Am I wrong?

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Am I wrong?

by elizabethbath0ry Posted November 03, 2009 21:32:44

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My ex was told ,after this weekend trying to cause problems between me and my bf, to not contact me again, that since he cant just be my friend then to just go away.He refused to do that and today he was knocking on my door all day, calling over and over again. I ignored him till he just opened my door that i thought was locked. I called 911 on him. I know he isnt trying to hurt me, and hes a good guy he just cant seem to move on. i feel very badly about having to get the police involved but my new bf is very jelouse and it would be bad if he showed up here or called while he was here. My question is was i wrong to call the police?

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Twird620 November 05, 2009 21:52:38

definitely not- babe, thats overly obsessive, get him somehelp
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spacehawk November 04, 2009 20:27:18

You have one obsessive ex and a jealous new BF. Is there a difference? :)

Sorry, I just could not help to notice. You did the right thing, He who can not hear must feel.
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elizabe... to spacehawk November 04, 2009 20:52:51

yeah i had vowed i wouldnt date another jelouse guy but seems that what i always end up with. I wonder if that a flaw in my character as well as theirs?
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spacehawk to elizabe... November 04, 2009 20:56:22

I would not call it a flaw but definitely something to watch out for. Perhaps you think better the devil you know?
I would definitely stay away from any jealous guy. There are too many other personalities disorders associated with jealousy that it is just not worth it.

You are beautiful and can have who you want. You can afford to be choosy. :)
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elizabe... to spacehawk November 04, 2009 21:01:24

awww, thankyou :)
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poorboy November 04, 2009 13:38:55

Ruff thing calling an ex a friend! Just say goodbye!
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jjvoodoo November 04, 2009 06:35:01

what you did was the right thing to do, if you cant get him to leave you alone maby the popo's can......or me :) lol
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*hollywood_undead* November 04, 2009 01:57:29

absolutely not.........get a restraining order
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SirenAlyss November 04, 2009 01:51:57

He came into your house uninvited. That's breaking and entering. A B&E.; And well stalking which is in fact not romantic unlike Twilight advertises.
corrinne November 03, 2009 23:02:38

nope.
mistiblu November 03, 2009 21:42:23

no
kb November 03, 2009 21:42:06

its best if you want something serious with your new boyfriend to stay away from your ex. hell get over you quicker if you stay out of his picture. also staying entwined with your ex would most definitely cause trust issues with your new boyfriend.