanic nature of the NWO. Yes, the NWO is designed to concentrate all wealth and power on the hands of the Illuminati central bankers. But more than that, it is a state of mind, a satanic spell characterized by homosexuality, pornography, money-lust, violence, deception and death. We are all being inducted into this satanic cult which is based on the Kabbalah.
For both boys and girls, enormous psychological trauma and self-image issues abound because of societal standards. So they are equal, and even if it could be found that one suffers more than the other( which I do not think is the case at all), it does not matter. All gender stereotypes need to go. No need to pick either male or female standards. The only reason I did not give my overall view was because that wasn't the question.
NO: For the following reasons:
If a boy is "feminine"- gay.
If a boy's favorite color is pink- gay.
If a girl is a tomboy- she's a dyke.
If a girl likes sports- she's a lesbian.
If a grown man is still single and lives alone- he's a bachelor.
If a grown woman is still single and lives alone- she's a lesbian.
The list of stereotypes I'm sure can go on, but ya'll get the picture, right? If a guy likes wearing make-up or dressing like a woman, so what? If a girl wants short hair or she if she wants to play sports or wear cargo-pants- so what? No one said you had to be their friend, and if you don't like it, don't look.
I grew up a tomboy- I liked cargo pants and hated purses (I still hate purses BTW). I liked playing sports and I liked being active, it was fun. I was comfortable with the guys and didn't have many girl friends because they didn't like that I wore my hair or that I didn't like playing with dolls and talking about my wedding for when I grow up- or I'm assuming that's what girls talk about. I don't know because by the time I had real female friends I was in the 3rd grade. Play...
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NO: For the following reasons:
If a boy is "feminine"- gay.
If a boy's favorite color is pink- gay.
If a girl is a tomboy- she's a dyke.
If a girl likes sports- she's a lesbian.
If a grown man is still single and lives alone- he's a bachelor.
If a grown woman is still single and lives alone- she's a lesbian.
The list of stereotypes I'm sure can go on, but ya'll get the picture, right? If a guy likes wearing make-up or dressing like a woman, so what? If a girl wants short hair or she if she wants to play sports or wear cargo-pants- so what? No one said you had to be their friend, and if you don't like it, don't look.
I grew up a tomboy- I liked cargo pants and hated purses (I still hate purses BTW). I liked playing sports and I liked being active, it was fun. I was comfortable with the guys and didn't have many girl friends because they didn't like that I wore my hair or that I didn't like playing with dolls and talking about my wedding for when I grow up- or I'm assuming that's what girls talk about. I don't know because by the time I had real female friends I was in the 3rd grade. Playing dress up and tea party had gone out by then.
AND like a woman is expected to be, I can be nurturing, I wear make-up, I do my hair, I paint my nails, and when I'm in the mood I do wear dresses and skirts.
BUT: problem is I am androgynous. But I like it like that. For those of you that don't know what the word means, look it up. I have facial features that don't really scream MAN or WOMAN- depending on what I wear I have been mistaken for a male, and other times it's obvious I'm female. There are women out there like me, and there are men out there with feminine features and are mistaken for females because of how they dress & act.
The stereotypes go back to times when men and woman had very separate roles that did not integrate at all. Men were hunters, protectors, masculine, strong. Women are viewed as the weaker sex because we're more nurturing & more feminine than males; and it's because of that stereotypes are made. It's not really so much to do with gender, it's what's EXPECTED of that gender.
I know, many people have an immediate knee-jerk reaction to this. My father was horrible. He stifled me; misogynist, etc... Horrible and wrong, correct?
Without going into everything he taught me, not through macho words or rebuke, but through simple example, I will say this. I had three sisters with whom I played many girl games with. I played Barbies with them. I allowed them to play 'dress up' with me, to put make-up on me and show me off to both my father and mother. I engaged in these activities with their friends on many occasions. My father did not forbid this nor rebuke me for engaging in 'girly' activities. The reason for this was, I was honoring the most important role for a man in society with regard to women. This role is do everything in your power to give the women whom you love in your life joy and to do so with out shame. This isn't a sacrifice, this isn't a chore, this is a privilege of being a proper man.
Another duty of being a man is to live your life as you so choose without shame and to approach it with valor. If yo...
I know, many people have an immediate knee-jerk reaction to this. My father was horrible. He stifled me; misogynist, etc... Horrible and wrong, correct?
Without going into everything he taught me, not through macho words or rebuke, but through simple example, I will say this. I had three sisters with whom I played many girl games with. I played Barbies with them. I allowed them to play 'dress up' with me, to put make-up on me and show me off to both my father and mother. I engaged in these activities with their friends on many occasions. My father did not forbid this nor rebuke me for engaging in 'girly' activities. The reason for this was, I was honoring the most important role for a man in society with regard to women. This role is do everything in your power to give the women whom you love in your life joy and to do so with out shame. This isn't a sacrifice, this isn't a chore, this is a privilege of being a proper man.
Another duty of being a man is to live your life as you so choose without shame and to approach it with valor. If you like the color pink and wearing dresses, then do so and do so proudly and stand up for yourself against any whom challenge you. Being a man is more than what you look like or behaving boorish and aggressive. It is being confident and strong no matter what the situation and to always stand up for yourself and most importantly to be yourself and be courageous enough to do so.
Unfortunately I believe that most boys are raised by fathers that don't know how to be men. So raising a boy to be a man is beyond their understanding. So these boys aren't raised to be men at all. They're raised to be terrified of what isn't the status quo. They don't stand up for themselves and buckle under peer pressure. They are raised by movies and television who, everyday, reinforces what is and isn't 'manly' so instead of being men they're boys pretending to be what the culture teaches them what a man is.
Because of this what is and isn't considered to be 'manly' becomes exaggerated. Even those who purport to go against the status quo are only doing so not because they are men but because they're are simply doing what is contrary to what they've been taught by their peers and culture. You can see this by the cultural norms being established by terms like 'metro-sexual', and other such idiotic labels.
Until boys can live their lives without shame or fear of embarrassment from their immediate peers they will remain boys. When they find confidence to be themselves no matter the outside pressure then they will truly have earned the honor of being a man. Then they can strive to maintain that honor on a daily basis.
(more potential victims for the sterile bomb)
Blessings to all,
and May all be well with you ^_^
None of these were stopped from acting and dressing as they wanted.. Where there's a will there's a way ;)
Feminine men are HOT :D
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And so are Masculain women ;)
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I personally think both are sexy in their own way, in part because they are being true to themselves.
That being said I think their is gender related peer pressure for boys to act "macho" and girls to be "pretty". But even peer pressure is somewhat lessened if you have parental support in life.
I hope this made sense.