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A letter to owners of this website we call Sodahead.

Deliciously Melicious 2012/07/04 21:22:01
I know I am not a Top Member, or prevalent on the leader board, so to the owners of this website, I am not important. Just another faceless person, a name, an avatar, giving opinions on some important issues and some not so important things.

My years here mean little to the owners of this site, but I take heart in knowing that I have made connections with people and yes even some friendships.


I understand that money is the bottom line to the owners of this site, not their members happiness or even concerns. I also understand that drama, and trolls and hateful people create traffic and thus revenue.

And yet... I have never been so disappointed as I am today. The owners and moderators of SodaHead, continue to allow a certain troll to do just that troll. Or maybe they are not a troll and are truly this hateful. I hope not, because the idea of a person being this hateful is sad to me.

And I had no problem with them allowing this person to be here, after all we may block, or we may ignore those we don't like.

What I do have problem with is when replying to this hateful person, when DEFENDING myself and others like me, my reply is removed 404'd.

Come on. That's ridiculous. I said nothing more venomous than this other person did. Than this others person's entire poll was, and not just one poll, but many. And yet, theirs still stands. Not only does it stand, but it is featured and celebrated.

Is this the kind of company, website you are running? The kind that panders to the worst of the worst, while slapping the hands of those who have peaceably been here for years?

I hope the answer is no, but I suspect I will once again be disappointed.

Edit: The person/sock/troll I spoke of has finally been deactivated, while I doubt it had anything to do with this little rant, thank you all for your two cents.
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  • *Mahogany Goddess 2012/07/06 15:24:37
    *Mahogany Goddess
    +25
    Thank you, certain people on here are allowed to state racial slurs, anti gay and so on while others get the boot who don't even come close to being as vile.

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  • Golanv (Raven) BN0 2012/07/14 22:45:15
    Golanv (Raven) BN0
    +5
    Nice letter Melicious! Thank you. This one was Psychotroll! It was so disgusting, even for SH, that I reported one of its threads.
  • Dolly 2012/07/12 02:22:38
    Dolly
    +1
    I have known someone else who had this problem here but the moderator decided to bring him back or he just chilled enough here to stay.
  • irish -liberty or death! 2012/07/07 11:49:54
    irish -liberty or death!
    +3
    you are not alone in experiencing this.sh also has staff roaming about as users. they become easy to spot when you know what to look for.
    i had the same experience you did. a user,who had to be staff,was using all sorts of derogatory name calling toward me. even told me i was"schizoid and needed psychiatric help. when i replied "if anyone is schizoid it has to be you".the staff/user went back thru the poll and erased every comment it had made and replaced it with 'this poll is not worth my time". it had answered at least 10 times if not more and was saying the same negative comments to a friend of mine. then this user reported us and we were suspended for 2 days. my friend never came back. and another user took a screenshot of a comment with my name on it and altered the words in the comment. i reported it to sh but that user was not deactivated as it should have been and is still here as is the other one. proof that they work for sh.
    sh has a ton of fakes and sock puppets on this site too. learn how to spot them and then ignore.
  • john 2012/07/07 10:47:19
    john
    +7
    I agree with everything you have said..i have a guy who continually stalks me and insults me and recently sunk to new depths and attacked my family, but don't get me wrong when i was answering him, i made him look stupid everytime, but when he insulted my family and accused me of sleeping with my daughter, i drew the line and reported him and blocked him, but he still attacks me when i'm talking to other people thru them..i do ignore him but he says it is fun and this is the type of people who are allowed to stay on this site and sodahead seem to do nothing to remove them.....
  • irish -... john 2012/07/07 11:50:49
    irish -liberty or death!
    +4
    yeah ,they don't even follow their own tos or code of conduct.
  • Jarod Kochman 2012/07/07 08:09:05 (edited)
    Jarod Kochman
    If you're life revolves around a person being deactivated from this website, that's pathetic.

    melicious, you should look up the word hypocrite. You are angry at other users who you find offensive, while you yourself use such profane language and to think I was going to add you as a friend.

    stop your bellyaching , it's just a web site crying
  • john Jarod K... 2012/07/07 12:07:11
    john
    +6
    it is a website, where we come to have fun and if you feel it is right for someone to insult you, then you must enjoy the site...
  • Jarod K... john 2012/07/07 17:48:27
    Jarod Kochman
    so you are looking for a utopian website.

    You basically want to control the website's content and what is stated.

    If I said right now you were a fool, your answer would be to then ban me.
    Sounds like the typical desire for control as long as you are the one in control.
  • john Jarod K... 2012/07/07 18:08:07
    john
    +4
    never said that and not control but why should we accept other people insulting us,the same people would not say it to your face, but feel they can do it hiding behind a computor...you will never get a perfect site but would be nice to find people who are willing to argue without name calling...
  • jubil8 ... Jarod K... 2012/07/14 21:46:59
    jubil8 BN-0 PON
    +4
    Seems to me the one who makes ASSumptions is the one looking for control.

