Are all teen moms bad?
Silent Bob
2012/06/10 03:07:40
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Being a teen mom myself, I just wanted to raise this topic. I made a mistake, but now I have a responsibility. I'm not a bad person, just an idiot. What do you think?
But when one considers the uneducated way of the youth today and the constant drumming of deviated music, television shows, and magazines - it is not all together the young woman fault she becomes pregnant outside of marriage - but is still does not make it right.
Everything in society (including Christianity) encourages dating. dating only encourages one thing - divorce. It teaches young men and women it's "ok" to be with one for a while until you grow tired of each other and then you can just go and find another. It teaches that it's ok to "fish" the sea of men - try out this one or that one until you find one you really like - or think you do anyway.
Another error of Christianity, and government laws, is that they forbid a young woman to marry an older, responsible, man when she comes to the age were she becomes interested in men, and being with a man.
According to the Bible - a man can marry a woman after the age that she has begun her menstrual cycle. So therefore - a man of twenty five is not committing a sin (rape) by having sex with a young woman of 14, 15, 16, etc.. the sin is not allowing that man to marry the young woman who agreed to lay with him - of cou...
But when one considers the uneducated way of the youth today and the constant drumming of deviated music, television shows, and magazines - it is not all together the young woman fault she becomes pregnant outside of marriage - but is still does not make it right.
Everything in society (including Christianity) encourages dating. dating only encourages one thing - divorce. It teaches young men and women it's "ok" to be with one for a while until you grow tired of each other and then you can just go and find another. It teaches that it's ok to "fish" the sea of men - try out this one or that one until you find one you really like - or think you do anyway.
Another error of Christianity, and government laws, is that they forbid a young woman to marry an older, responsible, man when she comes to the age were she becomes interested in men, and being with a man.
According to the Bible - a man can marry a woman after the age that she has begun her menstrual cycle. So therefore - a man of twenty five is not committing a sin (rape) by having sex with a young woman of 14, 15, 16, etc.. the sin is not allowing that man to marry the young woman who agreed to lay with him - of course if he forced her that is rape and in the Bible says such a man is to be put to death, which the world does not do either but instead put them in prison for a time.
I find it very sad for young women like who have not been brought up right - and then condemned by the very world that lead youth into that position.
They should not feel bad either about accepting welfare - for the people who have lead young men and women down the wrong path should help to pay for what they helped to create - an unwed mother.
Blessings to all and,
May all be well with you ^_^
But the reason why young women get pregnant is irresponsibility and a lack of godly teaching and standards in our world today.
A woman (young or older) should never have sexual relations until they are married.
That is the most stable relationship for a child to be brought into.
It just makes me very sad to see so many young women lead down the wrong path - but then most seem to be more than willing to go down it.
According to the only God, and religion, that matters it is a sin - and it's called whoredom - punishable by death (stoning).
And only the wicked say religion has nothing to do with it; for a woman who had true religion (faith), and obedience, to the God of Aburam would not get pregnant outside of marriage - so religion has a GREAT deal to do with it.
But it is not all the girl/young woman's fault that they have fallen into whoredom - for 90% are mislead by parents, and, so called, friends that have little, to no, Godly understanding.
But if one will confess that what they are doing, and/or have done, is wrong and repent, God will forgive them and help them to live a Godly life.
Your "boyfriend" should take you as a wife before ever laying with you; and if he has already lain with your then he is required by the Laws of God to marry you, and for you to be his wife for the rest of your life.
If youth were made to respect these Laws of God there would be a lot less pregnant unwed mothers.
But folly leads to folly - and until you correct yourself you will continue on in folly.
Gos will in no way justify the actions of women becoming pregnant outside of marriage - but he is forgiving and willing to forgive if one is willing to be repentive.
According to the God of Aburam, who spoke the word written in the Bible, it does make then a whore, but not necessarily bad - ie; One will prove themselves to be bad if they do not repent from such activities and seek out that which is right. Those who are a bad apple are those who will continue even after reproach and do even worse.
The best thing to do for yourself, if you had sexual relations with your ex-boyfriend, or any boy outside of marriage, is confess that you have sinned and go and do it no more.
For if you where the one who broke up with your boyfriend then you are the one in error sin- twice over - first for laying with him before marriage, then for breaking up with him -- for in the eyes of God - once you have lain with a man then you become his wife (for the two will become one flesh - and let no one split them asunder..). So now adultery is added to the list of sin of whoredom. If he broke up with you for any reason other than your unfaithfulness then He causes you to become and adulteress, for you surely will seek pout another to take his place - therefore you will lay with another other than the one who took your virginity.
These things are according to God's laws - I tell y...
According to the God of Aburam, who spoke the word written in the Bible, it does make then a whore, but not necessarily bad - ie; One will prove themselves to be bad if they do not repent from such activities and seek out that which is right. Those who are a bad apple are those who will continue even after reproach and do even worse.
The best thing to do for yourself, if you had sexual relations with your ex-boyfriend, or any boy outside of marriage, is confess that you have sinned and go and do it no more.
For if you where the one who broke up with your boyfriend then you are the one in error sin- twice over - first for laying with him before marriage, then for breaking up with him -- for in the eyes of God - once you have lain with a man then you become his wife (for the two will become one flesh - and let no one split them asunder..). So now adultery is added to the list of sin of whoredom. If he broke up with you for any reason other than your unfaithfulness then He causes you to become and adulteress, for you surely will seek pout another to take his place - therefore you will lay with another other than the one who took your virginity.
These things are according to God's laws - I tell you this for I would want that you would do that which is right in the sight of God and not of man for the sake of your life here on earth and that after life which we will all face in one place or the other - the choice is yours, and no one else.
Therefor accept the truth and repent - else meet the fate intended for all they who disobey - death, hell and the lake of fire.
But both have become fine mothers so far