An unattractive person hits on you, how do you tell them your not interested without hurting their feelings?

by Sonny Posted 2012/07/16 21:35:05

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☠ Live ... to BlondeA... 2012/07/17 02:08:14

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Woooow, that is messed up. -__-

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jojac to BlondeA... 2012/07/17 02:25:40

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come on, be nice, don't be calloused.
If they are nice with their approach, be kind in return.
Some that are not attractive are nice and likable when you get to know them

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Alli 2012/07/16 22:46:07

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Je ne parle pas anglais. If they speak french back.... "I have to go in a general that way direction now but it was a pleasure meeting you"

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BlondeA... to Alli 2012/07/16 23:39:39

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men love french accents but you should get some like wild hair thats glue on and fake and put it under your armits and say je suis francais lol that will do it

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hannah 2012/07/16 22:43:47

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i explain it to them as decently as possible and i let them know that they will find someone cause they are a decent person enough to deserve someone (unless they arent decent. then i leave that part out. but most of the unattractive people who have hit on me were decent people)

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Wiyao Boukpessi 2012/07/16 22:41:31

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I don't know, but u can try pretending to be sick

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amazinggrace 2012/07/16 22:37:41

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I tell them to piss off freak. I'm joking, I honestly don't know.

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Duke----The Non Racist, Fun... 2012/07/16 22:37:39 (edited)

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Well, so as not to hurt their feels about their awful looks, I may would say...

"I'm sorry but I could never go out with you because your breath smells so bad, it could knock a buzzard off a sh-t wagon"

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amysmeade to Duke---... 2012/07/16 22:38:37

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lol thats so messed up

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Duke---... to amysmeade 2012/07/16 22:45:19

I do hope you know I'd never really do that. I's just being a little funny...lol

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amysmeade to Duke---... 2012/07/16 22:48:18

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I thought it was funny

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philly 2012/07/16 22:36:20

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yes I let them down nicely and tell that I am not into a relationship and I just need time to myself

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Tony 2012/07/16 22:35:52

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Already haz significant other!

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keelan 2012/07/16 22:34:42

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this is the best i can come up with

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Mechelle 2012/07/16 22:33:54

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I smile and say,"oh your sweet but I have a boyfriend. But thank you, you made my day". That way no ones feelings are hurt.

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Relay 2012/07/16 22:33:20

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Say: "sorry i have prior arrangements". it usually confuses them long enough to make a quick get away :P

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Sinister Ken Doll™ 2012/07/16 22:29:13

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if it's an ugly girl, i tell her i'm gay
if it's an ugly guy, i tell him i'm straight

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keelan to Siniste... 2012/07/16 22:30:49

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in other words u bi?

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Siniste... to keelan 2012/07/16 22:38:54

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yeah, i am bi which is why i get hit on by both guys and girls
but the lies only work on strangers, unfortunately

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keelan to Siniste... 2012/07/16 22:44:40

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:D

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Nam Era Vet #1 DNA TLC 2012/07/16 22:28:38

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Have you met my wife?

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Scooter 2012/07/16 22:25:42

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Just tell them I'm not interested.

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waternymphxD 2012/07/16 22:22:52

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Everyone that has hit on me was attractive...then again my version of attractiveness in guys is laughable according to my friends...

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~[Rachel Mariee]~ 2012/07/16 22:22:38

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It depends... Though I've never really been flirted with so I'm not sure.. O:
But who knows.. I they are unattractive in looks..
They could be attractive inside..
If that made sense..

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Diana 2012/07/16 22:22:17

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Just say thanks for the compliment.I'm already taken.

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amysmeade 2012/07/16 22:22:17

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By lying and saying i have a boyfriend or dating is aginst my religon

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Willski 2012/07/16 22:22:11

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I don't see why you wouldn't want to hurt their feelings. More fun that way.

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Mechelle to Willski 2012/07/16 22:37:06

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That's just mean. Karma is a bitch just so you know. And please believe not everyone is Goo.g to think you are attractive. As a matter of fact, what you said is ugly inside which takes away from any looks you might have on the outside.

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Willski to Mechelle 2012/07/16 22:39:46

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I consider mydelf somewhat ugly. And i've never seen any evidence to prove Karma exists.
Look at how many bad things happen to good people, and how many bad people live good lives.

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hannah to Willski 2012/07/16 22:49:20

it still doesnt make it okay to hurt someone's feelings. you wouldnt want it done to you so you shouldnt do it to others. you dont have to care but at least FAKE decency. its all about empathy. imagine it being you being the asker and then see if you can say YOU wouldnt mind getting your feelings hurt by the person just so they can get a good cackle in that day. im sure that would make you feel like a crappy joke... now think of what the person would feel like if you did that to THEM. i think you get what i mean.

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Willski to hannah 2012/07/16 22:56:28

Yeah, I’m a sociopath; I don't do much emotion or empathy.
But I do value honesty. I don't want people to let me down gently, as it may leave false hope, I’d rather the (metaphorically) tear my heart out and stomp on it. It allows for total certainty.

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hannah to Willski 2012/07/17 01:18:40

theres a better way to express honesty. i didnt say you actually had to mean it the way you say it but sometimes its better to express honesty in a decenter way.

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Mechelle to Willski 2012/07/16 23:36:24

I don't think anyone is ugly if they are nice on the inside. And you are right, a lot of people who do bad get great things, but they mean nothing without people who love or care for them. And yes a lot of good people get the shaft I agree. I can't explain it but it is what it is.

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Willski to Mechelle 2012/07/16 23:46:05

It's life and the world as it is. There is no Karma.
And I’m a lovely person on the inside, aside from mild sociopathy, and a tendency towards brutal honesty. Externally though I’m somewhat unattractive.

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jc 2012/07/16 22:22:07

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I have women that I'm not attracted to hit on me all the time.I say I'm married.

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SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin 2012/07/16 22:21:34

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just dont talk to them ever again? :S

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ṃεταllïс_ḋќ[сhατвøχ] 2012/07/16 22:21:21

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I work my way around it and bore them by not talking too much.

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Jersey Roze ♥Jwon's Cyar'ika ♥ 2012/07/16 22:19:01

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Depends on why I find them unattractive...

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Lulu's Mom 2012/07/16 22:04:56

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Tell them to get real and get lost!

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♒ßεllεchεvεllε®♒ 2012/07/16 21:43:13

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Tell them I'm married.

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