    People who can't do any better than to put up strawmen don't have much.
  • oldlady Jarod K... 2012/07/07 13:31:36
    oldlady
    +8
    ...say's the guy complaining :/

    ROLLING EYES GIF
  • Jarod K... oldlady 2012/07/07 17:48:59 (edited)
    Jarod Kochman
    you found my wife. She is literally the "Queen" of rolling her eyes and saying, whatever.
  • oldlady Jarod K... 2012/07/14 22:53:52
    oldlady
    +2
    I don't doubt and kudos's to her. Your boring :/
  • Blunder... Jarod K... 2012/07/15 05:07:29 (edited)
    BlunderWoman ~ FTGOP~ BN 0
    +1
    Huh. I wonder why? Such a mystery.
  • Delicio... Jarod K... 2012/07/07 22:10:55
    Deliciously Melicious
    +2
    Yes, and you were perfectly capable of deleting this question and moving on, and yet you chose not to, just as I chose to address my concerns. I don't like your choice and you don't like mine, you are free and most welcome to move along.
  • Jarod K... Delicio... 2012/07/07 22:18:37
    Jarod Kochman
    I'm totally confused and don't even understand what the hell you are talking about.
  • Delicio... Jarod K... 2012/07/08 00:24:10
    Deliciously Melicious
    +2
    Why am I not surprised? *sigh*

    You said, and I quote, "stop your bellyaching, it's just a website". Rather than choosing to ignore a post you didn't like, you had to make it known that you disapprove.

    You made a choice.

    Now, move on, go play some place else.
  • Jarod K... Delicio... 2012/07/08 00:49:44 (edited)
    Jarod Kochman
    You truly make no sense, I'm guessing you must be a teenager or just the mind of one?

    I did not say i did not like the post, I just said stop your crying it's only a website and I was not even speaking to you, you really make no sense.
  • Delicio... Jarod K... 2012/07/08 00:53:45
    Deliciously Melicious
    +5
    Oh honey, I'm sorry you are so easily confused. My 10 year old understood. Who were you speaking to, if not me, given it was my poll??
  • Jarod K... Delicio... 2012/07/08 03:56:11 (edited)
    Jarod Kochman
    Well you chimed in while I was speaking to John and I had no idea it was your poll nor could I care but now I understand the reason the for the silly ranting of your poll. Did they remove the person, are you happy now? Is your life better now> And most of all, do you have a husband? Let me send him my condolences.

    picture of Melicious' husband
    severly depressed man
  • Delicio... Jarod K... 2012/07/08 04:15:07
  • jubil8 ... Delicio... 2012/07/14 21:53:33
    jubil8 BN-0 PON
    +4
    And to think you could have had Jarod for a FRIEND if you'd only been more in tune with his mindset. Whew, lucky escape -- for you. :)

    I just saw that the little brat has been de-a'd so I came back here to see what I could find out about it.
  • jubil8 ... Jarod K... 2012/07/14 21:50:17
    jubil8 BN-0 PON
    +4
    You made multiple comments here without even knowing whose blog it was? Lmao.
  • Delicio... jubil8 ... 2012/07/15 00:16:26
    Deliciously Melicious
    +2
    Right???
  • Golanv ... Jarod K... 2012/07/14 22:55:15
    Golanv (Raven) BN0
    +3
    That's kind of obvious. If you'd seen the stuff I think you would be celebrating as well. The person was psycho and disturbed everyone, regardless of their beliefs or political affiliations. Be glad you missed it.
  • jubil8 ... Jarod K... 2012/07/14 21:45:23
    jubil8 BN-0 PON
    +2
    Mel really lucked out not have you want her for a friend. She must be doing something right. :)
  • oldlady 2012/07/07 04:18:01
    oldlady
    +10
    That piece of human trash was allowed on this site for some time to bash a lot of members. I'm not impressed that "IT" was deactivated today. We just saw the true SH for what it is, a dehumanizing web site desperate for attention :/
  • MO.gal 2012/07/07 02:19:36
    MO.gal
    +13
    I agree with you! I decided to just block and ignore this hateful person. I have better things to do with my time.
  • Lulu's Mom 2012/07/07 01:30:11
    Lulu's Mom
    +10
    SHE IS DEACTIVATED!!! yippie
  • Delicio... Lulu's Mom 2012/07/07 02:05:42
    Deliciously Melicious
    +9
    Really??
  • SA Delicio... 2012/07/07 02:07:18
    SA
    +10
    IT's account is de-activated. For now anyway.......
  • Delicio... SA 2012/07/07 02:11:33
  • SA Delicio... 2012/07/07 02:13:50
    SA
    +8


    LOL For now anyway!
  • jubil8 ... SA 2012/07/14 21:55:11
    jubil8 BN-0 PON
    +2
    Yeah, let's wait and see if the troll shows up with a new name. Fortunately, the style is distinctive enough that I think "it" would be recognizable pretty quickly.
  • SA jubil8 ... 2012/07/14 21:58:33
    SA
    +2
    Same here.
  • Lulu's Mom Delicio... 2012/07/07 02:08:08
  • Delicio... Lulu's Mom 2012/07/07 02:13:03
  • Lulu's Mom Delicio... 2012/07/07 02:17:57
  • SA Lulu's Mom 2012/07/07 02:24:41
  • Delicio... Lulu's Mom 2012/07/07 02:10:03
    Deliciously Melicious
    +7
    My guess, the Rosie O'Donnell thread was the last straw.
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