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Are adult men attracted to teenagers?

Kiersten Conway 2012/06/25 03:24:44
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  • Willie 2012/06/25 05:37:25
    No
    Willie
    +10
    I can only speak for my (50 year old) self. There's a big difference between noticing that someone is attractive and being attracted to them. There are some teenaged girls who look awfully mature, and who are attractive. Do I notice? You bet. I'm not dead. Am I attracted to them? No sir. Beneath that mature looking exterior, I know, beats the heart of a child.

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  • Nezkeys79 JohnT 2012/06/26 10:53:31
    Nezkeys79
    +1
    Actually if you were looking at anything but teenage girls as a teenage boy that kinda makes you a weirdo lol
  • mikeyavelli 2012/06/25 15:30:41
    Yes
    mikeyavelli
    +1
    let's just say that if i and a cute teenage girl were the last people on earth, there would be big hope for the continuation of the human race.
  • edifyguy mikeyav... 2012/06/25 15:41:05
    edifyguy
    LOL! I hope you're a romantic old fart! :p



    Some older men are such gentlemen that girls can't resist them. James May comes to mind, although he's a bit younger than you.
  • mikeyav... edifyguy 2012/06/26 17:09:45
    mikeyavelli
    i'm so romantic i get caught singing under balconies.
  • edifyguy mikeyav... 2012/06/26 21:05:33
    edifyguy
    lol
  • Nezkeys79 mikeyav... 2012/06/26 10:54:24
    Nezkeys79
    Brilliant haha!
  • CAPISCE 2012/06/25 14:57:58 (edited)
    Sometimes
    CAPISCE
    +1
    Playboy etc are filled with 18 and 19 year olds.

    I don't think most adult males would ever even consider dating a girl that age but the beauty can be respected and admired.
  • Taxman CAPISCE 2012/06/25 16:38:15
    Taxman
    +1
    I agree, the sexual nature of us men make us look, but a sense of morality keeps us from pursuing.
  • Nezkeys79 CAPISCE 2012/06/26 10:55:47
    Nezkeys79
    They have had 16 and 17 year olds a few times as well.
  • CAPISCE Nezkeys79 2012/06/26 13:55:49
    CAPISCE
    If that's the case they should be in jail
  • Tom 2012/06/25 14:25:43
    No
    Tom
    +1
    I can notice that a teenager is attractive without being attracted to them.
    Too young, too immature, no life experience.
    I'll pass.
  • Charles E 2012/06/25 14:09:01
    Sometimes
    Charles E
    Speaking only for myself, I admire their youthful looks, then go home to my wife.

    I have no interest beyond that.
  • XRenX 2012/06/25 14:02:18 (edited)
    Yes
    XRenX
    +1
    Creepily, yes. When I was 15, a man who was 49 liked me and always stared (even after he found out my real age). He "thought" I was 19-21 @ age 15, which is hard to believe since most people say I look YOUNGER than my actual age.....O_o He isn't the only middle aged/much older man who stared/flirted. T_T

    Often girls look older than they do, (not me) but I remember on the Dr. Oz show, he mentioned that girls today look more mature and developed at younger ages than they did back then. He believe there were certain hormones in the food. A woman showed the audience a picture of herself @ age 8, she looked normal, she then showed a photo of her 8 yr old daughter and she was way to developed for an 8 year old. I also know a 14 year old who is about an F-G cup.
  • Sodahead Founders are Fascists 2012/06/25 13:49:22
    Yes
    Sodahead Founders are Fascists
    +1
    Why do you think "teen porn" sells so well
  • Cochise 2012/06/25 13:36:27
    Yes
    Cochise
    +2
    Men will be men. If it's a girl, in a skirt or pants, an adult man is interested in her. The mind is mysterious.
  • martin28 2012/06/25 13:29:22
    Sometimes
    martin28
    +2
    In my personal experience I've met what I thought was a girl my age (21) she seemed extremely smart and she definitely knew what she was talking about, and from her body I thought she was my age but she was only 16. In her defense she thought I was 16 too because I've always look younger than my age. Fortunately for me I am who I am and not like other guys so my pursuit wasn't to have sex with her had I been another guy it would've been and I'd probably be in jail. I think it should be against the law that girls under 18 dress like adult women (I don't know if guys under 18 can pass off being older but the same should apply to them too).
  • Nezkeys79 martin28 2012/06/26 11:03:53
  • martin28 Nezkeys79 2012/06/27 23:48:30
    martin28
    +1
    It's sad that anyone would defend the right of a legally underaged girl to dress as if she was an adult woman, and then turn around and demonize a man for having sex or desiring to have sex with a girl under 18. A teenage girl should dress as a teenage girl and not like a seductress. Kind of reminds me of the old siren and sailor stories lol.
  • ChrisK1969 2012/06/25 12:50:09
  • oros 2012/06/25 12:49:23
    Sometimes
    oros
    +1
    You are a woman what does your Radar tell you.
    A real man knows what attraction really is in reality and how to deal with it in the correct manner within himself and does not follow the base instinct.
    Unfortunately they are few and far between these days as I am sure you are aware of.
  • Vision of Verve 2012/06/25 12:37:40
  • Cameron 2012/06/25 12:28:42
    Yes
    Cameron
    I am sure that a fair number are
  • freespire 2012/06/25 11:44:17
    Sometimes
    freespire
    the boundaries of what love is or how love works are different for all of us, one has to find what they feel is right in their own heart and then take the next step
  • Nezkeys79 2012/06/25 11:36:52 (edited)
    Yes
    Nezkeys79
    +4
    Of course they are. It's a proven fact that many adult men are physically attracted to 13-18 year olds. The term to describe this is ephebophilia which is not a psychiatric disorder, unlike pedophilia (attraction to pre-pubescent children).

