>>>"We've been there, and we know she's right."<<<
Sounds like you're just a bunch of self-absorbed haters, to me.
*shrugs
I'm genuinely happy for my friends when they find love, regardless of my own romantic status.
Admit It: Do You Hate It When Your Single Friend Finds Love?
SodaHead Living
2012/04/09 18:00:00
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We have to admire a writer for How About We coming clean about something almost everybody feels but hardly anyone admits: It stinks when your single pal finds new love. "Deep, terrible confession time: sometimes I really think it sucks when one of my girl friends gets a boyfriend. So selfish, I know!" the writer confesses.
We've been there, and we know she's right. Suddenly, your Saturday night playmate is unavailable. Your wingman or wingwoman is paired off -- you're on your own in the dating world. And often, you're on your own, period.
"When I’m single, my fellow single ladies can feel like my lifeboat. They’re the ones who are always up for spontaneous nights out, the ones who will engage self-deprecating banter about spinsterhood, the ones I can freely text on a random night because I’m fairly sure that they, like me, are sitting around their apartment watching TV, too," the writer confesses.
But once your pal gets into a serious relationship, he or she tends to be M.I.A. As the writer for the article puts it, "...suddenly she only ever wants to hang out during the day: brunch, or lunch, or coffee. Because weekend nights are usually exclusively for him. And if you do manage to drag her out at night, she won’t have the same abandon she did when she was single. She’ll seem slightly distracted, she’ll check her phone a lot, she’ll yawn and want to head home way earlier than she ever used to."
So sad, but so true. Do you feel abandoned when your single friends pair off? Or are you genuinely happy for them?
So sad, but so true. Do you feel abandoned when your single friends pair off? Or are you genuinely happy for them?
Read More: http://www.howaboutwe.com/date-report/it-sometimes...
Top Opinion
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Melizmatic 2012/04/09 21:49:57
This kind of thing happens often, I was also pretty close with my sister until she found someone.
I'm just not good at keeping in touch, and often when I'm not in the top priority list anymore, I start to become distant.