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A Mother's Courage

Marlow ~ Let There Be Light 2011/05/08 03:38:50

We’ve all heard this week about the courage of the Navy SEALs. Courage always stirs my heart. Tomorrow being Mother’s Day in the United States I want to highlight the courage of a particular mother. I came across this article earlier in the week.



'After miscarriage I was prepared to risk my life for a baby': Mother with killer condition gives birth despite doctors' abortion advice


By Daily Mail Reporter


Last updated at 12:54 PM on 3rd May 2011


A brave mother risked her life and ignored doctors’ advice to terminate her baby after rare pregnancy hormones triggered tumours all over her body and led to a collapsed lung.


Donna Hewetson, who also suffered ruptured kidney in her bid to bring first child Lily into the world, defied medics after enduring the agony of a miscarriage.


Mrs Hewetson, 29, from Lichfield, Staffordshire, said: ‘Losing my first baby was absolutely devastating for me and my husband - and I knew with Lily, I was prepared to risk my life for her.


I'd always dreamed about becoming a mum, and when I finally got pregnant, there was no way I was giving up on my baby.


‘It was a really frightening time - we both knew that the longer I was pregnant, the more tumours I had growing inside me - but my maternal instinct was too strong to even contemplate a termination.’


Her pregnancy caused her body to produce hormones that led her to suffer two potentially fatal conditions.


Mrs Hewetson was also diagnosed with Tuberous sclerosis, which causes benign tumours to grow on vital organs when she was just 12 weeks' pregnant.


She was also told she had Lymphangioleiomyomatosis (LAM), a lung condition that affects just one in a million women, and causes the breathing organs to collapse.


But despite her own life being at risk, she was so desperate to become a mother that she was willing to risk her life.


Amazingly, the gamble paid off and she is now on the road to recovery. And her daughter is healthy.




Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-1383070/Mother-kill...


What a brave woman. Courage is all around us in the most common of people and circumstances. I have said that society depends on the sacrifice and strength and dedication of our mothers. They raise us, teach us, labor in more ways than one for us, nurture us, clean us, and guide us toward maturity. They look into our eyes daily, hold us with those strong though feminine arms and through that mystic connection of sight and touch arouse the heart to love. Our mother’s love is in all our hearts, placed there from infancy only to blossom with time. We are what we are predominantly because of our mothers. Those Navy SEALs had mothers who steeled their character. It’s the rest of the world with all its vexations and tribulations that attempts to wear that primal love away.



I completely understand Donna Hewetson’s passion and determination. I don’t advocate such valor, just as I don’t advocate young men becoming Navy SEALs. Though not common any longer, women still do die in childbirth, and that notion alone—the notion that a mother risks her very life for the birth of us, her child—is enough to give us pause. What feats our mother’s did on Crispin’s Day, or, more precisely, our birth day. But when you come across such special heroism, it should be praised and honored. Mrs. Heweston, you are truly valiant.



And here is the heroic mother and child, a typical looking woman, but with obviously atypical heart:

valiant nbsp nbsp heroic mother child typical woman atypical heart



Happy Mother’s Day to all you heroes, especially my wonderful wife celebrating her first Mother’s Day! Here’s a picture of mother and child. It’s not a recent one, going back to Thanksgiving, but I think it’s a special one.



http://i119.photobucket.com/albums/o123/virgil_015/015-2.jpg



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  • dreamwriter12 ✲the libraria... 2011/05/18 14:20:53
    dreamwriter12 ✲the librarian of ρнaεt✲ in grammar I trust
    +1
    That is an amazing story. Thank you for sharing.
  • Marlow ... dreamwr... 2011/05/18 19:45:21
    Marlow ~ Let There Be Light
    +2
    My pleasure. I hope yours goes smoothly. :) When is your due date?
  • dreamwr... Marlow ... 2011/05/18 20:11:30
    dreamwriter12 ✲the librarian of ρнaεt✲ in grammar I trust
    +1
    Thanks. :) It's July 29th. And she'd better stay in there until then too. We still have to move and go through our parenting classes, and we won't be through with all of that until the middle of July. lol. I expect that she will though. Everything has been great so far, and she's doing well.
  • Marlow ... dreamwr... 2011/05/19 03:01:57
    Marlow ~ Let There Be Light
    +1
    Fabulous! Saying a prayer for continued success.
  • sglmom 2011/05/13 07:15:07
    sglmom
    +2
    Wonderful Story .. Thank you for posting this!
  • Marlow ... sglmom 2011/05/16 12:04:25
    Marlow ~ Let There Be Light
    +1
    My pleasure. :)
  • Ali ~ In My Heart I Trust ~ 2011/05/10 03:22:04
    Ali ~ In My Heart I Trust ~
    +3
    I hope your wife (despite the tardy card! LOL!) had a lovely Mother's Day, Marlow!
  • Marlow ... Ali ~ I... 2011/05/10 11:13:10
    Marlow ~ Let There Be Light
    +3
    Funny thing on Sunday. My wife was pissed at me in the morning. Finally she said, do you know why I'm angry? Was it because I made noise and got Matthew up early? I asked. No, you haven't once wished me a happy mother's day, and God help you if you forgot to get me a card. LOL, it was only 9:30 in the morning. I had left the cards in the car and was going to go out and get them and give them to her. I guess on her first mother's day she wanted to hear it the minute she awoke.