    Physically many teenage girls look older and are sexually alluring. Most late high school girls nowadays are almost fully developed physically, and they roll their skirts up flashing their knickers/panties. They also have fake tan, hair extensions, and make up amongst other things. These are things adult women do to attract adult men. Also how do you explain teens under 16 that get past bouncers on the doors of a nightclub? Are those bouncers pedophiles? Certainly not, they probably have no idea the girl is 13 or 14 because she looks older and the bouncer thinks she is a young woman. It still doesnt make him a pedophile if he knows she is 13/14 because of the definition given above of pedophilia/ephebophilia. Unfortunately many men will not admit being attracted to teenagers(especially high school teen girls), or act upon this because of the stupid legal system claiming teenagers are children. Even the law has certain categories to separate 'minors'...under 13, and under 16. This should be self explanatory as to what this means about people aged 13-15. If a man says he has never become aroused by a teenage girl he is lying. I think its normal and I'm never ashamed to admit when i find a teenager attractive
  • Edensasp 2012/06/25 10:44:36
    Sometimes
    Edensasp
    +1
    With me I think its more a memory for my youth that is the attraction, not say to say that the "eye candy" isn't pleasing.
  • Charles E Edensasp 2012/06/25 14:14:36
    Charles E
    Like the crown jewels - OK to look as long as you don't try to take them home.
  • Edensasp Charles E 2012/06/26 00:25:01
    Edensasp
    +1
    I am not interested in taking them home...just enjoying the view and remembering what once was my youth...
  • Rave 2012/06/25 10:39:38
    Sometimes
    Rave
    +3
    Sometimes it's really hard to tell. I was talking to this quite attractive looking girl the other day, I wasn't interested in her, but she was attractive looking. I figured she was in her early 20s, she looked very mature and talked in a very mature manner.

    Turns out she was 15.

    I think it's normal to find younger people attractive if they look older, in the past most of us would've been married by 16 anyhow, and at some point it was common for 14 year olds to give birth. After puberty technically we are physically developed enough to be considered attractive in that sense, the only problem is we don't have the mental development yet, that's why it would be wrong to peruse anyone who was under 18 at least. Also because of our legal system, it would be wrong because the older one would have more legal power over the younger one.
  • Nezkeys79 Rave 2012/06/25 12:05:33
    Nezkeys79
    +1
    The question wasnt about pursuing a teenager for a relationship. It was simply if adults find teenagers attractive. As a straight guy of 28 I can say that I have seen many 13-18 year old girls who I have been aroused by. I was never interested in pursuing a relationship with any of them because there is a high chance we have nothing in common, and maturity levels would be severely imbalanced. The same goes for when I see women in their 40s who look attractive.
  • Rave Nezkeys79 2012/06/25 12:34:59
    Rave
    I know what the question was, I was just saying why perusing it would be wrong and therefore it's only attraction, nothing else.

    Age of consent does differ in different countries though, I lived in China where the age of consent is 14, which to me seems quite low at this point. Here where I live it's 16, but relationships with those under 18 are still looked down upon if you are older.

    In America it's 18. It's normal to be attracted to younger people, like I said, after puberty was once nature's way of telling us that it's okay to go for it, but now we know that it's not that simple.
  • Nezkeys79 Rave 2012/06/25 13:21:52
    Nezkeys79
    Nothing had changed. Its not more complicated as you suggest
  • y so serious 2012/06/25 09:30:11
    Sometimes
    y so serious
    +2
    And woman are attracted to teen boys, just saying.

    twilight moms

    I mean there is a reason for the rash of female teachers getting caught with male students
  • Nezkeys79 y so se... 2012/06/25 12:09:30
  • YOMOMMA 2012/06/25 09:22:12
    Yes
    YOMOMMA
    YEP! You better believe it! They luv spring chickens.
  • BobbyOdd 2012/06/25 09:17:43
    Yes
    BobbyOdd
    i think it is their youth that they are attracted to. Also...NO WRINKLES! haha
  • David (oYo) 2012/06/25 09:09:00
    Yes
    David (oYo)
    +2
    Especially teenage girls in school uniform with short skirts.
  • Nezkeys79 David (... 2012/06/25 12:13:15 (edited)
    Nezkeys79
    Well said. Nowadays every time I see a hot teenage girl in a school uniforn oddly enough its so short I can see their knickers/panties.

    You do realise that schools have a sensible policy on skirt lengths and that they roll their skirts up once in public. Ive always wondered why they do this but I ain't complaining!
  • David (... Nezkeys79 2012/06/26 10:07:54
    David (oYo)
    I've seen knickers too, it made my day. They were pink.

    Yes the girls love short skirts, it's not the schools. They could wear longer skirts.
  • Nezkeys79 David (... 2012/06/26 11:13:36
    Nezkeys79
    It always makes my day too pink or white knickers Haha! must have seen thousands of real life knicker flashes lol. A few years ago most used to wear thick shorts and/or tights underneath their skirts and some still do, but now all i see is bare leg and knickers! In my local. area they put their feet up on the seats of public transport and you can see everything!
  • David (... Nezkeys79 2012/06/26 12:16:03
    David (oYo)
    Well I haven't noticed that but I don't go on the bus. They just walk in the street.

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