Am i only one/or am i only guy who is so sick of hearing women and girls constant complaining about jerks and other bastards and evil men when it's her fault
Cloud
2012/07/26 17:49:01
Sorry for the title fellow sodaheads and yes i admit it I'm so sick of women and girls constant complaining about jerks,assholes and other bastards and evil men when it's her fault and she cry oh boohoo where is a nice guy or why there is no nice guys around.
Well women and girls i tell you you did and don't say I'm sexist because you always want what you can't have and you lusts after those bastards and others who you can't have and never will have when a nice guy saw that he decided to become a jerk boom you love him but you complain and bitch about it but if he is nice you'll friend zoned him in a heartbeat.
Sorry if i rant this is so fucking anooying i admit this as well i feel like scream out top of my lungs to tell her to shut the fuck up and question saying whose fault for chasing him whose fault is it for wanting to change him or whose fault thinking he is such a hottie i want to change him etc.
And i admit sometimes i want to jump off the cliff so i get rid of this nightmare and this curse of me being a nice guy and yes I'm being a virgin waiting till marriage and a lot of girls and a lot of women if I'm wrong then let's just say some girls and some women never wait till marriage and there is high divorce rates because they have lusts no love.
And I'm just checking am i only who is sick of this and so i might as well and give up on all girls and all women all together and die as a lonely virgin guy since you girls and you women never wait till marriage and you don't share what i love oh well and thanks for letting me rant sorry and i admit as well i am so sick of how they complain and never take responsibility of her own actions :).
Well women and girls i tell you you did and don't say I'm sexist because you always want what you can't have and you lusts after those bastards and others who you can't have and never will have when a nice guy saw that he decided to become a jerk boom you love him but you complain and bitch about it but if he is nice you'll friend zoned him in a heartbeat.
Sorry if i rant this is so fucking anooying i admit this as well i feel like scream out top of my lungs to tell her to shut the fuck up and question saying whose fault for chasing him whose fault is it for wanting to change him or whose fault thinking he is such a hottie i want to change him etc.
And i admit sometimes i want to jump off the cliff so i get rid of this nightmare and this curse of me being a nice guy and yes I'm being a virgin waiting till marriage and a lot of girls and a lot of women if I'm wrong then let's just say some girls and some women never wait till marriage and there is high divorce rates because they have lusts no love.
And I'm just checking am i only who is sick of this and so i might as well and give up on all girls and all women all together and die as a lonely virgin guy since you girls and you women never wait till marriage and you don't share what i love oh well and thanks for letting me rant sorry and i admit as well i am so sick of how they complain and never take responsibility of her own actions :).
A girls definition of nice might be different then yours. A "nice guy" to a girl can come off as creepy/stalkerish. Or maybe the girl just doesn't think the guy wants to be more than a friend.
I definitely don't get turned off by a guy who is super nice. I go completely for a guys personality. Yes, looks help, and if a guy is good looking, I can help but look. But that doesn't mean I'm gonna ditch a nice guy whose personality I like, for a more attractive guy who could be a jerk. I definitely do not cry over peoples shoulders about "lusting" for men, and think I can change them. I don't even know any girls that do that. (Lucky me I guess)
No offense or anything, but you seem to have a huge issue about girls not being virgins. Do you think girls who have lost their virginity all lust after guys? Because that is 100% not true.
Also. The way your wording things is saying "You're the nice guy. You know girls, that date jerks. You try to be nice to them, but the girls don't go for you.They go and cry on your shoulder and rant, because they think you're being a good friend to listen." You do know, you're basically just doing what you say girls do. Saying that girls always "complain about guys who are jerks". All while you're complaining a...
A girls definition of nice might be different then yours. A "nice guy" to a girl can come off as creepy/stalkerish. Or maybe the girl just doesn't think the guy wants to be more than a friend.
I definitely don't get turned off by a guy who is super nice. I go completely for a guys personality. Yes, looks help, and if a guy is good looking, I can help but look. But that doesn't mean I'm gonna ditch a nice guy whose personality I like, for a more attractive guy who could be a jerk. I definitely do not cry over peoples shoulders about "lusting" for men, and think I can change them. I don't even know any girls that do that. (Lucky me I guess)
No offense or anything, but you seem to have a huge issue about girls not being virgins. Do you think girls who have lost their virginity all lust after guys? Because that is 100% not true.
Also. The way your wording things is saying "You're the nice guy. You know girls, that date jerks. You try to be nice to them, but the girls don't go for you.They go and cry on your shoulder and rant, because they think you're being a good friend to listen." You do know, you're basically just doing what you say girls do. Saying that girls always "complain about guys who are jerks". All while you're complaining about girls who don't go after you, because you're the nice guy. At least that's what I'm getting at.
You know, you can still be the nice guy, and get the girl. Just step up your game, and don't back down. Show the confidence that you deserve the girl, and not the jerk. If she doesn't go for it. Move on, and meet someone new. You need to remember, not every girl is the same.
Just keep searching, but be patient. Everyone has their own special person to share rest of their life with. You will find her, and be truly happy.
My gram always said:
"The only way someone can walk all over you is if you lay down for them first."
If someone treats me poorly, I leave them alone and find someone else who will treat me better.
I think its about even.
No one seems satisfied.
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'Blame' solves no problems... and neither does just complaining.