Would you label a happily married man who slept with another man bi-sexual?

it would depend on what gender he was married to. and if he was drunk or not. perhaps he was and it was a simple little dare that turned into something more.

I would not label him at all.I would however suspect he was NOT so happily married.I would need much more to go on.

nope

If you do it with the same sex even once, you're bi. Even if you never do it again. Being bi means you will go either way. If you did it once, you'll do it again. Or at least would be capable.

No, because I don't put labels on people. I don like them trying to label me either.

I think he would be a[...] not a bi

It is not to judge who is what.. It is a learning experience.

None of my business. Whatever he did and it doesn't effect me,It's his own thing. I'm not his judge.

Look how scared everyone is on this thread! Can we not give honest answers without fear of being poliically incorrect? What a sad commentary on our culture that freedom of speech is now something to fear. Not picking on you Stan, it's ALL these comments.

No it's true. If I was the nosey type I'd say something. In my defense I got older and wiser, just learned it doesn't matter. I don't judge, realistically I don't care.It's a can of worms.

human sexuality isnt as narrow as you think it is i found myself wanting to get eaten out by a woman every once in a while i went through a weird lesbian phase but that was just me being sick of the douchebag guys around like since these guys suck maybe a woman is a better option but i never did it and it didnt last long lol but 2 sexy men together put me in the middle of that sandwich!lol and bisexual men are the best of both worlds they have sex with hot guys they work out bc they have sex in gyms they have a good sense of mens fashion like gay guys do and they would three way with me and another man i say its the way to go

this wife should take the opportunity and get in the sandwich too!

Well cirst of all, I wouldn't label him. What he decides to label himself as is the only opinion tht actually matters.

But anyway, if he were drunk or being stupid or had no choice but to sleep with the other man, then I would say he's not a real bisexual. If he was actually attracted to the man he slept with then he clearly ain't all tht straight.

Most importantly tho he should fess up to his wife and tell her what he did And they should talk about it, bc if he doesn't then THAT makes him a JERK.

stupid sd i picked mor details i need to know mor details b4 i just label somebody

I don't label.

Not unless he insisted on doing it all the time, or decided he "liked" boys too.

I don't believe in labels & don't think it's anybody's business what people do in bed, however the term bisexual means sexual encounters with two sexes, but because someone has slept with the same sex doesn't mean they ares heterosexual, bisexual or homosexual. A married man who masturbates dosn't get labeled masturbator or bisexual, nor does someone who has experimented with cigarettes or pot make them a smoker, pothead or drug addict! Labels are bad! On the other hand my religious upbringing tells me that anyone who has sex with another, other than their spouse, has committed adultury...which breaks one of the ten commandments & was also once punishable by law, yet still a label & if not conscentual by all parties involved can be publicly humiliated by the party hurt by the situation, otherwise it's no one's business! Not only am I against breaking vowels & commitments, but it's also a lie when you're married & cheating!

I would label him bi-sexual if he was attracted to another man but did not act on it. Because he did act on it, I would label him a jerk. Not because I'm homophobic (I'm not) but because he cheated on his wife.

None of my business...lol

Why wouldn't he be bi-sexual? also not happily married, or he woudn't be doing the cheating, especially with another man! Gross!

I'd label him gay and a cheater who obviously isn't happy.

Interesting question!

I consider him GREEDY! Pick and team man! :) lol GREEDY!

well for one he wouldnt be happily married if he was sleeping with anyone else man or woman! he aint getting any at home and that would make him unhappy till he got himself some nooky nooky ughugh wackwack oh yea!

it depends if he was testing his abilities

I would label him a part-time bumboy.

I would say that anyone who is married and is having sex with someone who isn't their spouse ISN'T happily married...

Wretha

He could be gay and living a lie... He could be bi and just experimenting... he could be straight but needs the money... who knows?

Little boy blue.... he needed the money...woah!

I don't feel the need to label them. But I can tell you for sure there are tons of them out there, and big, masculine men that the average person wold never suspect are secretly having sex with other men.

The dirty sods.

OOO sods more Brit talk. Love it :)

Glad you like it.

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From what I understand, there are a number of levels (6 or 7) of sexualities from total hetro to total gay and that these levels are very common. To be totally bi, a man would have to have absolutely no preference between male and female. (Sure gives him a lot more sex to choose from). I know a young man who told me he had sex with a guy once just as an experiment and he didn't like it. To my knowledge that was the only gay experience he ever had. Of course, many gay men have had sex with women, also as an experiment. That would not mean they were hetro or bi.

But mostly I would call him a cheater.

No need to label and no need to judge him.

That's what I said! Yay!

A liar and a cheat. If he took vows and had a relationship outside of his marriage, then he is a liar and a cheater. period. And the sex of the other person doesn't really matter-lying and cheating is lying and cheating.

I'ld label him a cheater; the common,denominater of a relationship is trust.