    She had a nice day, thank you. :)))
  • Ali ~ I... Marlow ... 2011/05/10 15:24:40
  • MQ-American Values Again (AVA) 2011/05/09 04:01:47
    MQ-American Values Again (AVA)
    +2
    Marlow you and your wife are one of the most beautiful couples on SH... between the two of you the love you have shown each other and dear little Matthew continues to touch me with every new blog you write... big big hugs
  • Marlow ... MQ-Amer... 2011/05/09 17:36:12
    Marlow ~ Let There Be Light
    +2
    Oh that's so sweet of you to say. Funny thing though on Sunday. My wife was pissed at me in the morning. Finally she said, do you know why I'm angry? Was it because I made noise and got Matthew up early? I asked. No, you haven't once wished me a happy mother's day, and God help you if you forgot to get me a card. LOL, it was only 9:30 in the morning. I had left the cards in the car and was going to go out and get them and give them to her. I guess on her first mother's day she wanted to hear it the minute she awoke.
  • MQ-Amer... Marlow ... 2011/05/09 21:29:49
    MQ-American Values Again (AVA)
    +2
    Definitely... next year get up early.. fix her breakfast ... deliver it to her in bed with flowers and a card.... (trust me, you will be treated like a king the rest of the day .. wink, wink)
  • Marlow ... MQ-Amer... 2011/05/10 11:13:51
    Marlow ~ Let There Be Light
    +2
    I will surely do that. :)
  • In vino veritas 2011/05/09 00:00:42
    In vino veritas
    +3
    mothers love Thank you Manny,the world needs more selflessness as this Mother clearly demonstrates. No child can be replicated,each must be considered as the unique once in an eternity creation they are,we must value them unborn,they are life! Love the pic of your family too.
  • Marlow ... In vino... 2011/05/09 00:59:02
    Marlow ~ Let There Be Light
    +4
    Beautiful. Thank you. Hope you had a special day. :)
  • In vino... Marlow ... 2011/05/09 01:01:40
    In vino veritas
    +4
    I did, thank you my friend,appreciate it and you:)
  • Marlow ... In vino... 2011/05/09 01:03:28
    Marlow ~ Let There Be Light
    +4
    A very nice day as well, though my wife and her mother had a little tiff....lol On mother's day no less, but nothing major. Matthew just burned himself out with all the attention. He went to sleep a couple of hours early this evening. He was about to doze off in his high chair at dinner.
  • In vino... Marlow ... 2011/05/09 01:09:46
    In vino veritas
    +4
    Ahh it'll blow over,its kinda nice when they fall off to sleep a bit early,you two can enjoy some alone time,something that prob doesnt happen much nowadays,hope the weather was agreeable,sure was beautiful here,bought flowers for my patio! timesomething prob nowadayshope weather agreeablesure beautiful herebought flowers patio pink geraniums I paint clay pots lots of colors then transplant them! Have a good work week Manny:)
  • Marlow ... In vino... 2011/05/09 01:13:11
    Marlow ~ Let There Be Light
    +3
    Weather was beautiful here on the east coast. Hmm, now that you mention it, with the free time maybe I can turn my wife on for a little early bedtime. :-DDDD
  • belle 2011/05/08 21:08:41
    belle
    +5
    what a stoty, would be hard to do. I wish your wish a great Mother;s day and all the rest pf the wonderful mothers.

