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The Big Question 2012/06/18 21:34:13
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  • Lalaluland 2013/05/04 22:57:28 (edited)
    Get dumped
    Lalaluland
    Both hurts but I can deal with getting dumped easier and I will get over it so much faster.



    The guilt of hurting someone whom I used to love and still loves me so much sticks for a long long time. Now this is torture...
  • Listen,listen,listen 2013/03/05 07:42:16
    Dump them
    Listen,listen,listen
    Ok, this really is pretty cut and dry. I have as of Thursday night dumped a girl so I am speaking fresh off the kill. I have also been dumped, 4 years ago, by the love of my life. Having two solid instances so fresh in my mind and on my heart I feel I am qualified to answer this. The dumping I had to do last week hurt me in a way that I had never experienced. I caused horrible pain on someone and could take it all away by taking her back, but no, I dig the dagger deeper. Not because I want to, but because I needed to. I literally was as emotional as I think I am capable of, which she claimed was not emotional at all. B.S. though because there were a lot of tears and I meant every one of them. This situation was painful, and I feel a loathing of as if somehow it was my fault that we started dating and she was much to sweet and nice and I should have known i'd break her heart and...yea, real crazy thoughts like that because I blamed myself so much for her pain. But in the end it was the right thing. This being said, had the love of my life dump me after 3 years, 4 years ago, and I still haven't recovered from that. At least when you do the breaking up it is because that is what you want. We wouldn't do it if the pain wasn't worth the outcome. Too many people are too pathetic to ...
    Ok, this really is pretty cut and dry. I have as of Thursday night dumped a girl so I am speaking fresh off the kill. I have also been dumped, 4 years ago, by the love of my life. Having two solid instances so fresh in my mind and on my heart I feel I am qualified to answer this. The dumping I had to do last week hurt me in a way that I had never experienced. I caused horrible pain on someone and could take it all away by taking her back, but no, I dig the dagger deeper. Not because I want to, but because I needed to. I literally was as emotional as I think I am capable of, which she claimed was not emotional at all. B.S. though because there were a lot of tears and I meant every one of them. This situation was painful, and I feel a loathing of as if somehow it was my fault that we started dating and she was much to sweet and nice and I should have known i'd break her heart and...yea, real crazy thoughts like that because I blamed myself so much for her pain. But in the end it was the right thing. This being said, had the love of my life dump me after 3 years, 4 years ago, and I still haven't recovered from that. At least when you do the breaking up it is because that is what you want. We wouldn't do it if the pain wasn't worth the outcome. Too many people are too pathetic to break up with people they shouldnt be with and then we see domestic violence, divorce, and troubled children. You gotta man up and do it, because once the thought enters your head its over. Breaking up may be hard to do, but being broken up is hard to repair.
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  • Elizabeth 2012/06/27 15:10:23
    Dump them
    Elizabeth
    It like literally breaks my heart when I get dumped. emo broken heart
  • SueAmazon 2012/06/27 09:40:52
    Dump them
    SueAmazon
    +1
    But now I'm older and wiser. I can remember fretting and losing sleep; how do I do this without hurting them? blah blah blah....When shoe is on the other foot and they feel you won't do enough for them, they don't bat an eye. It's a split second decision. So...Dump, dump swiftly and kindly, then get on with life is all I can say.
  • Anonymous Coward218 2012/06/24 06:10:27
    Get dumped
    Anonymous Coward218
    I'm just a sucker with low self esteem! Oh yeah, yeah, yeah!
    I guess I just like the abuse!
    The more you suffer, the more it shows you really care.
  • mobilsq 2012/06/23 20:27:51
    Get dumped
    mobilsq
    I feel less bad about it than if I had to do the dumping. That way at least I know it's over.
  • Jacqui 2012/06/23 20:18:00
    Dump them
    Jacqui
    Who likes to be dumped? However, I dump as little people as possible.
  • Zammo 2012/06/23 17:41:35
    Dump them
    Zammo
    +1
    Always worked for me!
  • Jippy Jamie Joe (Jamie) 2012/06/23 17:33:22
    Dump them
    Jippy Jamie Joe (Jamie)
    +1
    I will feel better, I guess.
  • GeminiWolf 2012/06/23 15:18:52
    Get dumped
    GeminiWolf
    I've broken too many hearts. I do not want to have to deal with that again.
  • Jack's Pearl 2012/06/23 14:34:26
    Dump them
    Jack's Pearl
    +1
    Even though it's just as painful at least I would be ready to move on. It's a slightly easier position.
  • gaylehelen 2012/06/23 14:25:04
    Dump them
    gaylehelen
    +1
    I only had to do it once, but that was enough. I didn't enjoy it.
  • Alummina 2012/06/21 21:48:43
    Dump them
    Alummina
    sorry, but I think it really doesn't matter when you know it won't work :( you need to find your happiness that's what it really important.
  • TheDeadAreLiving 2012/06/21 17:34:07
    Get dumped
    TheDeadAreLiving
    Sure getting dumped hurts sometime, but I always feel awful and awkward and nervous when I dump someone. I can handle being dumped better
  • lady blue 2012/06/21 11:32:39
    Dump them
    lady blue
    No one likes rejection or to be hurt. While I wouldn't want to hurt someone by
    dumping them, I would much rather dump someone than to be dumped. Some men
    deserve to be dumped and I've had to dump a few in my time. It's easier to move on
    with my life when I am the first to end a relationship that isn't going to work. I don't like
    the word 'dump'. I much prefer to see it as letting the person go.
  • nightcrawler2005 2012/06/21 00:50:24
    Dump them
    nightcrawler2005
    +1
    Tis' far better to be the dumper than the dumpee.
  • ...ImTheOneForever... 2012/06/20 22:00:20
    Dump them
    ...ImTheOneForever...
    it depends on what the persons does but at point get dumped is better so i guess both
  • SAMMIE<3 2012/06/20 21:10:34
    Get dumped
    SAMMIE<3
    But I prefer both cause either way u and them will end up hurt
  • Sarah Alexander 2012/06/20 15:31:17
    Get dumped
    Sarah Alexander
    I've only dumbed people and it feels horrible, have to imagine it would be better to get dumped.
  • Just Jenn for Now 2012/06/19 21:50:24
    Dump them
    Just Jenn for Now
    +1
    ... I have someone to dump??

