A little rant:why should i even waste my own time on women and girls when most of you girls and most of you women if not some hate nerdy geeky guys and never wait till marriage
Cloud
2012/08/09 00:22:45
Fellow sodaheads i do apologize and this is more of a little rant i want to let out of my system if you don't mind either answer this or comment about this so bear with me thanks.
a little rant:why should i even waste my own time on women and girls when most of you girls and most of you women hate nerdy geeky guys and never wait till marriage?
i mean you want to just have sex with scumbags because you think you can change him into a guy you wanted him to be if your true self and nice she'll most likely friend zoned you and have sex with scumbags and cry drama boohoo he used me he cheated on me.
And when you become a complete jerk who sleeps around she love that she lusts after what she can't have so she chase after scumbags and want to change him into a good man why should i bother no I'm not sexist I'm being smart and i love being who i am and they just have sex with scumbags and they never wait till marriage.
So my point being why should i waste my time,my energy and my virginity on women and girls when most of you girls and most of you women if not some hate nerdy geeky guys and never wait till marriage so far i have giving up on girls and women all together forever and die alone the rest of my life.
And no I'm not gay and unless you can name how many girls and how many women pick nice guys who wait till marriage like i do and she saves her virginity only for him nobody else vs how many scumbags have you sleep with then you'll understand what I'm going through and I'm tired of this bullshit.
And if you are nice you get friend zoned if you are a scumbag you get relationships and she loves to change you into the guy she wants you to be anyway i feel better now i had to say what i had to say thanks for letting me get this out of my system :).
a little rant:why should i even waste my own time on women and girls when most of you girls and most of you women hate nerdy geeky guys and never wait till marriage?
i mean you want to just have sex with scumbags because you think you can change him into a guy you wanted him to be if your true self and nice she'll most likely friend zoned you and have sex with scumbags and cry drama boohoo he used me he cheated on me.
And when you become a complete jerk who sleeps around she love that she lusts after what she can't have so she chase after scumbags and want to change him into a good man why should i bother no I'm not sexist I'm being smart and i love being who i am and they just have sex with scumbags and they never wait till marriage.
So my point being why should i waste my time,my energy and my virginity on women and girls when most of you girls and most of you women if not some hate nerdy geeky guys and never wait till marriage so far i have giving up on girls and women all together forever and die alone the rest of my life.
And no I'm not gay and unless you can name how many girls and how many women pick nice guys who wait till marriage like i do and she saves her virginity only for him nobody else vs how many scumbags have you sleep with then you'll understand what I'm going through and I'm tired of this bullshit.
And if you are nice you get friend zoned if you are a scumbag you get relationships and she loves to change you into the guy she wants you to be anyway i feel better now i had to say what i had to say thanks for letting me get this out of my system :).
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Lauren 2012/08/10 03:21:34
+3I'm an 18 year old virgin, waiting until marriage. I liked the same guy for several years and he's a total nerd. The only reason I got over him was because he's never acted like it would happen, and we're too busy for relationships anyway. I always fall for the nice guy though. Jerks are immature and arrogant and unappealing.
Almost all of my female friends prefer nice guys, many of them are dating nice guys(those who aren't are either not dating or are dating other girls). At least one choose a nice guy over a better looking player(he's not actually a jerk, but it is clear he's not into commitment) because she knew it would end better for her. All of them love their nice boyfriends deeply. Some are waiting to have sex, some already have. I also prefer an over all nice guy, he just can't be doormat nice. Any guy who tried to hit me in any way I did not pre-approve would find himself missing the offending hand, or at least have it out of service for a long while.
Know what none of us like? Guys who spend all their time blaming others for their lack of a date.
How many times are you going to downplay yourself? Several times, I've read the following comment:
"I bet she'll hate guys like me if she finds out if i own any body pillows of my favorite female anime/video game characters of my favorite characters or any of the stuff of those characters and any other characters for the matter"
With the wide variety of likes and dislikes that people have, you can't honestly believe that all women have an overt hatred for guys who have anime pillows. If it's the living with your parents, lack of a job or ID, etc. issue, then do something about it.
You're 24 years old (according to your profile) so how can you not have an ID? You can't drive, vote, get a job, etc. That should be the first thing to resolve. Next, work on your "spine". Women, real ones, like a guy that can stand for something. Even if it's which member of the X-Men is the best... It's something. Third, get a job. If you enjoy video games, I'm sure there's a GameStop or some other game store that you can look into getting on at. (Here's a hint: if you're looking for geeky / nerdy girls, you'll find them at game stores.)
You can build on those baby steps and eventually, probably when you least expect it, "Miss Right" might just come to you.
father more i have nothing no jobs no cars no IDs no nothing and I'm super skinny very thin because of my high metabolism and i still live with my parents what girls and women like that in a guy.
Pick one of them or don't be a nerd.
If that's the case i wish to die now but i won't because my friends won't forgive me and I'm keep on living for people i love and yes for god and Jesus Christ too.
The one that used to really stick in my craw was when a girl would be complaining about how much of a neglectful selfish douchebag her current boyfriend was and would inevitably say "Why can't I find a nice guy... Like You!" You did find a nice guy like me, Then Rejected me for that very reason.
Don't give up, There is a lady out there Who's not willing to tolerate a scumbag, thinks the "nerdy" look is cute. And get this, She's probably hot and doesn't even know it.
father more i have nothing no jobs no cars no IDs no nothing and I'm super skinny very thin because of my high metabolism and i still live with my parents what girls and women like that in a guy.
You'd be surprised what a female is willing to look past if she feels she's found "The one" Think about it, You can't understand why some girls go after "Scumbags" who are incapable of treating them properly. If you want an ID, get one, If you want a job, get one. But even if you don't I assure you There is a girl out there who is capable of wanting you just for the simple fact that you make her feel special.
"I've been where you're at. It may sound unbelievable But there are females who exist that have healthy self esteems and feel they deserve better than The "Scumbags" you describe."
You'll meet a girl who loves you the way you are. A lot of girls LOVE guys who are nerds and geeks. Some of us find that really attractive.
And a lot of girls also wait until marriage.
Why do you keep asking questions about women like this? That's pretty judgmental of you.
As it stands, it would bother me if he wasn't a virgin since I'm not even an adult, so it would be problematic if he has had sex before. But when I'm older, if I meet the guy who is perfect for me and he happens to not be a virgin, I won't let that get in my way of being in a relationship with him.
It shouldn't stop you either because if a girl isn't a virgin doesn't necessarily mean she sleeps around with scumbags.