    stoty mothers rest pf mothers wonderful mothers day
  • Marlow ... belle 2011/05/09 00:57:23
    Marlow ~ Let There Be Light
    +5
    Thank you and hope you did too. :)
  • ITALIAN CLICKER 2011/05/08 19:11:29
    ITALIAN CLICKER
    +6
    BEAUTIFUL---THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING
    AND FOR YOU WIFE
    beautiful---thank sharing wife HAPPY FIRST MOTHER S DAY WISH beautiful---thank sharing wife HAPPY FIRST MOTHER S DAY
  • Marlow ... ITALIAN... 2011/05/09 00:57:55
    Marlow ~ Let There Be Light
    +4
    Thank you and I hope you had a great day too. :)
  • Sister Jean 2011/05/08 17:33:02
    Sister Jean
    +4
    thanks SO for sharing
  • Marlow ... Sister ... 2011/05/09 00:58:10
    Marlow ~ Let There Be Light
    +4
    My pleasure Sister. :)
  • Sister ... Marlow ... 2011/05/09 00:59:13
    Sister Jean
    +6
    Hope you ALL had a nice day XOXOXOXO for Matthew hope xoxoxoxo matthew sweet friend
  • Marlow ... Sister ... 2011/05/09 01:02:28
    Marlow ~ Let There Be Light
    +5
    For the most part, though my wife and her mother had a little tiff....lol On mother's day no less, but nothing major. Matthew just burned himself out with all the attention. He went to sleep a couple of hours early this evening. He was about to doze off in his high chair at dinner.
  • Sister ... Marlow ... 2011/05/09 01:06:22
    Sister Jean
    +6
    children bring much love and much stress,but love always wins in the end
  • Marlow ... Sister ... 2011/05/09 01:07:03
    Marlow ~ Let There Be Light
    +6
    I have to agree with you!
  • **Bessie** 2011/05/08 14:58:22
    **Bessie**
    +7
    Beautiful story. Thank you Marlow.
  • Marlow ... **Bessie** 2011/05/09 00:58:33
    Marlow ~ Let There Be Light
    +4
    You're welcome. Hope you had a great day Bess. :)
  • memebev1 2011/05/08 11:26:11
    memebev1
    +7
    Blessings to Matthew and his Mom on their first Mothers Day together.
  • Marlow ... memebev1 2011/05/08 13:59:12
    Marlow ~ Let There Be Light
    +5
    Thank you Bev. Happy Mother's Day. :)
  • doofiegirl POTL~PWCM~JLA 2011/05/08 09:57:22
    doofiegirl  POTL~PWCM~JLA
    +5
    What a story! And to think, women thoughtlessly kill babies like this one every day! Marlow, I hope you know I'll cry for at least a week over this one! Knowing you, I don't have to wish your wife a Happy Mother's Day. She has it all, love, and it shows in her face! Give her a big hug from her "other Mother"! Oh, and Matthew and you both get one too!
  • Marlow ... doofieg... 2011/05/08 14:01:30
    Marlow ~ Let There Be Light
    +5
    Thank you. You're too kind, but if you want a laugh my wife thought me unkind for not wishing her a happy mother's day first thing in the morning. It took me until mid morning to give her the cards and wishes. I just can't win...lol. But I had brought home roses for her yesterday. :) Happy Mother's Day. :)
  • doofieg... Marlow ... 2011/05/08 20:44:20
    doofiegirl  POTL~PWCM~JLA
    +3
    lOL! You tell her she had better appreciate you! NOBODY has Ever brought me roses!
  • Barefooted Nana ∞ijm♥∞AFCL 2011/05/08 09:39:37
    Barefooted Nana ∞ijm♥∞AFCL
    +5
    Thank you Marlow! Many Blessings to you and your family. Please pass Happy Mother's Day to your lovely wife! Blessings~Nana
  • Marlow ... Barefoo... 2011/05/08 14:02:03
    Marlow ~ Let There Be Light
    +5
    Thank you. Have a great mother's day. :)
  • Shawna 2011/05/08 06:29:24
    Shawna
    +6
    Mother's love is very strong. I understand that woman's willingness to sacrifice herself for her child I think most mothers would. Your wife and child look lovely. Happy first Mother's Day to her!
  • Marlow ... Shawna 2011/05/08 14:03:02 (edited)
    Marlow ~ Let There Be Light
    +5
    Ah thank you Shawna. You can read stories and see more pictures of my adoption process through my blogs, posted in my questions asked.

    Happy Mother's Day. :)

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