    forever alone happy
  • TKramar 2012/06/19 21:37:13
    Get dumped
    TKramar
    I've never seen a reason to dump anyone.
  • Your Favorite Nerd 2012/06/19 21:01:57
    Dump them
    Your Favorite Nerd
    Actually feels kinda good...
  • XRenX 2012/06/19 20:09:48
    Dump them
    XRenX
    ..pride O_o
  • Blackberry 2012/06/19 20:01:53
    Get dumped
    Blackberry
    I'm too apathetic to care about getting dumped, but it breaks my heart to break up with someone else and see their pain. I wouldn't mind dumping someone if they didn't show any emotion.
  • chamchamgal 2012/06/19 19:53:52
    Get dumped
    chamchamgal
    But I always end up doing it.
  • glass_butterfly ~YSU~ 2012/06/19 19:41:28
    Get dumped
    glass_butterfly ~YSU~
    +1
    I wouldn't know the first thing about dumping people. Then again all my relationships have always ended mutually.
  • Reuben Rennick 2012/06/19 18:54:11
    Get dumped
    Reuben Rennick
    +1
    If you think you will be dumped, then you do the dumping first. dumped dumping
  • Jorge Enriquez 2012/06/19 18:31:29
    Get dumped
    Jorge Enriquez
    +1
    i prefer not to do damage people...;D
  • ~HopelessRomanticM17~ 2012/06/19 18:22:22
    Dump them
    ~HopelessRomanticM17~
    +2
    Who would rather get dumped? It may be easier, but it hurts more
  • bella 2012/06/19 18:18:24
    Get dumped
    bella
    +1
    either way the relationship is ending so it doesn't really matter to me
  • Ben 2012/06/19 18:07:27
    Dump them
    Ben
    +1
    Advise to men dumping women. Let them go easy, but be upfront and honest and don't hold anything back. Often times, women won't believe it is over if you are beating around the bush. They will think you are speaking in riddles.
  • Chris 2012/06/19 17:56:25
    Dump them
    Chris
  • realityjunkie 2012/06/19 17:49:33
    Dump them
    realityjunkie
    +2
    Even though it hurts it hurts a whole lot less.
  • Jon 2012/06/19 17:47:25
    Get dumped
    Jon
    +1
    Can't say that either is good idea but it can happen, being dump can't be any different than dumping someone. Someone has to do it if the relationship has gone bad or it didn't work out. It sad for both parties.
  • Opinionated Soul 2012/06/19 17:41:16
    Get dumped
    Opinionated Soul
    +1
    Its better that way, you don't end up like the heartbreaker haha
  • Twinkle 2012/06/19 17:15:17 (edited)
    Dump them
    Twinkle
    +1
    I been dumped for no reason before didn't like it don't know why they did also.
  • TheWildOne 2012/06/19 17:06:43
    Get dumped
    TheWildOne
    +2
    id rather hurt myself than hurting others cuz i knw im strong enough to get over it but i dont know about the other person :S :D
  • Chanel 2012/06/19 17:04:59
    Dump them
    Chanel
    +1
    I'd rather dump them...
  • Zach 2012/06/19 17:03:09
    Get dumped
    Zach
    +1
    Less guilt
  • Geeky Bisexual Dragon 2012/06/19 17:01:01
    Dump them
    Geeky Bisexual Dragon
    +1
    then it is not sad

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