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Would you marry someone so they can get their green card?

✿Britt ❤'s Steven Tyler✿ 2012/09/16 01:20:01
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  • boltfox20 2012/09/16 18:06:46
    Undecided
    boltfox20
    +1
    Depends on how close of a friend they are.
  • bags the Indigenous Guru 2012/09/16 14:41:15
    no
    bags the Indigenous Guru
    +1
    Other than the fact that it's against Federal law, is immoral as heck (what're you getting out of this? How much are you selling yourself for?) and can be just plain dangerous......NO. I know someone who did this....an object lesson in why it's a stupid, stupid idea.
  • boltfox20 bags th... 2012/09/16 18:08:15
    boltfox20
    +1
    Apart from it being against the law, how is this immoral or dangerous?
  • bags th... boltfox20 2012/09/17 01:49:42
    bags the Indigenous Guru
    Other cultures see marriage differently, they see women differently. Some men g their green card and their own personal slave, sexually and otherwise. Someone who asks that of you would have little compunction against demanding a lot more.

    And you don't see the immorality of this? If I have to explain......
  • boltfox20 bags th... 2012/09/17 20:24:46
    boltfox20
    +1
    That's other cultures, not mine. Not most people's in fact.

    In America, slavery is illegal, so is spousal abuse. If a woman married a man to get him his green card, and he turned around and treated her like a slave, she could divorce him. If he refuses, she can take him to court. If nothing else, she can flat out leave. There are many options for the abused spouse.

    The typical person wanting to marry to get their green card doesn't want a slave, they want opportunities. That's why they come to America in the first place. They hear the idiotic tripe about this being the land of opportunity and they come looking for it. When they don't get any before they have to leave, they look for options to stay longer. This is the fastest option.

    Not only is it very unlikely for the person gaining their green card to turn on the spouse, they are so desperate that they are willing to pay for all of the expenses, plus a little extra. There are actually people who make a living off of marrying people to get them their green card.

    Marriage does not mean living together, it doesn't mean having sex, it doesn't mean sharing anything at all. Marriage is the legal joining of two people into one family. This can be done over the internet, if you know how. These two people never even have to see each other, if they have the right connections.

    So, the danger is very minimal.

    So, how is it immoral to marry someone so they can get their green card?
  • ✿Britt ... boltfox20 2012/09/18 13:42:22
    ✿Britt ❤'s Steven Tyler✿
    perfectly worded. :)
  • Daniel O'Hern 2012/09/16 12:59:52
    yes
    Daniel O'Hern
    +1
    Only if they put out on demand. Compensation. They also would have to be attractive
    And young
  • Terrance Earle 2012/09/16 09:04:17
    Undecided
    Terrance Earle
    +1
    Not if it was for a green card alone. If there was real love between us and we'd stick together forever, yeah! ^_^ But I'd have to also wonder what her definition of forever was because mine isn't till we get bored.
  • Treasure ♥ijm♥ 2012/09/16 04:41:33
    Undecided
    Treasure ♥ijm♥
    +3
    Only if I loved them....
  • Fran-Halen 2012/09/16 04:06:34
    Undecided
    Fran-Halen
    +1
    I know a younger guy up here who seems to be leaning this way.
  • M A 2012/09/16 03:56:19
    no
    M A
    +2
    Unless they were very rich
  • Just Jenn for Now 2012/09/16 03:53:09
    no
    Just Jenn for Now
    +3
    Not if I don't love them. Marriage is a mutual binding of two who love one another - or rather, that's what it's meant to be. I can't stand any who marry for "convenience" or self-benefit as the main reason.
  • No One 2012/09/16 03:50:35
    no
    No One
    +2
    No I would only marry someone if I was in love with her. I would marry someone if it happened to be someone I loved and it would happen to mean the person would get her green card but not just so that she could get her green card.
  • ilstarwars 2012/09/16 03:36:10
    no
    ilstarwars
    +1
    My uncle did.
  • David 2012/09/16 02:32:06
    no
    David
    +2
    Undermines the concept of marriage!
  • Altering_Minds. 2012/09/16 02:27:24
    no
    Altering_Minds.
    +1
    I wouldn't marry someone so I could get on, (and I don't need one I'm american).
  • princess_kelly 2012/09/16 02:14:50
    Undecided
    princess_kelly
    +1
    i meant to hit no...but that is because i would only marry for love and dont plan on getting a divorce
  • Abtidon 2012/09/16 02:04:05
    yes
    Abtidon
    +2
    Then let's see those voted "YES" are they going to marry me for that purpose Lol!
  • 1 cool bro ⚜ 2012/09/16 01:34:23
    yes
    1 cool bro ⚜
    +2
    if she ws nice and not bad lookin
  • Pookie 2012/09/16 01:30:55
    yes
    Pookie
    +2
    of course, its nice to help others
  • bags th... Pookie 2012/09/16 14:42:42
    bags the Indigenous Guru
    And break federal law.
  • Pookie bags th... 2012/09/16 16:18:17 (edited)
    Pookie
    +1
    but i dont think there is a law that says you cant marry someone from another country
  • bags th... Pookie 2012/09/16 16:34:49
    bags the Indigenous Guru
    No, only if you marry JUST to get them a green card.
  • Pookie bags th... 2012/09/16 18:23:48
    Pookie
    +1
    but there is really no proff of that when people do it
  • bags th... Pookie 2012/09/17 01:50:40
    bags the Indigenous Guru
    +1
    They follow you, question your neighbors, ensure that you really are a loving, married couple. You think people don't try this? LOL....really??? You think they just fire off an okay and forget about it?
  • yes
    ❤¸,ø¤º°✿Billie✿°º¤ø,¸❤
    +2
    if they are sexy

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