Would You Rather... Dump Them or Get Dumped?

by The Big Question Posted 2012/06/18 21:34:13

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	Dump them	280 votes	71%
	Get dumped	112 votes	29%

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Jersey Roze ♥Jwon's Cyar'ika ♥ 2012/06/18 21:50:59

Get dumped

+7
Its easier...
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darrell.mackenzie 2012/06/19 05:36:20

Get dumped

+1
i hate doing the dirty work

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Kaola 2012/06/19 05:30:52

Dump them

+2
It hurts when you are dumped. I almost died.

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Bob 2012/06/19 04:31:35

Get dumped

+1
Its easier and you cant blame your self for ending it

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beach bum 2012/06/19 04:31:24

Get dumped

get dumped

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David 2012/06/19 03:16:35

Get dumped

This decision is a lot harder than I expected.

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hellbunney 2012/06/19 01:48:18

Dump them

i am sorry but it is easier so be the dumper

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Alethia 2012/06/19 01:11:00

Dump them

Both suck.

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Remlit 2012/06/19 00:55:10

Dump them

+1
I'm kind of emotionally detached when it comes to pain, but being dumped would make me feel like there's someone I'm not good enough for, and I guess that would shatter my view that nobody is too good for me. I'm not great with handling blows to my massive ego. Anyhoo, I've never been dumped before; I'm always the dumper. I'd never wish either on anyone though, not even my worst enemy :)

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L1 2012/06/19 00:28:37

Dump them

+2
To be the dumper, not the dumpee....

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Sister Jean 2012/06/19 00:19:43

Get dumped

+1
nun

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prosper... to Sister ... 2012/06/19 15:07:45

well geeze Sister Jean, let's hope there's no dumping going on in that relationship. ;-)

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⚜3rd Street Boss⚜ 2012/06/18 23:59:17

Dump them

+2
Either way hurts so..

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Katie 2012/06/18 23:47:45

Get dumped

+2
I don't like hurting other people's feelings, so I would rather a guy break it off with me, than me have to worry about how they are going to react to me breaking it off.

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psiEnergos 2012/06/18 23:43:08
BloodlessVeins 2012/06/18 23:30:35

Get dumped

+3
You want to set me free? Whoo hoo!

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SovereignX 2012/06/18 23:03:13

Get dumped

+2
dumping someone makes me feel like an ass, i hate doing that

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hellbunney to SovereignX 2012/06/19 01:52:03

now that's is a first most want to be the other person the dumper not the dumppe

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1wickedwitch 2012/06/18 22:52:54

Dump them

+2
Both suck..

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sally 2012/06/18 22:37:26

Get dumped

+2
I feel guiltier if I'm the dumper...If you get dumped just grab some icecream watch a couple of chick flicks and you feel better.

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aibohphobia 2012/06/18 22:17:19

Get dumped

+2
I think I'd feel really bad dumping someone.

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Changeling 2012/06/18 22:15:58

Get dumped

+4
For me dumping someone and seeing I caused that pain is worse.

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Raven♥ 2012/06/18 22:14:41

Dump them

+2
I would rather be the one breaking up than being broken up with. To me, I believe there is a little less pain in the one who leaves the other. In some cases, there is no pain at all.

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yoana 2012/06/18 22:13:39

Get dumped

+1
most of the time a give 110% my best to get dumped......lol...most of them don`t get the message

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The River Rat 2012/06/18 22:03:01

Get dumped

+2
WOW! Really hard question. Neither really. I hope I keep the one I have until I am no longer here. She is so wonderful. If she ever leaves, it will be because she dumped me unless she cheats on me. Then I might tell her she has to go.

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Amy.[: 2012/06/18 22:00:40

Dump them

+1
neither actually..

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hannah 2012/06/18 22:00:32

Dump them

+1
if they are crappy individuals. however if they are good to me then i wouldnt do so. but i find getting dumped by someone hurts alot more than dumping them (unless they are ass-faces). i wouldnt want to get dumped

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BubblyBlonde 2012/06/18 21:59:11

Dump them

+3
But either way, it isn't easy.

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Dark Angel 2012/06/18 21:58:27

Get dumped

+3
At least then i wouldnt have to worry bout hurting them.

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Wild Dog 2012/06/18 21:57:34

Get dumped

+3
I'm lazy ,LOL ,let em dump me.

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sglmom 2012/06/18 21:56:52

Dump them

+2
if it is NOT working out ..
just be HONEST about it
and admit to each other ..
this is NOT going to happen (no to furthering the relationship)
and go one's separate ways

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selena costa 2012/06/18 21:56:29

Get dumped

+5
It would hurt me too much to dump someone. I tried it before i couldnt do it i felt like i would regret it and i just wanted to completely avoid the entire conversation. Honestly, i would rather take the pain of being dumped than dump someone. Im just that kinda of person.

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nattieaug 2012/06/18 21:53:51

Get dumped

+3
i'd rather take the pain (it just seems too easy for me sometimes..) than hurt people myself

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Heavy 2012/06/18 21:53:16

Dump them

+2
But getting dumped doesn't really matter to me. I don't form emotional connections.

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Relay 2012/06/18 21:52:12

Dump them

+2
its hard but it hurts less..

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Jersey Roze ♥Jwon's Cyar'ika ♥ 2012/06/18 21:50:59

Get dumped

+7
Its easier...

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YourGurll<3 2012/06/18 21:39:33

Dump them

+6

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selena ... to YourGur... 2012/06/18 21:57:08

+2
VARY true

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HarleyCharley 2012/06/18 21:37:39

Dump them

+1
but very easy...

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